i want to be a perfect wife help?

Answer 1

Then are you telling you have a perfect husband?

It is almost difficult to become a perfect wife. But you can try these things.

1. First learn home management.
2. Do your duty sincerely.
3. Observe the hobbies and habits of your husband.
4. Give him advise, if he required.
5. A good husband should be deaf, a good wife blind - means sometime even if you know or saw something unacceptable of your husband, don't try to create a scene. you must be very tactible. Somewhere someone said: Wisdom is everything, but tact is everything.
6. For a happy living - Common sense and logic are very important. This applies to both man and woman.
7. Join him in his pain and joy and make him to do the same thing to you.
8. Practice meditation to keep your brain calm and cool.
9. Practice patience.
10. Be friendly with all your & his family members
11. Teach him to appreciate your cooking and other good things.
12. Be cooperative in all matters including sex. If he is happy in sex, he will be happy throughout. That is the mentality of a man.
Generally, men are very careless, non-sentimental, non-committal and very self-centered. They have brains and lazy to use it.
It is very difficult to find such an understanding husband and a caring wife. Women are too demanding when it comes to Gold and costly sarees/dresses. You have to manage money according to the income of your husband. Never compare other husbands or wives with your husband. This is more dangerous. Do not make unnecessary friends with neighbours or call them to your home frequently. Never join them in gossip.

Now read on:

A GOOD WIFE MAKES A GOOD HUSBAND [D.S.KATARIA]

If man is a hero on the world’s stage, woman is certainly a heroine. The drama of life has to remain incomplete without their combined actions & performances.
Husband & Wife are two persons who have chosen each other with the design to be each other’s mutual comfort & entertainment. In marriage they have bound themselves to be good humoured, affable, patient & joyful, with respect to each other’s drawbacks & perfections to the end of their lives.
Although man is the head of the house, he cannot bring happiness to the household. That must rest with the woman, it is her greatest privilege & the sum of all that makes a man happy consists in the well choosing of his wife. It is the wife who can improve the husband; it is she who can mend his ways, when he goes wrong; it is she who can cheer him up when he is depressed; it is she who can stand by him faithfully & unswervingly in success or sorrow.
A good wife is one who is helpful, affectionate & respectful. She should share with her husband as many of his activities as possible. She has to know his habits, temperament, fads, idiosyncrasies, opinions, etc. She must be capable of adjusting herself as far as possible or agreeing to differ if necessary. The responsibility of the wife is, therefore, great & it calls for all her energies & endurance. The history of the world reveals examples of wives who carried out responsibility under the most difficult conditions & accomplished their tasks with flying colours. The goodness in a husband comes out in its best form if his wife helps him in his endeavours.
Not long ago, wives were considered play things or pretty dolls to be gaily dressed & shown off to others at public places & shopping centres. Today, wives enjoy more freedom than in the past. They work as engineers, doctors, lawyers, & executives. They share their husband’s joys & sorrows on equal terms. As the nearest relation of her husband, the wife realises his genuine problems & helps him to overcome his difficulties.
The wife must so act that she increases the prestige & fortunes of her husband, & brings renown & credit to him. She must also take care to see that as a wife she does not boss over her husband & gloat over the advantages she may have upon him that makes her prominent in society.
Even Queen Victoria of Britain was unable to win her husband’s love & affection until she came to him as a wife - so the story goes.

[Extracted from Wisdom &
collected by K.R.Jagannath]

Is this enough my dear lady?

Answer 2

I just asked my husband what would he consider to be a perfect wife.. LOL he said me.

But I have to say just be his best friend, communicate and always be available. Find ways to increase romance and always cuddle! There really is no such thing as a perfect wife, but there is so much to be said for being a best friend and more. Just expressing that you want to be perfect for your spouse shows how much you care about him.. that means more then you will ever know.

Hugs Mel

Answer 3

Well u mine as well give up now, cause NO ONE IS PERFECT.. the best u can do is to ask ur husband what he expects from u and try ur hardest to give it your best shot but realize that u are never going to be perfect.. But u can do the best u can at loving him and taking care of him, and i just hope that he returns ur feelings to u, and does his best to be a good husband,, but dont stress urself out on being perfect.. because NO ONE IS..

Answer 4

It is difficult to be perfect. No matter what you do, he may not accept it in full. What u can do is love him from the bottom of your heart. Show him your passion towards him. Share patiently what he has to say. Discuss things openly --- anything. Ask him what he don't like about you. If both are open enought, he will tell you instead of you guessing your answer.

Answer 5

The perfect wife is the one who put out and keep mouth shut...

Answer 6

There is no such thing as the perfect wife. Be yourself and love him. That is about as perfect as you can be.

Good luck.

Answer 7

hello,
my advice to you, support your husband to reach his goal and future
respect him
love him
grow old with him
but there is something i must tell you , you must think also how he will be perfect husband to you ????????
you and him must melt in each other become one person and everything will be wonderful

Answer 8

be open and honest and be by his side when needed be his best friend and talk to him about anything and everything without judgement good luck

Answer 9

Be yourself!