Marriage & Divorce - 18 August 2006

This Sunday is my last day off with my husband before I go back to college. As we have been experiencing a great deal of marital strife lately, I really want to do something fun and special so that maybe we can rebuilt a bit of what has been lost. I really appreciate any serious suggestions.

2006-08-18 10:34:43 · 15 answers · asked by brandys_peep 2

as opposed to women who want you to pay?

2006-08-18 10:32:34 · 17 answers · asked by ellen s 1

when they know that most women will simply agree with what they have to say and not really give them the advice they need? Agreed, most men aren't good about discussing feelings however men's minds are TOTALLY different that women's minds. You need advice from someone who speaks the language of men to offer a point of view you hadn't thought of. For example, I have seen COUNTLESS questions from women who's husband or boyfriend flirted with another woman and the woman asks other women's opinions. What do you think another woman would say? duh. Now from a guy, I would tell you that men by societies standards are only allowed 2 emotions, happy and mad. Men get low self esteem JUST as easily as women however are not allowed to discuss it. Other women provide an instant boost of confidence and self esteem that make guys feel 10ft tall and bullet proof. Half of the time guys are just looking for this boost, not necessarily concerned with trying to cheat on you. That was just an example...

2006-08-18 10:25:52 · 22 answers · asked by Mike Hunt 5

I have been married for six years and have a two year old daughter. my husband and i fight alot. things were good up intill this past year. we have said awfull things to each other. from name calling to putting each other down naming every flaw about each other. i love my husband but in my point of you i have only said things in retaliation i just wanted to hurt him right back. i always apologies as soon as i say them but he doesnt. I feel completely alone. we never talk and when we do we fight. we also never have sex, i think the last time was like 3 months ago. we dont say i love you, hug or even kiss. he constaly therthens me with cheating on me when i dont listen to him. i feel i am a good wife i take good care of him i am a stay at home mom and i wait on him hand and foot my husband does nothing for him self. it really is hard for me to let him go he was my first everything. but i am tired and i feel unapriciated. please give some advice

2006-08-18 10:23:05 · 9 answers · asked by jannygirl31 1

Serious answers only Please. Men are seemingly insecure about using sex toys on their female partners. Curious to know how ladies feel about using a sex toy that is meant purely for the pleasure of their man. Same sense of insecurity? Inadequacy? Would you feel that you are not good enough?

2006-08-18 10:18:53 · 20 answers · asked by Esoteric 3

It's an entrepreneurial business now.

2006-08-18 10:15:25 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

if I'm not in the mood he asks for "other" things. If I'm not in the mood for "it", I'm not in the mood for anything. I try to please him as much as possible, but there are some times I just don't want to. Is it wrong for him to pressure me even though we are married?? Or should I just give in and "play" whether I feel like it or not???

2006-08-18 10:13:04 · 18 answers · asked by luvRoush99 2

if some 1 askes you to marry them and have sex with them what sould you do? I am having a problem with that.

2006-08-18 10:12:39 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

How would you act if your husband called you the "c" word? I want to see if it bothers you as much as it does me.

2006-08-18 10:06:41 · 49 answers · asked by ? 6

locked "in" box? I want to fill it with motor oil or something rotten, I'm not a big fan. She's a really rotten person, who's mean to everyone. I figured I'd put a dead fish or something in there while she's on vacation. Should I tell my wife? I'm sure she wouldn't approve. What would you tell your significant other?

2006-08-18 09:59:44 · 23 answers · asked by Sausage Fingers™ 3

Last nite I walked into a bar and surprised my husband. He wasn't the least bit pleased of my arrival, didnt even offer me a chair so that I could sit next to him, and ignored me up until I left. Later, I over heard him ask the FEMALE bar tender if he could do a "bodyshot" off her body. He denies he said that, but i heard with my own 2 ears. When me and my GF went to leave, I approached him to tell him I was leaving and that because he was wasted, I wanted him to come with me, he refused to leave, despite the fact that all his friends had left the bar by this time, and I was leaving, so he basically knew noone there. After 10 years of marriage, am I in the wrong to be mad about him wanting to do a body shot off another woman and do I have the right to be mad AND suspicious as to why he would want to stay at the bar by himself? (Well, the cute bartender was there). I ended up leaving him there. He's alot bigger than me, there is no way I could have forced him. I left in defeat

2006-08-18 09:53:22 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

Am I wrong? My husband was supposed to be fixing his moms floor in her new house today and I'm home all day taking care of our 17 month old son. My husband went out to breakfast with his buddies, then did half the floor and then decided that he was going to go to the lake with his friend and just do the work later. I have schoolwork to do as well as take care of a very energentic child and I don't get any break. Should I be jealous or mad (because I kind of am)?

2006-08-18 09:49:43 · 26 answers · asked by mommy_2_little_man 2

We have an 11 month old little boy and I need to insure that I have physical custody of him. However, I don't work because I care for the child. My husband has changed a total of 5 diapers and has never feed him or anything. It would break my heart to have my son raised like his dad but how can I insure that I will have my son. I do want my husband to have visitation rights though.

2006-08-18 09:45:22 · 17 answers · asked by beautifulblondie2004 2

We have been married for 7 years and have a 1 yr. old little girl. My husband works a regular 8 to 5 executive job and I stay at home. I take care of our little girl, cook, clean, laundry, do bills and manage our investments - so I am busy and tired too. But every night after an hour of TV or so we go to bed and I look forward to some adult conversation - but if we aren't talking about sex or he isn't expecting to get sex - he falls asleep in the middle of me talking to him. If sex is on the table, he is awake, but conversation from me and he is OUT. What's up with this? I have a college degree, read and stay up on current events, politics....I don't talk about shoes or makeup or gossip - what is going on????

2006-08-18 09:31:24 · 17 answers · asked by Heather L 2

when you just like hard sex. my friend said her husban complianed because she never likes to make love., Its always hardcore does it mean anythin or is it just the way she is.

2006-08-18 09:31:21 · 5 answers · asked by prettygirl5 2

I realize this whole thing is not typical of most husbands to be considering, but in a strange way I think this could really boost her confidence level and strengthen our already great relationship. Please let me know if you are male or female in your response. Thanks.

2006-08-18 09:23:47 · 27 answers · asked by answer man 1

Really I have tried every thing to get Mr Perky perky again, and I am just about fed up!

2006-08-18 09:23:30 · 22 answers · asked by mz.hunnie 3

My kids go around all day saying they need, need, need. That's expected - they're kids. My husband, who works nights, tells me all the time he loves me and how much he wants me. So that's good, right? How come it feels as if everyone around me only needs more? I give love, I give everyone what they need. I try to talk to my husband but it's like he turns off his hearing if I'm talking about anything other than sex anymore. How can I get him to have a real conversation with me? He's mad at me right now. He just left for work. I was dealing with the kids, who were all arguing, and he started in with the "you need to come in here and bribe the kids with ice cream". I'm trying to keep peace with the kids and he wants sex. He never tries to ask me my opinion on aything any more. All he talks about is sex and work. I'm glad my husband loves me and wants me. We've been together for 10 years. But - now I think he needs to start listening to me. What do you think?

2006-08-18 09:19:48 · 23 answers · asked by puzzleraspie 3

2006-08-18 09:18:50 · 9 answers · asked by ralph 123 2

We have been married for 14 year and have a 13 year daughter. We have been fighting and at the verge of separation all thru. The only reason why we did not get separated was our daughter. We were told it is not good for young kinds. Now it is kind of unberable. and I feel my daughter is old enough to absorb the shock. Is she really old enough? In another words what is the ideal age of a kid when his/her parents can get separated?

2006-08-18 09:18:03 · 10 answers · asked by The curious 1

I'm just having such a great time... leaving my towels wadded on the floor and empty Coke cans on the counter... eating cookies in place of meals... staying up half the night and drinking wine and reading trashy magazines. Am I terrible to enjoy his absence?

2006-08-18 09:16:08 · 9 answers · asked by Bunny*Run 4

2006-08-18 09:13:43 · 13 answers · asked by Patience T 1

2006-08-18 09:13:03 · 6 answers · asked by leor00 2

My husband an i have been married for 8 years. I had 2 kids when we met, then he and I had another. He had some bad things happen to him as a child from an older step brother. He is a wonderful man to me. He says he doesnt believe in cheating..he treats me like a queen, he just doesnt ever want to have sex. We did alot when we were dating, and after we got married. But a few years ago, it just stopped, I have talked to him about this issue over and over, he says he is just tired, and the kids wear him out, and he says we didnt have time to be a couple before marriage, just an instant family. But he says he wouldnt trade that for anything in the world. He loves and treats all the kids the same..He is my best friend. We tell each other everything...I just try and have sex, and he falls asleep or doesnt seem interested. When i talk to him about it, he says he is very attracted to me, he is just tired. Could he be having an affair. He has strong morals against that...

2006-08-18 09:08:50 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

It was a kiss, it meant nothing. I don't know why I even did it.

2006-08-18 09:06:24 · 12 answers · asked by ease_e_goin 2

What is the sexiest thing to do to turn on your man and make him go crazy for you???

2006-08-18 09:05:39 · 16 answers · asked by Jersey Girl 1

My husband says that I am selfish because I like to hang out with my family ALOT, I do because he doesnt want to do anything he is a in house man I like to be out having fun, I love him but he thinks that I dont allthough we been married 10 years, I ask him why dont he leave he says cause nothing better is out there. when he is sweet he is the sweetest when he is being a jerk nothing can compare. I love him so much, He says I am just using him, I would never use him if only he knew how my heart beats for him........... I just dont know what to do any more we just keep making each other miserable, someone help

2006-08-18 09:00:36 · 14 answers · asked by Robyn D 2

Me and a friend have have this what has now become a tradition of going to a certain truck show on the first day. well now his wife is finnaly deciding it's not fair that she can't go and says he needs to break the tradition and take her yet she is always going over and talking to one of her friends house to talk without him or going running someplace with this friend for an hour or so. I understand they are married but I also understand they are to seperate indviduals as well
My question is does his wife have a legitimate reason to throw a fit
for something that happens one day a year when she constantly does her own thing?

2006-08-18 08:59:51 · 25 answers · asked by wardancer 3

how do you get your bridesmaid to slim down for your wedding ?
i mean i want to hear from peaple that have been in situations like this, that are overweight and have been in weddings , what did you do ? did the bride tell you straight out ? or did you make an effort yourself? im not trying to be mean , i just wanted some suggestions, or maybe i can just choose a dress that goes with her body size? ?

2006-08-18 08:49:39 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous

Who can help me with legal paperwork for the divorce? I want financial information, so filling out long forms, but we are doing this amicably and just need mediation/ help with legalities of separating assets. No kids involved. We have been separated for well over a year and this is just taking too long. He cheated on me btw so don't even go there with moral highgrounds about divorce! Plus, HE's staying in the condo which may take forever to sell. Any advice would be appreciated!!!! Thanks!!!!!

2006-08-18 08:47:19 · 10 answers · asked by justme 3