Marriage & Divorce - 19 August 2006

i love her much and i dont want to loose her,i cried a lot in front of her.tried her to tell me to help.Now i cannot think any thing else. i am totally helpless even my family members are not helping me out of this sitution. i cannot work in my office. i am uncomfortable with people. the things i like to most now i dont see any interest in them. I am in search for some who will help me in sitution and give me perfect solution. Now she is pregrenant and after preganancy i dont want condition to be very worst. so before preganancy i want a solution. i dont want to give divorce to her . i just want to live a normal life like other people. i want to convience and change her mind from cheating me. i am totally helpless and i think i need a good friend or adviser in this sitution other wisse i am going to be mad. I hope some one will definitly think on my sitution and will give a good solution for my happy married life. i dont belive in second marrige as it could happen once again so please

2006-08-19 23:47:17 · 25 answers · asked by Rutuja S 1

I got married at 17 because I belived that I was truely in love with my husband. Then a few months later I found out I was pregnant. And he completly changed. He got very verbally abusive, and has a major anger problem. I have tried to work it out, I went to counceling because he wouldnt, but nothing has changed. He wont spend any time with our son. We havent even slept in the same bed in over a year. I am so tired of being miserable. What would you do????

2006-08-19 23:25:53 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-19 22:45:13 · 16 answers · asked by rick james 1

2006-08-19 22:41:40 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am facing divorce and I have a beautiful almost 4 year old son. My husband came along when my son was 18 months, but I can't live with his lies and cruelty anymore. Since we moved, I don't have a support network anymore and feel guilty that my son will have to go back into daycare. I will have to go back to work in order to leave this man...I just need a little advice or encouragement. Thank you!

2006-08-19 22:39:42 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

Dear all,

I might sound ridiculous but I feel so lonely & not loved enough.

Two days ago was my birthday and my husband just told me happy birthday. and Thats all ..

We are newlyweds even and I planned such a cute simple birthday celebration for him last month.

I wasnt doing that to expect the same kind of effort from him. But I am afraid when I did that it made him more anxious on what to do for mine and ending up doing nothing.

Whenever I told him I like this or that he'd say that he'd get it for my birthday or so forth. Well nothing happened..

I want to excuse him, probably he is overwhelemed or shy or just confused. But in the same time I feel i wanna burst into tears .. I am not myself with him and I cant let go of this silly matter and I dont want to tell him it might push him away.

2006-08-19 22:37:57 · 36 answers · asked by Amber G 1

me and my husband split for a while this year and we have now got back together. i feel happy and glad to be with him and will never go through this again. but i feel so depressed and awful for leeting my marriage get into this state in the first place. i cant concentrate and im trying very hard to put a brave face on to my husband and everyone but inside im almost dying from the pain and guilt. what can i do? i feel scared and sad all the time.. how can i stop myself feeling so bad?

2006-08-19 22:37:45 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-19 22:30:19 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been with my husband for 4 years married for two. The last two years have not been easy as he gets very defensive and has a bad temper(he's in the marine corp). In the last two years he has: thrown his wedding ring at me, punched the steering wheel in his truck repeadlty, hit and thrown things across the room many times, crushed a bag of potato chips and dumped it all over my living room floor, slammed his fists down on tables, and he has cursed saying **** you, or shut up,... I have tried to stayed with him and work through his anger and help him open up and communicate. This behavior has improved in the last 2-3 months and he communicates a lot more, but i really worry about future behavoir. He is working on it but i don't think its gone. We don't have any chidlren.....do you think this behavoir will continue into the future? This is abuse right?

2006-08-19 22:21:58 · 22 answers · asked by dlmvm0612 1

very loving. and I love meeting people.

2006-08-19 21:37:40 · 16 answers · asked by reds is hot 2

just curious

2006-08-19 21:34:32 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-19 21:33:24 · 15 answers · asked by SARINA S 1

She always has food in her mouth.

2006-08-19 21:18:30 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

When we were dating there was no date without one or more long kisses, and beginning of marriage too, now he says that he's not into that anymore and i feel like making love is not love anymore but just a physical act. there's nothing wrong w/my breath or anything like that...he said 'ah i'm just not a good kisser anymore'...lame excuse i think. i tried to talk about it but i only get lame sort of answers and i'm really not sure if this is normal for men to "grow out of passionate kissing" or what? Because I think the reason is he doesnt love me anymore or care...i kinda feel that's so true and its killing me inside. so bad but he doesn't care.

2006-08-19 21:07:08 · 11 answers · asked by Ultrabrite 1

After having sex with my wife I still new to rub one off Its that a problem.

2006-08-19 20:54:30 · 6 answers · asked by ( tito ) 2

2006-08-19 20:44:11 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Tell me all the juicy details!

The cutest story gets ten points!

2006-08-19 20:29:34 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Sometimes I also even listen to them.

Who can come up with an adjective that describes just how truly generous I am being?

2006-08-19 20:24:10 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

MY WIFE HAVING PROBLEM WITH HER ANAL AND SHE CANT HELP ME SO I HAVE A GAY MAN WHO I GET FROM HIM WHAT I NEED IS THAT WRONG? AND HOW CAN I TELL HER THAT?

2006-08-19 20:14:26 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am in process of adopting a child . mom los t the children due to drugs, she was given 2 years to get them back but she refused to .now, i want this child to grow up in a normal enviroment , ofcource with time ill let her know but should she be in the picture? the child id 5 years of age.

2006-08-19 20:12:38 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

What brings life and engery back to your soul.

2006-08-19 19:46:09 · 9 answers · asked by soozeeq 1

My ex pays child support cause its court ordered, our 4 year old daughter loves her father but he sees her once every 4 weeks to 6 months, and I have given him a open door to see her when he wants

My little girl asks why don't daddy see me I don't talk bad about her dad who is 40 or his new wife who is 20 , and I don't care to (every little girls wants her daddy to love her ) but my ex cares less unless its time to play disnelyland dad , what can I tell her without breaking her heart ??

2006-08-19 19:42:47 · 10 answers · asked by twistedsingle 4

The chats i see are just flirting.Do you think they can stop at just that.plz help women or men answers.

2006-08-19 19:41:26 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife had an affair 4 years ago when I was in jail serving out traffic warrants. I was only in for 17 days and she slept with some guy off the internet and a couple twice. Recently I read some emails of a sexual nature from a guy and I confronted her and she said she met him at a hotel and 'it was just sex, get over it'. I emailed the guy and he said he only chatted with her online and never actually met her(he was also in another state). Now she says it was just a trick to try and get me to think she was cheating and cheat myself so she could get me to stop holding her cheating while I was in jail over her head. Would you buy a story like that? Ladies are you really capable of something like that?? Just to teach a lesson??? Or is she lying out her ***?? Im not an in and out of jail kind of guy, I decided to serve it out instead of paying the fine. I live on a budget, what can I say?

2006-08-19 19:23:52 · 58 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know this guy who say he loves women and that he only have female as friends and that he does not sleep around with any and everybody. He's not in a serious relationship he prefers to be single and he told me that he hasn't slept with anyone in a long while so my question is.... What would you think? if a guy who has many female friends and says he's not having sex with them.

2006-08-19 19:23:44 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

he says it,s harmless but i have my doubts.how can you tell when he,s cross the lines.After chatting to them about there tops off that they brought up and he went along with he say now he,s going to have sweet dreams. Is that crossing the lines .he saids its not and thats the ones i get to see.If i asked a guy for his address JUST FLIRTING. he would be very upset. Can men get in the chat rooms and chat with out sex.

2006-08-19 19:21:55 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-19 19:06:06 · 15 answers · asked by sybil 1

2006-08-19 18:42:37 · 20 answers · asked by pumkin 1

My 2 year old has to go to her father's for a week every other week, and it breaks my heart every minute that I'm not with her. I go to counseling, I go to church, I go out with family and friends, and still my heart and soul hurts so bad. I cry when I go to sleep, I cry during my dreams, and I cry when I wake up. So far nothing makes it better. I know the only thing that will is to have my little girl by my side all the time, not just half, but her father and the courts don't see it that way. They don't care how great of a mom I am, they think taking me and her brother out of her life for half of it is a good thing. Me and her father don't even fight. He just doesn't want me around. So they push me and my family aside like we don't matter. One day when she turns of school age they may take her away from us even more, leaving us with only seeing her every weekend. We live far from dad that's why I'm so worried. I'm scared I'm going to get real sick soon too. What should I do?

2006-08-19 18:38:34 · 16 answers · asked by booboobear 2

how much you support to get $$ (how they work ?) what if person make 2000$ and mouth and say pay 150$. ????????

2006-08-19 18:31:39 · 10 answers · asked by cici 1