these r some questions on my mind,, try help me solve these..thanks
2006-08-26 20:45:06 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
That question sort of confuses me.... SO they were in love didn't get married married other people but still love each other I guess YEP could be...but normally it ended for a reason...
2006-08-26 20:49:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is still love even without getting married. Everyone has their hangups about getting married and I really dont see why theres such an emphasis on it when you live like a married couple, act like a married couple, then whats the difference when is states that on a paper? If your religion plays a big role on being married in order to continue on in life than I guess you need to go through the motions. A married person can still definately fall in love, lust, crush on etc. We're all just imperfect people who will constantly be tempted and tested in life. It's how you act on these things that makes you go the road you choose. Why do you think so many people are divorced? A lot of people fall in love with the idea of love and not realize that it is not the person, therefore making a lot of foolish mistakes, like.....an affair or a marriage!!
2006-08-27 04:02:33 · answer #2 · answered by Nikie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not leading to marriage doesn't mean its not love. Love and marriage often don't go together (as you will notice by browing through questions here). Marriage takes MUCH more than love. A married person can delude themselves in to believing they are in 'love' with someone else but it isn't real life so it can't be real love. The fact that they are married makes it impossible for them to maintain a full relationship outside the marriage so what they end up with is someone they spend an hour or two with and have some sex with....its real easy to think thats love but add day to day life to the mix and then see what it becomes. So no in my opinion they can't.
2006-08-27 03:50:45 · answer #3 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love doesn't always lead to marriage for all kinds of reasons.
If a married person falls in love with someone else - this happens all the time - that married person, if they have any morals, will keep their marriage vows. No matter how difficult, the other person must go.
2006-08-28 00:55:38 · answer #4 · answered by huztuno 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your question is confusing. Love and marriage dont always go hand in hand. I was with someone for 10 years, loved him dearly although we never married. (engaged 3 years) Ive been married since and the 10 year guy is still my best friend, I love him beyond belief and would do anything for him. We just werent meant to be husband and wife.
2006-08-27 04:03:31 · answer #5 · answered by Nikki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love comes in many shades and it changes all the time. Clearly there is a strong sexual passion in the beginning which both of you adore. This love deepens and changes into something truly wonderful and worthy to be cherished and protected.
You believe that you understand how special relationship is.
imagine what would make you not marry the person ur in love with.
if u have not married a person that u loved, then surelly you are going to fall for a person later in life to fulfill that missing gap in life of love. if this happens it might just be materalistic, as u know for ur self that you rae never going ot marry this person as ur already married, but yes if ur truelly in love then u will be ready to sacrify this marriage for the sake of ur love. so it can happen to any one in their life, and its no ways bad for any person to fall in love, as love is the most beautifull thing that can ever happen to her person, so cheer up boy and fall inlove
2006-08-28 08:46:53 · answer #6 · answered by bridgetmaria 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it didnt end in marriage,it doesnt mean that he doesnt loves you.Maybe there's a reason behind,it's better to ask him and tell to him what you feel inside.
Yes,it's possible to a married person to fall in love with someone else.Maybe his feelings gone to his wife,maybe both of them had a problem before,etc......
You should be aware about his actions if he is just fooling you around or serious on you.Be sensitive!You can feel it when you are with him.I cannot advise you about that because you are the one who knows him very well.
2006-08-27 08:37:01 · answer #7 · answered by twinkle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who says all lovers get married, love is a beatiful thing which all people think abt it, but no sooner or later it turns dreadful and painful, so its better to stay our of it :((
Of course a married person have the rights to fall in love with someone else, but she should not leave his legal wife and kids for his newly met illegal love :))
2006-08-28 00:29:36 · answer #8 · answered by Skyn3t 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I doubt that love referred in these columns attribute to romance, dating or sexual manipulations emerging from lust. But to me love is love as the saying 'God is Love'!
Accordingly the questions of love leading to marriage or a married person loving someone else is answered.
2006-08-28 07:10:31 · answer #9 · answered by mkm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes ! married person could be in love with some one else due to so many reasons.
similarly,
if a person who is in love and also the reason itself of not marrying the same lady he was in love then there was no love in between them.
love always make the impact on the persons heart, check your heart.
but it is also possible 'some lovers could not able to marry due to social reasons then we can not say 'it is not love' ..there is always love , of course.
2006-08-28 02:52:15 · answer #10 · answered by san_s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋