MY WIFE HAVING PROBLEM WITH HER ANAL AND SHE CANT HELP ME SO I HAVE A GAY MAN WHO I GET FROM HIM WHAT I NEED IS THAT WRONG? AND HOW CAN I TELL HER THAT?
2006-08-19 20:14:26 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you want forgiveness and a marriage I would be honest but if you want out because the marriage with her is not what you want anymore then I would just tell her that it's not what you want but I would not tell her that your leaving her for another man that would be too much for one person to handle! Your naughty!!
2006-08-19 20:48:37 · answer #1 · answered by Jill1012 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it's wrong that you do that to your wife. better tell her now. but be sure your wife does not have heart disease or else she'll have an attack. be careful on your confession. tell her the truth. don't try to save yourself or make any excuses that she's not able to help you. first, HELP yourself. stop that anal thing. there's a lot of position to make your sex life better. not only anal. second, RESPECT your wife. how to tell her? just be sincere and promise her not to do it again. be sure you'll do it. good luck man.
2006-08-19 23:35:52 · answer #2 · answered by misscoyote 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop. I have no personal problem with homosexuals. That being said, you never cheat on your wife. You should be ashamed and oray she will stay with you. You are not expressing true love to her. If you want a divorice then get one. Otherwise, stop the cheating. How would you fell if she cheated on you because your penis wasn't big enough to get her off? It is not a question of male or female. It is a question of faithfulness.
2006-08-19 20:22:15 · answer #3 · answered by CHAD K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her your a pathetic excuse for a husband because you go behind her back like a little boy would. Then leave so she can find a man instead of a boy.
2006-08-19 20:19:12 · answer #4 · answered by ~Gate~ 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you're not being faithful to your wife she needs to know it now. If you're having unprotected sex with a man (and assuming you have unprotected sex - i.e. no condom - with your wife also) you're a higher risk to get & give AIDS/HIV so you'd better get tested. You have to figure out how to tell her - if she's not into alternate types of sex and you have to have them it seems you married the wrong woman - did you know about these needs, and her inability to satisfy them, before you got married?
2006-08-19 20:20:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are a weak, pathetic excuse of a man! Why get married if you like it up the butt that much? You put her heart and her health in jeopardy for a cheap thrill. Get a clue!!!
2006-08-19 20:45:54 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As far as "Is that wrong?" Hell Yeah... You are putting her life in danger and you want your NEEDS granted. Thats sick... Stick your dic* in someone elses shi* hole and you ask if that is wrong..... YES!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Thats what I want to know too. What the heck do you counsel????? Need to know this so NOONE I know will ever go to you!!!
Let your wife know what is going on and let her make the dession if she wants to stay with you or not.
Maybe she will want a 3some. Who knows???
2006-08-19 20:34:12 · answer #7 · answered by Mary D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is so wrong, as a gay guy I still know the importance of manogamy and you are a disgrace.
2006-08-19 20:20:18 · answer #8 · answered by foxtel_iq 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well sweetheart you will just have to comefully out of the closet and let her no everything.A letter works let her read it so that way istead of telling her you wont get itterrupted.
2006-08-19 20:20:18 · answer #9 · answered by Victoria 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course it's not wrong to have gay sex behind the back of your heterosexual wife with whom you've pledged monogamy for life. Just say "Honey, I'm doing some guy behind your back, and come to think of it, behind his back too, now can you please pass the mac and cheese?" If she can't handle this, there is something wrong with her.
2006-08-19 20:19:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋