I realize this whole thing is not typical of most husbands to be considering, but in a strange way I think this could really boost her confidence level and strengthen our already great relationship. Please let me know if you are male or female in your response. Thanks.
2006-08-18 09:23:47 · 27 answers · asked by answer man 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No. It cannot make your relationship better. You cannot improve a marriage by turning outside of it. Always work on things by turning toward your partner and telling them how you feel, and what you need.
A threesome is risky because it can raise questions of inadequacy, cause hurt feelings, or create jealousy. A threesome is a whim, a fantasy. Is it really worth putting your marriage at risk for a thrill?
2006-08-18 09:32:14 · answer #1 · answered by Otis F 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Different strokes for different folks...I guess. I'm female and I don't really know what to say about this. This is obviously between you and your wife but in my honest opinion, you don't really have a marriage if you're going to sleep around with other people. Now what do you mean by boosting her confidence level? You mean in bed? Gosh, there are other ways to do that without letting her sleep with other men don't you think? How does she feel about it? Does she know you're thinking of doing this? Does she approve? I hope this isn't something you're forcing her into doing. You're essentially turning her from a wife into a whore. You have a great marriage already (so you say) but why not try a less degrading method if you want to experiment? Sorry to sound harsh but you asked an opinion.
2006-08-18 09:56:10 · answer #2 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't even consider that as an option. She doesn't need that to boost her confidence level. And I really don't think that this will strengthen your relationship. That just gives her the ok to cheat on you. Is this what kind of relationship you really want? P.S Female
2006-08-18 09:32:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am female, if you have a good relationship, letting her have sex with other men could cause conflict, i mean, if she really loves you, then you should be enough and she shouldn't want other men.you seem to be a good husband because you are putting your wife first and it is very sweet of you to do that, but if another man being in her life is all that can boost her confidence, that is just wierd.
2006-08-18 09:44:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you did say wife right? why would you let another man be with your wife sexually when you are married and actually that is suppose to be a special thing between husband and wife
why do you think the wedding vowels are all about in the bible it says that is adultery as well and if your wife is wanting to she needs to get a grip when i settled with the" one" the thought of me ever being with another man was never a faint chance.
if she isn't satisfied then tell her watch a movie buy a" toy" or something maybe she is the one not satisfying you????!!!!
2006-08-18 09:38:35 · answer #5 · answered by PAULINA S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't sound like a "secure" relationship when she needs "another man" to boost her self-confidence. Perhaps it would be better to address the issues in some other manner (therapy? counseling?)
IMO, this kind of stuff really complicates things.
2006-08-18 09:44:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
fem here...............uuuuuuuhhhhhh that would be a hell no. If the relationship is so great, why would you ever need more than the two of you in your bed???? Maybe you can spice it up another way by being very romantic and setting the mood just for her to feel confident. Give her ALL the attention.
2006-08-18 09:41:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you even want to? Do you not take your marriage vows seriously. Why do people even get married anymore. You as the husband need to boost her confidence level. Apparently you are not doing your job as her husband you have to send another man to do it.
2006-08-18 09:32:22 · answer #8 · answered by Right Wing Extremist 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-26 00:36:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she was relly happy then why would she want to sleep with another guy? You can boost her confidence level in other ways besides letting her sllp with another man! Female
2006-08-18 09:53:03 · answer #10 · answered by ♥mommy of 4♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋