Serious answers only Please. Men are seemingly insecure about using sex toys on their female partners. Curious to know how ladies feel about using a sex toy that is meant purely for the pleasure of their man. Same sense of insecurity? Inadequacy? Would you feel that you are not good enough?
2006-08-18 10:18:53 · 20 answers · asked by Esoteric 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Personaly, I wouldn't use a sex toy with my boyfriend. I think that my boyfriend is plenty for me. For me, it isn't as romantic or intamit with sex toys. I think that it should be stricktly my boyfriend and I..No toys!!!!!!
2006-08-18 10:24:20 · answer #1 · answered by Justine 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I didn't realize there were toys for guys. I guess as long as they are just toys I wouldn't have a problem with it. I know I would be interested in my man using toys on me. I think he's a little unsure about it - thinks the toy can replace him or something. Not going to happen.
2006-08-18 17:25:32 · answer #2 · answered by serndip80 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand your question, but the reality is it takes women a lot longer to get there than men. If a man is willing to unselfishly help her get there too, it works for everyone. In most cases then man gets there and the woman is left hanging. Even worse so the man can feel good about himself she commits a an unselfish act and fakes it. Why can't a man be asked to commit an unself act once in a while?
2006-08-18 17:26:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men using toys on themselves...the area that you are using the toy may make her think you are a little on the gay side. That might be where the problem is. I know, I know, it feels good, and you are probably not gay, I'm just thinking that is where she is coming from.
2006-08-18 17:36:34 · answer #4 · answered by Simply Lovely 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think using sex toys is fine as long as you are both open to it.
It is not a question of either person being good enough, it brings more into the foreplay and lovemaking.
Just don't use them everytime you have sex. Some of them heighten both of your orgasms and that is a good thing!!
2006-08-18 17:29:19 · answer #5 · answered by ladyw0llf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think we are more open to it, because women just see it as that extra mile of pleasure. Guys don't lke it because the "macho" side of them says that they can get the job done w/ out that. I would be all for it if my guy was okay with it. I'm more into vibrators, not anything I'd put inside myself. I think guys get weird about that... maybe external stimulating toys would put them more at ease.
2006-08-18 17:25:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We use to use it before now my sex toy has been collecting dust in my drawn for a long time. I just dont need that fake stuff when my husband gives it to me when I want it. Its not as pleasing.
2006-08-18 17:48:13 · answer #7 · answered by **What??** 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex toys should have nothing to do with insecurity. It is just another tool for experiment or variety. How do I feel? Frankly it's unnecessary in my case. :)
2006-08-18 17:24:47 · answer #8 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I would be instantly turned on by a man that is secure enough to broaden his horizons and spice things up by letting me use a toy on him or letting me watch him pleasure himself. That's sexy!!!
2006-08-18 17:39:43 · answer #9 · answered by Nicole H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think my fiancé would be horrified if I brough out a sex toy! I don't have anything against sex toys if my man finds it exciting; personally, however, I do not find them to be a turn-on.
2006-08-18 17:26:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋