I 'm a young african woman aged 32,married 3 years back with a man who is 43 of age from my country too.We have no child.He has 2 daughters with other woman.I found him divorced.Meanwhile,I am doing my Masters programme in university far from my home place.In my course work there is a need of doing group work and presentating.We are four in my group,three ladies and one gentleman.Yesterday we had to meet,this time it was at my place since I have got a computer as a tool for working,and the other lady who we were using her room was not back yet form where she went.As usual my husband called,he was able to hear a voice of this gentleman who was also talking with a phone,from that time he don,t believe if it was only discussion,he insinsting that this man is my manfriend,despite the fact that I explain it in total.In this situation I can't conentrate in my studies in more because he is writting alot of disturbing messages.And he has not called since last night.What us not normal.
2006-08-26 19:44:34 · 6 answers · asked by angelina s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
well speak to him maybe he has some reason.
2006-08-26 19:48:05 · answer #1 · answered by yogesh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try explaining to him that it was just a member of your group. He is having a rough time too, with you being so far away, maybe he just needs reassurance that you miss him and are looking forward to being with him again. I know it's difficult, but for now your studies should come first. If he is being a distraction, tell him that you need some time to get your work done, and then you can talk about it.
Good luck =o)
2006-08-27 02:48:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course its normal put yourself in his shoes for a moment.would u like it?i know i wouldnt and either would my husband.why cant u meet at a library or starbucks?i now you said you have the only computer but you all cant type at the same time so get the info you need then meet somewhere else.hes not calling because hes upset give him a few days or call him and leave him a message saying your sorry.i know your studies are important but so is your marriage so you need to work on both and you need to be as understanding as he needs to be.
2006-08-27 02:56:01 · answer #3 · answered by queen4clewis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband wouldn't like that either. Try to put yourself in his place, like if you called your home and you heard some female voice. Hopefully you can make him understand and try not to be in that position again.
2006-08-27 02:58:54 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you said you explain it . i would think the rest is up to the husband.it sounds pretty bad.i can also see his side .what if it was a female in his room.
2006-08-27 02:53:33 · answer #5 · answered by tia c 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple is that your husband feel incurs and and jealous so better not to do it. ?
2006-08-27 02:49:52 · answer #6 · answered by lucky s 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋