Can you get a divorce because of lack of sex?

Question

Really I have tried every thing to get Mr Perky perky again, and I am just about fed up!

Answer 1

It is called irreconcilable differences. You really don't have to have a reason to get divorced. Hopefully you've made your husband see a doctor first and also considered things like Viagra. There is more to a marriage than just sex so if everything else is good hopefully you can find a better solution than divorce.

Answer 2

My dear, Sex is a part of life and human relationships, Humans ( Men and Women) are programmed genetically to have regular sex! If he is not interested in having sex, i.e making love with you anymore, its pointless wasting the rest of your valuable life waiting for Mr Perky to get "perky" tell him how you feel about it though. Communicate.

Answer 3

You can get a divorce pretty much for anything. I would say refusal of sex would be form of spousal neglect, unless of course it is medical related and your spouse has no control over it. If that is the case you might want to try medication and counseling. I would suggest counseling if either are the case. Intimacy is a big part of marriage and if your spouse doens't want to be intimate a counselor can help you find out why.

Answer 4

You can get a divorce for just about anything, that could fall under irreconcilable differences. Just remember the average divorce costs about $20,000. And since the cause for divorce is questionable, your recovery might not be great

Answer 5

why did u bother geting married ,if sex is all your interested in?come on didnt u get married because of love.ask your self if i were to get in a wreck tomorrow and become disfigured. or get burned in a fire, or get cancer or just all of a sudden loose your sex drive would u expect your spouse to stand by u through thick and thin? u people amaze me u have no concept of what love or marriage is really about. its so much more than just sex .do your self a favor look up 1st corinthians chapter 13 and see if your so called love matches up. chow baby

Answer 6

I remember working 2 jobs and every night my wife want to have sex I can't because I worked 6 days and 1 day off ... for last 2 years and she tells me that I can't take it anymore and I want to end marriage and I told her, is that only plm you have righ tnow is sex? is any others plm? she said no! I told you willing to give up marriage for that??? one sex out alll good thing I have done? Ok, I got up and dress up and left. stay my friends house. she talked her mother and she said why are you doing this. You not being fair to him he work 2 jobs and 6 days work and 1 day off. to support you going to school and all that and she said wow, what have I done? she called me asked me to come back and talked about it and we did and I was willing to make sex life better why she understood what the plm was and I willing to make it better and I did smiling. now it been 9 years and 2 kids and 3rd on the way and still have sex. and improved much better smile.

Answer 7

you can divorce for whatever reason! the question is do you love him enough for him to see a doctor to help him out w/the problem??? there is medication out there ya know. sometimes we women can't use our sex appeal for what seems to be a problem w/mr. happy. good luck to both of you.

Answer 8

I think you should be able to. Remember a marriage is not legal unitl it has been consumated therefore not getting any sex is definately grounds for divorce.

Answer 9

you can divorce for anything..but if the other party does not want the divorce they can "contest" the divorce and then it takes a long time for the divorce to happen.. then you have alot of lawyers fees and you might even have to get a mediator..that costs money too..good luck

Answer 10

like billions before you , you have discovered that the quickest path to celibacy is marriage. this issue has been an attention getter for millenia. what to do? that would take volumes. many of which are out there awaiting your perusal. best of luck btw there are many alternatives, of course, just be conscious in your choices, eh :-)