Marriage & Divorce - 19 August 2006

I have suffered really bad back ache for about 3 years now, and i think a good massage will do me some good. How can i get my hubby to give me one! He never does he always says i will do yours if you do mine first! This i do and within 5 minutes hes asleep, then the next night i say my turn first, but then he just says "you never give me one" Its driving me crazy! Any ideas on how to get him to give me a nice massage without him moaning

2006-08-19 10:34:08 · 16 answers · asked by noone 3

If you say i love you to your girlfriend or wife...But don't say your in love with them..What does a man mean by that..I ask my husband if he was in love with me..He said well i love you..We have only been married 6 months...

2006-08-19 10:24:31 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I no my husband loves me I hear it all the time. But when it comes to me not wanting him to do something that he really wants to do (like go out drinking and the driving home) he get into a fight with me and always says I AM MY OWN MAN!!! Makes me fell like all I am doing is bitching at him and treating him like a child. I guess my question is... Does he really care about me as much as he says he does?

2006-08-19 10:20:38 · 9 answers · asked by headdy30 1

I often wonder why the family court system doesn't care about the parent's emotional sense of well being, but only what's in the best interest for the child. Don't they realize that two happy parents are what's best for the child? Or even one. But they think that I'm suppose to be ok with them taking control over my child when I have done nothing wrong. What is in the best interest of my child is for me to decide, untill I do something to have that right taken away. My daughter is bounced back and forth every week, and one day soon she will be limited to only weekend visits when she starts school. Her father has many faults and puts her at risk many times along with his family. I and my family have not, but that doesn't seem to matter in family court. So who will get her? The parent who only wants to be a part time parent, or the one who wants to be her full time parent?

2006-08-19 10:20:10 · 6 answers · asked by booboobear 2

2006-08-19 10:12:44 · 12 answers · asked by robert8481 2

As I have done in the past, I am once again accusing him of cheating. There is no evidence that he has ever or is now being less than faithful. My accusations are based entirly on my own insecurities and unfounded suspicions. He is now as he has been in the past angered and offended at the accusations. Many of you helpful answerers have told me that his anger at my alligations toward him are a sign of guilt. If he is now at his wits end and so angry with my blowing this (basically nothing) way out of proportion, that is within a fraction of an inch of dumping me, does that mean he is extra guilty this time ? Or is he just sick and tired of the same old twisted sh...it ?

2006-08-19 09:59:43 · 18 answers · asked by foxyraley 2

About a year ago my wife and I decided to move out of state.. we spent almost 4g to do it and one of the main driving forces in the decision is that her parents lived where we were moving to.
About a month and a half after getting where we were going she got mad and left me.. we hadnt had the best marriage but far from the worst. I said and did some really horrible things to her but she did the same. so now I live a thousand miles away from everything ive ever known.. her parents (The only people I know in the area) wont have anything to do with me.. she moved back to the state we came from..left me with all the debt and bills.. and is telling me its over. What are the chances that a marriage in this condition might have a chance of being restored? I was supposed to go to counseling and all that which I never did.. only after she really left have I taken that seriously. I want to know what I should do to get her to change her mind and come home. This is so incredibly lonely.. HELP!!!!

2006-08-19 09:58:02 · 7 answers · asked by althor989 1

I hear that from every guy I know that is married. Is it true or are they just saying this for some kind of sympothy? If it is true why? It doesn't make sence that if you love some one enough to marry them why would you stop having sex with them?

2006-08-19 09:49:16 · 19 answers · asked by misskatalyst 1

My husband of almost 8 years and I haven't had intercourse in our entire marriage. I feel like he hasn't tried enough to fix the problem (or even figure out what it really is). We've seen counselors and I've done therapy by myself. He's taken pills (although he won't usually tell me when he's taken them) and seen a couple doctors. But MONTHS go by without even an attempt or I"ll ask, "When can we try?" And he'll say, "Soon" or "I don't know."

What woman has to beg for sex? I'm pretty and get asked out a lot. Now I've seen a lawyer to begin divorce proceedings, but I'm so scared it may not be the right thing to do. I have no reason to think hubby will change. What to do?

2006-08-19 09:45:21 · 77 answers · asked by Anonymous

Every married person I work with seems to hate their spouse. I've been married for 2 years and things are going great. Should I be worried that there might be an expiration date on marital bliss?

2006-08-19 09:32:50 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-19 09:32:39 · 5 answers · asked by trainer1 1

2006-08-19 09:30:06 · 9 answers · asked by Superior Man 1

I am a stay at home mom whose 1 year old daughter doesn't have her own room. I have been looking for a job but haven't had any luck. We are barely making it as is and our daughter deserves better. My husband is trying to get a job with a phone company and 2 people who work with that company said it could take 6 months to a year before he got hired. He would get paid alot better if he got the job. At his current job he could possible be promoted to manager but don't even know if that is going to happen. I am at a total loss on what to do...should I leave to go to a place where daughter can have better or stick it out for richer or poorer?

2006-08-19 09:28:01 · 12 answers · asked by mckt81 3

Is there any way I can convince my son that he is making the biggest mistake of his life. He wants to marry a woman who never leaves the house; with exception of visitng her own family.
We are a very active family and do so many things together. Our oldest son is never there, and hardly ever visits us, because of this woman. She can be very nice, and they seem to get along well, but she can't be normal. She won't even be able to bring her future children to the doctor or to kindergarten because of this! Its crazy !

2006-08-19 09:27:59 · 14 answers · asked by bluebyou 4

When i first decided it was a good plan and God's plan, to wait for sex till marriage one of my ideas was that if i waited, i would have a happily ever after marriage and everything would always be fine. I thought my wife would never be able to yell at me saying "you never loved me..it was always about the sex" like i heard in my own household a few times.

But...I think i wasn't being rational with my earlier thinking. There still will be fights and even a possible divorce, even if sex is waited for. I think just because we overcame one temptation doesn't mean everything will be fine always.
So..can i have some new positive light on why one still should wait? Will the marriage be at all better if the couple did wait?

2006-08-19 09:16:18 · 16 answers · asked by ryan s 1

I have been married for 22 years. My husband has never had a strong sex drive, but I have. We have gone as long as 2 years without sex, but generally have it only twice a year. When we do, it is incredible. HE is very sensitive to my needs and I adore every part of him. IT just isn't as important to him as it is to me. I have made it through these past 20+ years with self gratification and self denial. The other night, I found myself out on the town, alone, and I met a man. I was so strongly attracted to him and he to me. HE walked me to my car and kissed me. IT is funny, but at first, I really felt nothing. Then I thought about the last time I had ben kissed like that and I honestly couldn't remember. When I kiss my husband, he turns his lips to the side as if he is kissing a frog or something...Anyway, all this was going through my mind when I realized just how much I love kissing. Real kissing. I kissed him back and the passion started. After some fondling, we had to break it off as we both had to get home to our spouses. I can't stop thinking about this man. I never realized just how much I need that kind of touch.

2006-08-19 09:05:22 · 44 answers · asked by WannaCheat 1

I'm 8 months pregnant still working full time, and house keeping at night. My husband is a good man and I always do a lot of things for him, on the other side, I always have to ask when I really need him to do some for me and still he doesnt look happy when he has to. When I try to talk to him about it, he wont say much, but he says he really loves me, and the only thing he would do later is put a candy bar in my purse.!! I'm tired, I've only been been married for 1 year, and I'm almost givin up, what else can I do? Please help.

2006-08-19 09:02:00 · 10 answers · asked by mon2711 1

To you, is it all just sex, even if you do love her? Is "making love" a female's romantic notion that doesn't actually exist? HONESTLY

2006-08-19 08:58:05 · 14 answers · asked by Shebaby 3

My fiance of 8 months told me that he doesnt want to go through the with the marriage and he loves me, he just doesn't knwo if he's in love with me. a day before this we were picking out wedding songs and dancing aroudn the kitchen together. His dad passed away 3 years ago, and he's never really dealt with that. He 's been depressed and cant see it. He is very unhappy and bbecause of that I feel as if he can't be hapy with me..what do i do? I pacekd a bag and went home for a week...and im waiting on him to call me!

2006-08-19 08:57:48 · 38 answers · asked by theprncess1019 1

Then she tells me she doesn't know if the sparks are there, she has to see. But she always says i'm boyfriend material blah blah blah. So basially do you think i'm gonna get the pussy before she says i like you but there are no sparks

2006-08-19 08:41:16 · 6 answers · asked by raradaone 2

And when he presented it to you it was hanging from his dick?

2006-08-19 08:23:04 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay so if you are getting married in New York and you think your spouse was married before in California, is there a way to know about it or find out about it? I am thinking that the marriage was a confidential one so is there a way to find out about it. Also, when applying for a license in New York, what happens if they don't tell them about it? Are we legally married? What happens if I find out about it later on in life? Please Help!!!!!

2006-08-19 08:12:42 · 14 answers · asked by sexystarfish 1

2006-08-19 08:11:43 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

My daughter has recently been seperated from her husband. He has threaten to take there son away. Can he legally do that with out going to court first?

2006-08-19 08:09:14 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

of a happy marriage!

2006-08-19 08:00:55 · 42 answers · asked by Little miss naughty 5

My wife used to wear high heels & sexy boots b4 our son was born. She also loved to have nasty sex and even talked about us starting to find another man to join us in the bedroom. What can I do to get her back to the way she was?

2006-08-19 07:48:41 · 25 answers · asked by Bill Allen 1

My friend is alot bigger than me should i go first ? And how to set the mood ? Anyone with experince please help . We bought a box of condoms and lots of lube . Can't wait .

2006-08-19 07:47:02 · 11 answers · asked by none 1

I don;t know how, we were married for almost 8 years and have four kids....is there anyway I can do so he will not fool around anymore?

2006-08-19 07:39:10 · 6 answers · asked by georghennie 2

I need a VERY romantic (Fairy Tale Come True) place to pose the question. She lives in Oroquieta City. I hear Dipolog City is nice but I live in the U.S. and don't know the area. She is 22 yrs. old. What and where would really blow her mind?

2006-08-19 07:34:01 · 1 answers · asked by Steven H 2

I need a VERY romantic (Fairy Tale Come True) place to pose the question. She lives in Oroquieta City. I hear Dipolog City is nice but I live in the U.S. and don't know the area. She is 22 yrs. old. What and where would really blow her mind?

2006-08-19 07:32:45 · 3 answers · asked by Steven H 2