I know this guy who say he loves women and that he only have female as friends and that he does not sleep around with any and everybody. He's not in a serious relationship he prefers to be single and he told me that he hasn't slept with anyone in a long while so my question is.... What would you think? if a guy who has many female friends and says he's not having sex with them.
2006-08-19 19:23:44 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He obviously doesn't kiss and tell, and keeps his sexual activities private behind his closed doors and he has a right to his privacy. Men can have a lot of female friends and visa-versa. There's nothing wrong with friendship it is a compliment to ones character to know people enjoy hanging out with you. Thanks for asking.
2006-08-19 19:34:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well unless u can prove other wise id say he's telling the truth.. first thing that implies that he is, is the fact that he's open and honest about it.. most guys that are using women for booty calls hide it.. U cant just assume he's lying unless he's given u reason to believe hes lying.. doesnt mean trust with all ur worth , sure keep an eye out for signs that he may be leading u a line of Bull, but its very well possible he's telling the truth.. so dont automatically think the worst of someone unless they give u a reason to suspect them of being guilty.. btw im curious, u say he's ur "friend" has he had sex with u????? or even attempted to??? cause if not.. then ur one of his many "Friends" that is 1. a woman, and 2. he's not having sex with .. lol..
2006-08-19 20:11:00 · answer #2 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's for real, then he's an ideal type of man who is respectful of women, not like the sea of all alike who don't see anything wrong with having sex with women you're not even married to.
Do see HIM as weird? I DON'T! I think that a man like this is one of the few in the world that are worth dating and marrying.
2006-08-19 19:31:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know a few men like that and they aren't gay nor are the really sleeping with any of their many female friends. They have morals and easily get along with females I guess. There are women like that with men.
2006-08-19 19:28:55 · answer #4 · answered by Simmy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's confiding something about his sexlife to you...hmm...not sure really. What would be the benefit of confiding such a thing to you in particular or do you suppose he just likes the topic of sex and answered a question you asked. Does it really matter to you and also,
do you feel he's an honest person and couldn't you just take his answer for what it is?
2006-08-19 19:37:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like my x boyfriend,right now as im sending this to you he has stayed this girl who lives just up the road from me,(saw them out last night) then he'll go out tonight with another girl i know (she's sharing a house with others,but i know the owers of the house) then another on sunday night who's flat is across from were i work.years ago i've tryed to tell them,but he told each one that im his x and will do anything to get him back, we only dated for 9 months it was my best friend who told me what he was doing when we werent out together she also knowes about the other girls cos she is living with his brother.this has been going on for 15 years thats how long i know him.i havent dated anyone in a long time as my trust in men is fading,i feel so sorry for "M & D & V" .
2006-08-19 20:49:21 · answer #6 · answered by cupcake 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my best friend is a guy and he has alot of female friends. He too says he is not sleepn with any of them and yes I believe him, for the simple fact I have alot of guy friends.... does that mean I'm sleepn with them? cause I'm not. Its just sometimes the oppisite sex get along better in friendships than the same sex does.
2006-08-19 19:29:38 · answer #7 · answered by shauna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its natural for guys to get along with girls rather than guys, Opposites attract. I myself i quite a few girls for friends. I like most of them and i know they like me. but we would never sleep with each other because we have respect for each others girl/boy friend
2006-08-19 19:29:45 · answer #8 · answered by Christian B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he says he's not having sex with them, he probably isn't. I have lots of girl friends...but not "girl friends"...It's really OK
2006-08-19 19:29:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would believe him until proven guilty or u could ask a few of his friends.
2006-08-19 19:29:22 · answer #10 · answered by ginie_in_a_bottle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋