It was a kiss, it meant nothing. I don't know why I even did it.
2006-08-18 09:06:24 · 12 answers · asked by ease_e_goin 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
these are not the answers I expected.... thank you all for being so kind. Let this be a lesson to you all... you might be fine for a day... but it will catch up with you, and it feels worse than food poisining. DON'T DO IT IT'S NOT WORTH IT!!!
2006-08-18 09:18:34 · update #1
I'm sure it will eventually go away to some degree but maybe it is there for a reason to remind you of just how wrong what you did was and to force you to work harder on your marriage. For every action there is an equal and opposite reaction in this case the price for that kiss is hard core guilt. Just imagine the price for actually doing more....
2006-08-18 09:13:46 · answer #1 · answered by rkrell 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It will go away when you are ready to let it go away. But, please promise yourself that next time you have this "urge to cheat" that you find another way to deal with it than letting it rule. If you have been married for 5 years and "cheat" then it is not fair to the relationship itself, or to the two people involved in it, to be cheating, however it comes about and however shallow or deep it may be. Marriage is based on trust and loyalty. if that is broken then get out of the marriage!!! Then you don't have to be in a distrustful, dishonest situation where you "have" to even wonder about cheating~!
2006-08-18 16:17:34 · answer #2 · answered by U-man 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should hope not to remind you of how bad it feels to betray someone. You took the step to marry now take your medicine when you need to. Would you want your husband to get over it and never have that horrible feeling you're having. I think not. Just learn to live with your actions and look at this sick feeling as a good thing cause he could have left you and now how bad would that feel feel. You'll be fine. as long as you stay faithful. One day you'll look back and realize it has gone.
2006-08-18 16:14:28 · answer #3 · answered by cindy s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if you talk about it, not necessairly with your spouse but maybe a counselor or someone like that. Your conscience is eating at you and I can tell you really feel bad about this because if you didn't you wouldn't have that sick feeling. Give it a couple of times talking about it and getting it totally off your chest.and hopefully out of your system. Good Luck
2006-08-18 16:20:13 · answer #4 · answered by flutterby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will need to reconcile the feelings in your self. Was it in the heat of a moment or was it planned. Also do/did you want it to go further??? Was it done in uncertain conditions (i.e. drunk) ? Finally openness is a good thing. You might want to be the person to break it to your spouse before they find out from a second or thrid hand source.
2006-08-18 16:15:45 · answer #5 · answered by g m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wash your mouth out with soap. Slap yourself on the butt for being bad and forget about it.
2006-08-18 16:11:59 · answer #6 · answered by Tony 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop been a baby about it,it only a kiss.you can have fun.jump the fance once in awhile.don`t tell him anything and for get it.
2006-08-18 16:18:46 · answer #7 · answered by julie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a kiss isn't quite something to feel sick over. So...get over it. Now...going out and getting laid. Well...then you would have every right to feel miserable.
2006-08-18 16:11:44 · answer #8 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just learn from this and don't let it happen again, now go and give ur husband some major love.
2006-08-18 16:27:39 · answer #9 · answered by WhyNotMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he has probably done way worse things at strip clubs and stuff and never told you so dont worry about it.
2006-08-18 16:35:50 · answer #10 · answered by Punchy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋