I don;t know how, we were married for almost 8 years and have four kids....is there anyway I can do so he will not fool around anymore?
2006-08-19 07:39:10 · 6 answers · asked by georghennie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Probably not...but the only thing you can do is butter him up daily, nightly...men cheat for ego, not sex. They want to conquer, so play games with him...the old damsel in distress, but don't let him know you are playing a game. Be prepared that some men cannot get enough ego strokes from any one person and some men always need new in their lives...sorry to be so blunt, but if it makes that much difference to you, I suggest that you consider moving on to someone more suitable to your lifestyle, someone that will make you happy. Good luck
2006-08-19 07:48:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to stay with a man who cheats on you? You need to be a good role model for your kids and be strong. Dont let your kids think its ok to treat people the way you are being treated.
BTW - Go to you Dr and get tested
2006-08-19 08:33:16 · answer #2 · answered by Stewiesgal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could send the kids off to grandma's and take a weekend for yourselves. Sometimes have 4 children can wear you down and you think you have no time for your husband. You have to make the time for him and for you. Marriage is work with the biggest reward.
2006-08-19 07:59:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't change people only yourself. You are not the one doing anything wrong he is. If someone loves you they don't do things they know will hurt you. Why would you want someone who doesn't love you? Stop wasting precious time,Get out and find someone who respects and loves you and let him find someone else to cheat on. He's only doing what you are allowing.
2006-08-19 08:19:59 · answer #4 · answered by darowdomo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know why weman want to blame theirselves for their husbands cheating. But if he's gonna cheat then thats exactly what he's gonna do. And there is nothing you can do to stop him. Why always worry about what he's doing, where he's at who he's with? If you don't have trust in your marriage then what do you have? I divorced my husband when i found out he cheated 1 time. That's the ultimate betrayal!!!!!!!!!
2006-08-19 08:08:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him
2006-08-19 07:44:48 · answer #6 · answered by Hannah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋