Does it just depend on whether or not their wife is okay with it? If they are married and are happy with their wife, why would they want or need to see other women naked? These are things that have always bothered me and I wanted to get other people's opinions, men and women.
2006-08-18 04:03:52 · 23 answers · asked by me 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Hello Kimberly, speaking as a happily married man I don't see a need for a husband to go to a strip club! The only exception I could see to this would be if it's a bachelor party and that is where they are giving him the party. Otherwise, if your happily married with a good sex life, you can get everything you could ever possibly want at home! I know I do. There is no reason in the world for me to go to a strip club. I live with the greatest stripper in the world! If husbands and wives would just talk to each other about any and everything, life would be so much easier.
Good question
2006-08-18 06:50:35 · answer #1 · answered by Ekimo 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dont think that its ok for married man to go to strip clubs i think the same way you do if they have a wife and they want to see some action why dont they just ask their wife or if they are not happy anymore let their wife know and maybe they could change some things around or try something else.
2006-08-18 11:12:12 · answer #2 · answered by La fresa04 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All women are different here. My wife was totally against it until she heard of a few of her friends going.
In a party setting it can be fun...and my wife even got her own lap-dance (which she ruined by talking the whole time).
If the guy is going by himself, in secret..he may need some therapy.
2006-08-18 11:15:33 · answer #3 · answered by hellsbells 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband does it every once in a blue moon and go with his guy buddies (who all happen to be married btw) and have a guy's night out kind of thing. I don't mind it at all. Sometimes they would take us wives along with them. They just get together and have fun, to be with each other. As long as he doesn't do it every night, I don't see what the big deal is. It's like men looking at porn once in a while. Not a threat at all.
2006-08-18 11:22:00 · answer #4 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not believe it is right for a married couple to go to strip people, Marriage is a very serious businesss,it needs a lot of hard work, dilligence.the fact that one or both couple like to go to such debasing places shows lack of committment,and lack of contentment or satisfaction.It is therefore necessary to re-evaluate the basis of the relationship when this desire takes centr stage in a relationship..it is obviously a negative sign.
2006-08-18 11:14:55 · answer #5 · answered by Covenant Family Network Intl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i honestly dont see anything wrong with men going to strip joints whether they are married or not. my husband goes once in a while. i dont find anything wrong with it and then when he comes home we have amazing sex. now he does not go often, just with the guys from work after work to have some drinks, relax and just have a good time.
as long as you have a good base of communication betweens the couples there should not be a problem. plus once in a while i go with my girlfriends to watch the "guy revues" and my husband has no problem with me going to see guys stripped either.
2006-08-18 11:14:18 · answer #6 · answered by lasalle_1986 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
On the fence ,i am sure my wife would not approve.I have been married for 22yrs and never have gone.
just recently(like yesterday) i was considering it.
I am not sure I want to pay for that type of entertainment when i have been getting it for free even if the occasions are few and far between nowadays.
2006-08-18 11:22:36 · answer #7 · answered by desayunogratis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One thing that sticks out for me is line "If they are...happy with their wife..." That's quite an assumption. I don't mean to say the guys not a complete jerk, but just that this may represent deeper issues going on, particularly if he's hiding it from her.
2006-08-18 11:19:00 · answer #8 · answered by Whattodo? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I fail to see the benefit of strip clubs all together. It wouldn't even be okay with me if my brother or my father went to one, much less my boyfriend or husband.
2006-08-18 11:12:15 · answer #9 · answered by OOO! I know! I know! 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes it's ok, and like wise for the women too. You are no there to get sex you are just watching pretty women dance.
In my mind it is no worse than tha schwanz in a male ballet dancers tights. But you NEVER hear women complain about that !!!
2006-08-18 11:10:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋