Marriage & Divorce - 23 August 2006

they say...it is on the rise......
we live in a world of how can i reduce the time it takes. this is from, fast food, shopping, phone calls, internet speed, you name it we have tried to cut our loss of time.
my question....is marriage becoming the same way? make it or break it.........just don't waste my time?
and is it a bad thing?

2006-08-23 23:55:05 · 8 answers · asked by rock 4

Both say they love me. I have made no promises, have not lied in any way, or mislead one or the other. One is a sort of cute kitten like purr of a gal, the other, a sort of intellectual counterpart and with 2 kids I adore,so, should I just sit back and enjoy, or, feel guilty?

2006-08-23 23:43:46 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I love my wife and her 3 year old daughter, but I'm getting the impression that she married me for security and really doesn't care much about making me happy. I don't have much money, but I'm in a career field where that can change quickly. To complicate matters, my wife is 3 months pregnant.

2006-08-23 23:10:27 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-23 22:55:46 · 25 answers · asked by inspire_brilliance 1

Dear folks, i have two problems:
1. I ejaculate within five minutes when sexually active with my wife.
2. Squirting of my wife.
Therefore i would like to ask if there is anything that can help me go longer than five minutes and also how do i know if my wife has squirt.

2006-08-23 22:29:55 · 4 answers · asked by Apesh 1

2006-08-23 22:25:40 · 7 answers · asked by Mary 2

This is more because though my freinds call me very romantic and enjoyable and intelligent company, my wife feels that I am unromantic, dull and dumb person. She firmly believes that I cannot make any one happy. Even if a person is happy with me for some time, he or she will leave me the moment they find me talking myself that is my sincere self.
I don't understand, why she gets happy by the pranks and uncommitted lures from the outsiders ( other males).??!! Infact, she finds every other male very understanding and great. She feels there is some or other limitation in my actions and that I cant stand a comparision to any of those fellows

2006-08-23 22:08:55 · 15 answers · asked by fatso_8166 1

i love someone who wants to marry me ,i know that he doesnt love me or any one else he only respects me ,and i think he is ideal but am missing love ,, may love will come after marriage may be not ,, what can i do , he is perfect , i adore him

2006-08-23 21:52:04 · 9 answers · asked by cherryshape 1

2006-08-23 21:32:59 · 18 answers · asked by Chuck Dhue 4

Im 35 and i have never expereced a orgasm though my virgina.
what is the trick, desparately wanting to know...

2006-08-23 21:32:35 · 11 answers · asked by kathleengoble 1

2006-08-23 21:26:12 · 18 answers · asked by sassy lady 4

2006-08-23 21:23:36 · 26 answers · asked by shravan s 2

Kudos to you.

Married people will talk shlt to you because they are pissed off that you aren't as miserable as them.

2006-08-23 21:20:58 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-23 21:07:19 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-23 21:06:31 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

well u c i m not able to have a gud relationship with my hubby cos of my in laws (we have a joint family)my hubby wont live without his parents ,i cant really adjust to their system,its at times very difficult to cope with sum1 always trying to teach you how to raise kids wat to make and all that.now i have managed so far but the fact is that now i m not able to even pretend in front of my hubby that i dont dislike them.its gettin tuffer for me to control my tongue and it ends up in a fight.so wat do i do divorce is out since i like my hubby except for his being too much of mom pa;s son.i know at times that at times if i keep quiet i will not loose anything , pls share sum incidents or motivating words so that i keep my mouth zipped

2006-08-23 21:05:20 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

The last 3 years I've worked about 10 months..... My wife has been working constantly for that time picking up my slack while bills pile up. I felt really bad when she brought this up to me, and I realized I had to start working again. I started looking for work when she told me "I think we should think about seperating" but this time I REALLY wanted to work....We decided I should take the kids and go to my moms for a week to decide what we want out of life. when I got back a had an awesome job within a week and she was so happy.... the problem is I lost it a week later and that brought back all her feelings despite me getting another great job within another week of searching (took me months when didn't want to work). So 3 days ago (the day before I got the other job) I hear those words again "we should think about seperating" the next day when I get the job she tells me she can tell I've changed, and wants me to stay. The next night she says her mind is going back and forth. HELP!

2006-08-23 21:04:22 · 13 answers · asked by mikesmailforjobs 1

the last email she said she love him; he needs to decide; & she will stop at nothing to get what she wants..him. then called me and said, there is something I need to know. (blackmaling my husband) When her husband heard about the affair, he threatened to kill my husband & our kids; including me; so I told him nothing, he believes her; but told me play the game; she wanted me to tell him the truth so that he'd leave her for cheating & mine leave me for putting us in danger; that leaves the doors open for her to make the move; I am currently in couseling w/my husband and pray every night; she feels as if she did nothing wrong; she told everyone in my family I am crazy & made this up; I can't find it in my heart to forgive her, I cut myself off w/my fam? I thought we were best friends; our kids play together & hubby's hang out; my last conv. w/her I really cussed her out, & was ready to hurt her; now I stay in church to keep sane; am I wrong to forgive him and not her; what should I do

2006-08-23 20:54:01 · 16 answers · asked by sassy lady 4

2006-08-23 20:48:08 · 19 answers · asked by burn 3

Please answer honestly.
People answering Internet Porn will be reported to Yahoo!Answers.

2006-08-23 20:44:46 · 4 answers · asked by nickname000 1

2006-08-23 20:42:16 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Whats the cheapest way to get divorced? Both my ex and myself are amacable and there is no children involved. How do I do it without spending hundreds?

2006-08-23 20:40:57 · 7 answers · asked by Les-Paul 3

2006-08-23 20:39:21 · 10 answers · asked by Mary 2

...but if "she" cheated..(maybe due to her unhappiness about his indiscretion) that SHE wouldn't do so again if they get back together ?

Is it realistic for a man to believe that?

2006-08-23 20:39:09 · 14 answers · asked by michael m 2

Ok... this is based of a personal experience, so bear with me and don't get all offended and such. If marraige is supposed to be so sacred, why are participants so "willing" to engage in adulterous activities? I was propostiioned... and found it extreemly uncomfortable... and I want to know why "cheating" seems to be acceptable. (I am not saying every married person cheats... but I have known alot... an aweful lot... who have)

2006-08-23 20:37:19 · 8 answers · asked by Whatev' Yo' 5

2006-08-23 20:31:47 · 30 answers · asked by Ronald Allan Z 1

i fd out that my husband sired a child from another woman then he said i was the one cheating& even physically abused me.i tried my best to keep the marriage because of my 3 kids-i resigned from work, focused on his needs, took care of the house but he continues to treat me badly. i feel so used, abused and alone.is it time to give up?

2006-08-23 20:28:25 · 39 answers · asked by Ma. Cristina R 1

...two people are more like friends then partners?

2006-08-23 20:27:44 · 13 answers · asked by 42 6

2006-08-23 20:14:43 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-23 20:09:18 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous