I just asked a question about infidelity, and the answers were weird.?

Question

I know both men and women cheat, and I am a "duddett". And for the lady who answered, I am worried about my own backyard.......hence, the question?? Sorry you guys are having a bad night. I wanted to know what men thought, cause I am a women? HEllo!

Answer 1

Okay I now understand the real question you are asking. These are the signs to look for if he is cheating. We're drifting apart, I don't know what I want, 'It isn't you, Its not about you: it's about me, I haven't been happy for a long time, I'm feeling (pick one) overwhelmed, smothereed, cornered, unhappy, boxed in, ignored, ( then blaming his spouse for making him feel that way)
Now for the second part of the question what men think. If a man has a horrible relationship, other men think now that 's a real man, to go out and find a better one, good for him it like a sickness it gets passed from one to another to another. Now if a man has a good marrage he will think boy grab a brain and think if you can't make this one work, what makes you think another will work. A man need to have a carreer (one he went to school for, not a job that he got as a young man and worked his way to management) it makes him feel better about life in general) the second the more you communicate, and have laughter between the two of you the more the relationship will survive.

Answer 2

Men cheat for various reasons, but most are just plain self centered. Sometimes they are treated bad, and that is more understandable whether right or wrong. I feel you don't hurt people you truley love, but some men love themselves so much they don't have room to truley love others.

Answer 3

Well sweetheart, its like this.. No I guess its not right to cheat,,BUT!!! That also depends on whats going on at home, sometimes you have to just to feel like your human or maybe desired as a partner..Hell theres 5000 ladys out here having cyber sex on line just because there husbands treat them like dirt..Some times I guess you have to say maybe it will help me to cope.. Hope I answeered you question sweety, I tryed...Your friend from Tennessee...ROB

Answer 4

Your right, the answers to your question were pretty weird. It's too bad the people in here don't know how to click on your name and view previously asked questions.

Answer 5

No I don't cheat on my partner and I'm fairly certain he doesn't on me...I haven't in 20 years and I know I won't--that's just not who I am....Yes some of your answers to your original question were weird (but this whole website seems to be weird tonight). BTW I'm gay and 57 years old...maybe that makes me one of your weird ones.

Answer 6

men cheat for several reasons however the main one probally is that their wifes don't do it for them anymore! they either let themselves go and get fat and lazy or they ***** all the time which kills the mood or they are always tired ! a man that cheats is usually sexually starved and is just trying to get some relief, it don't mean that he doesn't love his wife or family he is just being a man.

Answer 7

Is this a question or a complaint? Must have been worth losing points over, especially as I dont know what you are talking about?

Answer 8

I don't know your question but I do know that it was a topic about infidelity....FYI...I asked these people about this topic once and they all jumped down my throat. This is not the place for this topic since they are way too judgemental .

Answer 9

I didnt see the question earlier and so i dont understand what your saying
sorry

Answer 10

I dont think you should listen to the wierdos