2006-08-19 18:42:37 · 20 answers · asked by pumkin 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
leave him, before he bring home a disease, like aids
2006-08-19 18:51:19 · answer #1 · answered by animalloverinbama 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I realize you both have been through alot and you probably still love him. Sounds like your holding on and hoping he will change.
Communication is important! I would talk to him and tell him whats on your mind and how much you feel about him. Ask how he actually feels about you and why he's not ready to change. What do we need do to have a normal marriage and have a faithful marriage. Guys cheat for a reason! There has to be a reason behind it. Most guys who are married cheat if there wives are not satisfying them sexually. If you've done your best in communication and if he still doesn't change. Than, tell him he needs to choose you or the other girl! Ya, you'll feel hurt but he needs to understand you love him and how much you feel about him. If he doesn't respect your hopes and change than the best possible solution is to separate. If you do he will probably realize he made a big mistake than it would be to late. Let me tell you you seem like a nice quality girl and if he doesn't change I believe there is a guy who is 20 times better than him waiting for you. Take Care!!
2006-08-19 19:47:23 · answer #2 · answered by Shawn D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well , I tell you that he will never quit.Trust me. I have never meet a man that did not cheat at one time or another. If you are not willing to share him, you better get out, and take all that you can with you.
2006-08-19 19:08:02 · answer #3 · answered by dianesaunders2003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have no kids, then I am sure you can walk off and start a new life!
If you have a kids then perhaps you would like to think about them but in any case, you must be self reliant and that is good to start anything now onwards.
2006-08-19 18:51:16 · answer #4 · answered by ~Raju~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave the bastard, take him to the cleaner and publish compromising photos of him and his ho at his job, church (if applicable), emails to all his contacts, watch The First Wives Club 24 hours a day.
2006-08-19 19:00:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why your man starts cheating you?Have you asked the question to yourself.If you have no answer then you start cheating on him.After that you see the drama.If you could handle it then you win the game.
2006-08-19 19:13:48 · answer #6 · answered by Sona420 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
before taking any descision,you must get your husband in open talk,exchange your views openly and frankly,give some time to it,even after that it does not work,then first u go for separation,then divorce.
2006-08-19 20:12:08 · answer #7 · answered by yours h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is not ready to change, then you change.CHANGE the locks on the doors.
2006-08-19 18:54:05 · answer #8 · answered by MollyPolly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is not ready to change, there's nothing you can do but leave.
2006-08-19 19:07:52 · answer #9 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him, take him for all he has got, find somebody with AIDS and send her home to him. That'll teach him a lesson for screwing with you babe. You don't deserve this!
2006-08-19 18:54:15 · answer #10 · answered by montanasamra 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself if you are willing to wait until he is willing to change. I would hope your self-respect would prevail and move on.
2006-08-19 18:49:17 · answer #11 · answered by rrrevils 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋