2006-08-19 08:11:43 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You are so normal your picture is in the dictionary under the word normal.
2006-08-19 08:16:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Was he in the delivery room for the birth.
I am not married but I watched a show where the man said he did not want to bring his wife so much pain ever again.
He felt the pain of childbirth was his fault and he kind of felt shy about putting sex demands on her when he felt she was not healed. I would want to share the childs birth with my man but the old days when the man was in the waiting room passing out cigars were the point best. Men cant handle pain and that is why I feel God gave the birthing pains to Women but then we are to forget the pain. How do you explain a woman with 5 to 8 childeren or more. Ask him to go to the doctor and discuss the birth with him and with you together. Opt to leave the room kind of make a wink to the doctor and let the doctor have a little one on one time to express his anxiety about sex now. O this is just my opinion and I gave it a lot of thought to having my man in the room or out. Also give yourself time to heal. He can aid in that , give him some time.
2006-08-19 15:31:10 · answer #2 · answered by Nina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well considering your most likely still breast feeding your hormones are still in baby mode. He's just being a nice guy by not hitting on you all the time. But the best thing to do is talk to your husband. If you want more sex ask for it. Don't over think these issues just act.
2006-08-19 15:18:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well having a baby is a strain on the both of you, and especially your body. I'm sure you've been so busy with the baby that you haven;t taken out the time to take care of yourself. You need to give yourself some alone time. Get a baby sitter, and go out with your husband, remind him that before the baby there was only you & him.
2006-08-23 09:03:24 · answer #4 · answered by nycrunner69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, after you have a baby, it takes a while to get used to the different schedule. You have someone other than you and your husband to take care of. Time is of the essence. Don't take it personally, but a lot of women go through post-partum depression, you may not seem attractive to him cause of the way you feel about yourself. It could be a number of reasons, but you should talk to him about it and try to resolve something between the two of you.
2006-08-19 15:19:18 · answer #5 · answered by Shining Ray of Light 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
.OK i think a lot of women experience this and as a couple your lives are so totally rocked from having a child its a large adjustment. On top of all that your hormones are swinging back and forth like an ape on a swing. Contact your doctor she could help you with stabilizing mood swings and help you with your physiological adjustments.
One important thing this will need both you and your hubby's attention to get past this point in your life. Congratulations on the baby and here's to one more of life hurdles.
Signed Tim
2006-08-19 15:46:01 · answer #6 · answered by ssshoebox67 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perfectly normal. Some women need time to adjust to the new lifetstyle of nursing, feeding, regular hours and all then eventually get back to a normal sex life again.
Just be patient. It is only natural to take your time. Your body needs to adjust to everything once again. Don't rush.
2006-08-19 15:18:47 · answer #7 · answered by snorkelman_37 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your husband is not sure if YOU are OK to have sex since you had a baby not too long ago. Talk to him and tell what is inside... I am sure when you tell him that you are ready, he will jump on you right away! ;) Have fun!
2006-08-19 15:18:17 · answer #8 · answered by Просто Я 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't say if this is normal or not. However have you emphasized to your husband your ready for the love and sex again? Maybe he does not realize that and thinks your still healing/ recovering. Let him know your ready, then see what the reaction is.
2006-08-19 15:26:24 · answer #9 · answered by legguy2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh Hun you are normal once a baby comes along things change so much
you may find it hard to believe but honest so much changes
but congrats on the birth of your baby i wish you wealth health and happiness
all the best
respect
shaz
2006-08-19 15:35:15 · answer #10 · answered by sharon B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋