To you, is it all just sex, even if you do love her? Is "making love" a female's romantic notion that doesn't actually exist? HONESTLY
2006-08-19 08:58:05 · 14 answers · asked by Shebaby 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No, I am afraid I don't agree.
Making love is for true. However, the pre-requisite is LOVE. Making love is an expression, it can be slow and easy, a quickie, at a public place, on a kitchen table, down right filthy or just smooching all night long at times. The important part is that love making happens, when it is with one partner all the time. You just can't make love to too many people.
Love making is the expression of intimacy. When the expression is superficial, it ends up like simple sex. There is no definition, but the feeling of being in it together. It happens, when words start to fail you with expression of love that you hold inside your heart for your woman and you wanna hold her in your arms and make her feel that you are completely HER's, mind, soul & body. Lust can't be ruled out in any relationship, but when coated with love it just adds fuel to the fire.
I would like finish on a bit poetic note, don't expect any rhyming though.
Two individuals indulging in physical pleasures : SEX
When two become ONE : Love Making
P.S. It's not that men don't make love, they surely do but you gotta have YOUR man.
2006-08-19 09:18:39 · answer #1 · answered by Dr. Knowitall 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
26 12 months old married lady with a 2, 3 and six 12 months old. i imagine there must be a stability between both. i imagine once your married it truly is continually making love, a minimum of for me it truly is. So sex and making love are actually an analogous to me. i recognize not each and every man or woman feels that way. i stumble on that usually the most stimulating sex is even as My mom in regulation drops via and takes the youngsters out to snatch dinner and my husband and that i have a restricted time to get the interest carried out. the urgency makes it experience like your doing something naughty. yet there is also lots to be stated about an evening of lengthy sluggish or maybe not so sluggish sex. blending it up keeps it interesting. Plus, after we've a quickie, it type of feels we both choose only a liiiitle more beneficial later that nighttime, and so the circle is going.
2016-11-05 04:33:07 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it is possible to make love AND have sex at the same time. Making love denotes a tenderness, a level of love that is above the norm. It is entirely possible to have sex with no emotional ties. I find, as I get older, that sex without the feelings is meaningless. In fact, the closer you are to someone, the better it feels. The mental aspect must be fulfilled along with the physical need.
2006-08-19 09:10:34 · answer #3 · answered by GOSHAWK 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex should be an expression of two peoples love for each other. It's not just sex for sex sake. I have more fun, and more enjoy pleasing my wife first than I do finishing myself. Why? Because she's the reason I'm there in the first place, and have been for 29+years. Just blowing off in some anonymous stranger or the old wham bam thank you mam holds absolutely no interest for me at all.
2006-08-19 16:17:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To a guy it's sex. To a girl it's love. Neither is correct. Guys want sex, girls want love. The compromise is that the guy will say he loves her and the girl will have sex.
Love and sex are mutually exclusive, but terms often used interchangeably. If you can have both it's great but not necessary.
2006-08-19 09:10:21 · answer #5 · answered by ManOfTheHour 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should always make love not just have sex. Having just sex is something you do when you don't really care about the other person all your doing is taking care of yourself.
2006-08-19 09:10:04 · answer #6 · answered by robert d 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can only speak for myself.. yes I do make love to people, and I have. But I've also had sex with people. I make love to those I care about and have sex with an arbitrary someone. Some women too easil equate love with sex, and for us it doesnt have to be.
2006-08-19 09:05:44 · answer #7 · answered by aoshi_69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I prefer making love. A lot of foreplay, massaging, g spot stimulation. For me it makes the sex part of lovemaking better.
2006-08-19 09:21:56 · answer #8 · answered by diaryofamadblackman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rompin stompin sex and emotional love making . Both physical acts and both have their place in the bedroom.
2006-08-19 09:24:36 · answer #9 · answered by teddybar67 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It isn't always sex for a guy, but it is for the majority i think.
it all depends on how his mind is programmed. you just have to focus on what is right ( and most men don't)
Here's the way out:
2006-08-19 09:50:31 · answer #10 · answered by get_unlost 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋