Marriage & Divorce - 26 August 2006

I feel like this is more like a convenice than a marriage for him. I can be doing so much more, going on vacation, etc. But I just stay at home and wait for him to do something with me, and I am wasting my time. I told him this is gonna cause me to leave him and he is just like I love you please don't leave. I am making my stomach upset and I have this heartburn and I believe it is stress. I don't wanna be with him anymore. Our son is the one who is really hurting because he don't have a dad who is willing to do anything with him, like play ball, ride bikes, etc.

2006-08-26 23:59:44 · 17 answers · asked by gina t 1

My husband and I just went thru a rough time (he had an affair) and we are trying to rebuild things, thought it would be something different to try?

2006-08-26 23:58:45 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband & I were married 5 months, after a 3 year r/ship, moved overseas, when he got called on duty for 4 months. I returned home, he came saw me, and then we did not see each other for another 3 or so months. During that time he was travelling in EU, with mates, whilst I was in my new job back at home after we agreed it was best for our future. Days before he came home, he told me his feelings changed but no 3rd party. He's pushing/pulling but disengaging; it's been 2 months now that ive not seen him. Unlike him, I'm completely devastated; in disbelief: that he didnt even give us the chance to be together & work on getting our r/ship on track. Upset: that he's chosen his army life and mates over a committed r/ship. Devastated: that my future and the man I love are no longer in my life. Hopeful & naive: that he'll come to his senses and remember us. Horrified: that he really does not love me. Incapable of coming to terms with this, of letting go & not seeing the future so bleak..

2006-08-26 23:47:00 · 10 answers · asked by bonbon 1

Its my wedding anniversary today! We have been together 20 years (married for 10 of those years)

2006-08-26 23:38:20 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous

married me about 2 years and still nave not done my paperwork so i can't work or anythink .what can i do?is there any law or protect for me?

2006-08-26 23:21:30 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I would wash the dishes, while you'd go have a beer.

2006-08-26 23:19:54 · 17 answers · asked by Chuck Dhue 4

2006-08-26 23:00:28 · 4 answers · asked by a j 2

i really need to find the real LOVE, the one who will care about me for the rest of my life, have children, love her and care about her? where to find that one?

2006-08-26 22:27:43 · 10 answers · asked by tchaikovsky12 2

Any advice from other ppl within the military lifestyle what i should do and what you think about this ---- after getting married, i will only have 6 weeks of bliss before he is deployed to iraq.... i have heard so many stories of husbands straying and cheating on there spouses via the internet... so not only do i only have to worry about his safety and well been i also have to worry about his infidelity.... i also need to know what and how you would do to cope about moving to a new state and only living there for 2mths b4 you are left alone (im moving from nc to az)....

2006-08-26 22:19:04 · 6 answers · asked by wild_taz07 1

Just curious what states have alimony laws and those whom don't....so I don't screw myself (in case).

2006-08-26 21:51:58 · 13 answers · asked by Rick 4

Everytime he gets caught, he shares a lame excuse if at all for why he did it. He has been caught cheating since we have been married. It has been 7 years and I am concerned about the trust issue and his lack of respect for the marriage. He recently was caught writing to some girl on the internet that he had an affair with. I don't think he will ever change and likes getting caught in these stupid scenarios.

2006-08-26 21:44:16 · 33 answers · asked by mimi 1

I am getting married very soon. But I just don't know if I'm really the one for my boyfriend. And I am scared that it might not work out. I love him dearly. I just dont know if I'm right for him.

He hasn't proposed to me.. we just sort of agreed that we marry. It's also something that I missed. I know he loves me though.

2006-08-26 21:44:07 · 7 answers · asked by Charmaine * 3

2006-08-26 21:18:55 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-26 21:15:11 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-26 21:06:24 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

these r some questions on my mind,, try help me solve these..thanks

2006-08-26 20:45:06 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

I just got my divorce finalized. How should I celebrate?

2006-08-26 20:39:02 · 21 answers · asked by dante_cubit_3000 4

I smoke.. Can't give it up..Tried!
Problem is my wife hates it and the relationship is going down the drain for basically this reason.
My compromise I don't smoke in her presense or at home.
I don't want to loose her and I have not been able to give up smoking. How do I get out of this conundrum?
Have already gone thru one divorce Could'nt bear another

2006-08-26 20:37:55 · 48 answers · asked by shart 1

2006-08-26 20:35:46 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

is it a bad thing?

2006-08-26 20:29:58 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

First off, my exwife, who left me, has called me, for one reason or another, every few days since she left me. Just so you know, we don't have children so we don't have to talk or see each other for any reason. Furthermore, I never contact her no matter what.

I hadn't heard from her in about a week. During our last conversation, we put to bed any and every reason for us to ever talk again. Anyway, she called me the other morning to tell me she had dreams about me.

Why do you think she does this?
I will tell you that it is very hard on me.

2006-08-26 20:20:06 · 22 answers · asked by Cing 4

Is having another person there, without meaningful dialogue, enough?

2006-08-26 20:18:35 · 14 answers · asked by alison k 3

2006-08-26 20:13:32 · 7 answers · asked by bb 1

I 'm a young african woman aged 32,married 3 years back with a man who is 43 of age from my country too.We have no child.He has 2 daughters with other woman.I found him divorced.Meanwhile,I am doing my Masters programme in university far from my home place.In my course work there is a need of doing group work and presentating.We are four in my group,three ladies and one gentleman.Yesterday we had to meet,this time it was at my place since I have got a computer as a tool for working,and the other lady who we were using her room was not back yet form where she went.As usual my husband called,he was able to hear a voice of this gentleman who was also talking with a phone,from that time he don,t believe if it was only discussion,he insinsting that this man is my manfriend,despite the fact that I explain it in total.In this situation I can't conentrate in my studies in more because he is writting alot of disturbing messages.And he has not called since last night.What us not normal.

2006-08-26 19:44:34 · 6 answers · asked by angelina s 1

2006-08-26 19:32:25 · 13 answers · asked by Jake 2

What kind of training classes would you make up for guys? What do they need to learn and know and implement in their lives? Such as "Leaving the seat down 101a" Get creative for 10 points!

2006-08-26 19:22:23 · 7 answers · asked by ananswerer 4

I guess i don't need an affair...have enuf friends in real..maybe just someone with whom i can connect well..in my own space..as an individual...where on the net can i find someone who is real and wants a hassle free net friendship?

2006-08-26 19:20:10 · 10 answers · asked by rudra r 1

My husband and I got married last Dec. when I found out I was pregnant. It was rather quick on the decision considering that we've been together for a 5 yrs now. However, we are both kind of young, I'm 25 and he's 24. We dont have a career set yet let alone our own house. Even though those things are in the process of working out, we each want to live in different places. He loves his hometown and wants to live there close to his family and friends. I, on the otherhand, want to be near bigger cities. Because of this we have tried to accomadate with each others wishes. I've tried living in his hometown, and especially after having a baby, it was lonely and there weren't any good opportunities. So now we're where I feel is best for us. And neither of us are happy. Instead, we are constantly irritating one another. we are thinking that we made the wrong decision about our marriage and now its even worse because we have a baby. it seemslike we're so far apart. what should we do?

2006-08-26 19:11:48 · 23 answers · asked by gela 2

I know both men and women cheat, and I am a "duddett". And for the lady who answered, I am worried about my own backyard.......hence, the question?? Sorry you guys are having a bad night. I wanted to know what men thought, cause I am a women? HEllo!

2006-08-26 19:06:57 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I want to move away were my family is but my husband doesn't is it wrong for me to pick up and leave antways if he loves me he'll end up there right?I've been living under his control and I am not happy anymore actually i'm completlt miserable and the only reason I feel I'm still with him is for security reason's maybe I do still love him but I'll never know if I don't find myself wright after all I'm 35 this year i've spent 12 years with him and 9 years with my ex.who am I?Do I have the right to want to figure my own life out i'm tired of him yelling at me everyday over his life I want peace in my life and I want to believe in love I don't want him to ruin me anymore what would you do?

2006-08-26 19:06:48 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous