Marriage & Divorce - 26 August 2006

My husband and both 29 and not officially married but have been together almost 8 years now. To keep up the spark in our relationship we have talked about introducing others into our bedroom life and have played here and there a little and there seemed to be no harm in the relationship. Last night we had gone out and got carried away with the drinking thing and he passed out around midnight during a sexual train that we were in, problem is I was very intxiocated and into the other men in the train. When he awoke he came and found me in the morning still wake having fun with others in another tent and dragged me out in a jelous rage as I was the center of attention with a group of men. I am not proud of what I did and I was aware enough to use condoms but I do not feel as though I am at complete fault as what he is accussing me of. I am asking other couples for advice what to say to my significant other as I was not totally in control of myself and had the perceived thought it was OK.

2006-08-26 09:53:00 · 15 answers · asked by sandra curious 1

just wanted to say thanks to all that gave me advice i really just need people to talk to but your answer where a big help im copping a little

2006-08-26 09:42:17 · 3 answers · asked by MICHELE w 1

see i never have talk to her maybe three or four times shes my neighbor. Anf the guy that told her that is my ex's bestfriend.. i had left my ex for his friend which is my hubby now. he swears me that he didnt n now wants to go confront him about this after we gave him a chance to live at our house when no one would.

2006-08-26 09:35:54 · 24 answers · asked by Steph. 2

him to surprise you? What have you done?

2006-08-26 09:31:33 · 39 answers · asked by Bride2Be 8/30/08 5

Im from miami and my husband's birthday is in 2 weeks. I would love to surprise him getting him a stripper. He's turning 33. Any suggestions?

2006-08-26 09:21:32 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

She threw me out of the trailor one night because i came home drunk and wanted to eat. She was all mad telling to put my food down, and get out. She was screaming at me when i was goin back ot my truck, i turned around to ask her whats wrong with her, and then she ran in the trailor.

now she is tellin me she wants me back. I dun know cuz wilma takes better care of me. so should i go back with her? I dont know if i wanna get thrown out of my trailor again, the trailor I paid more on. should i take her back?

2006-08-26 09:21:26 · 12 answers · asked by Joe Bob Charlie, Joe Bob Chopper 1

If that person was worth 1.6 billion dollars? Personally, I myself don't think people should marry for money. They should marry for love.

2006-08-26 09:11:52 · 88 answers · asked by HULK RULES!! 7

Ok. If you read some of my last questions, you will see how I was debating leaving my hubby. I can't put up with abuse anymore, so I am leaving.
I started by opening another account with my name only and had my paychecks deposited there. Secondly, I found and applied for an apartment close to work. I got it!Now I am moving in 2 weeks.
Basically last night, I told him I wanted to separate(for the millionth time). He said he would follow me home and find out where I lived(if I left him). So I said "well, i guess I will have to get a PFA(police protection) from you then, so u won't kill me.", he then replied with"If you did that, it would only piss me off more, and u wouldn't see the gun".
Now, he does not know I have the apartment. He knows only that I am wanting to separate. So my question to you guys is:
How do I tell him? I know everyone is gonna say tell him quickly! But I am scared. We came up with this: Move out while he's at work. What do you all think???

2006-08-26 09:04:21 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous

well....me and my gf alina enjoy sometimes havind sex together....last time in order to film her i told her that it would be a good idea to have sex in the dark....so i put my camera on the night filming mode....so she was sure not to be seen...was funny to see the movie of me kissing her..... and to see all the strange things she did thinking not to be seen.....2 were so funny and strange....while i was kissing her down htere she licked her own armpits and sucked her own toes......why u think she was doing that???????at the point of orgasm then she pulled out her toungue like a possesed and did the strangest faces ever....what do u think is going on with her??

2006-08-26 09:03:01 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

My friend's husband abuses her and also married her know she was getting a disability check. I dont think she will be able to work when she leaves this relationship after 8 years of abuse. He told her there is no such thing as alimony in Texas. Is this true? She has gone to counseling in the past for being battered by him.

2006-08-26 08:56:22 · 7 answers · asked by Marie 7

My husband does not spend money on sports because we don't have any, but I still feel like he is obsessed. He watches it on TV, he reads about it on the shitter, he reads about on the internet, he reads about it in the paper and he listens to it on the radio. he also talks about it nonstop the moment he encounters a man. I'm just getting sick of it, but I feel like the more I complain about it the more it pushes him towards it.
Are there any wives out there that have obsessions their husbands complain to them about? (don't say shopping).

2006-08-26 08:52:39 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I met Alvin when I leftmy husband 5 mths.ago;I met Alvin by accident dealing with another man. I do believe that I'm in love with him.He lives at 227 Deerwod dr. San Antoinio TX.#14 upstairs to the right; imiss him. ican't go back; but I can tell him how i feel. He's a good man. I just wasn't that "good of a Woman" for him. Now don't get things wrong;heaven help me,I'm the one that left. he was right by my side when my "husband" pulled up beside us;he let me get in the car with him; so see it's my fault. I just want someone to please get in contact with him,let him know that "Jackie" is thinking of him;has never forgotten him. The will of God may be that he already knows,the reality of that Our Lord will show. 227 Deerwood DR.,San Antoinio Tx.#14,It's off of Austin Hwy. down the steet from a bowling alley;Walmart;Sonic;H.E.B.;Goodwill Thrift store. I do believe that he knows that i love him;I just have not ha the chance to let him hear the words from my lips.If you can help;PLEASE DO!!

2006-08-26 08:32:22 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

from beening a dad. He has forgotten I'm 43 yrs. old.

2006-08-26 08:20:50 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I do not want a contract that protects us From each other financially in case of breakup. Neither one of us have assets to protect. I want him to be my husband in every way without having to actually Get married. Ideas?

2006-08-26 08:13:18 · 13 answers · asked by Ila Lynn 1

My boyfriend is divorce and they have a 3 year old girl. Every weekend when his ex-wife dropp her off at my boyfriends she always get in the house for like 15 minutes (brushing her little girl's hair, or just talking to my boyfriend) Im wondering if that is normal? How is it work? I remember my divorced parents sharing me on the weekends but my dad would go to my mom's car to get me quick, thats it. What do you think?

2006-08-26 08:09:15 · 4 answers · asked by Pebels 1

note SPOUSES not SEX PARTNERS

2006-08-26 07:54:03 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife smokes alot, and it is hard for me to get excited when I smell the smoke from her while in bed. We have separate bedrooms and she tells me that she does not need sex, that she can live without it. How many other couples have this problem, and what have you done to solve it.
58 year old male

2006-08-26 07:51:09 · 12 answers · asked by homermisc2006 2

My girlfriend came back from her 2 months vacation , she didnt call me the moment she came back but waited for 1 week to do so !
she said she was busy and she love me , is she lying ?

2006-08-26 07:49:04 · 22 answers · asked by HeartsBreaker 2

I'm now married for 2 yrs. Had my baby girl just 9 months after marriage but dont feel the intimacy with my hubby, we had arranged marriage. he had a Girlfriend for 4 yrs before marrying me. I always feel he has enjoyed his youth but i waited for the same to enjoy all after marriage but now i have nothing but responsibilities....caring for his baby and his family. We don't feel attracted towards eachother. Don't have anything to talk bout but just work and home and baby. We live like old couple. What should i do sometimes i feel like starting an extra maritial affair but not sure if i will be doing justice to my baby if i do it . Am i being selfish? don't know what to say to my hubby, i feel he misses his Girl though he doesn't mention but he is quite most of the time.

2006-08-26 07:45:46 · 14 answers · asked by aarzooji a 3

2006-08-26 07:45:10 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

the child might be his she was letting him see the baby but once she found out we were back 2gather it might not be his how can a marriage survive that

2006-08-26 07:31:10 · 14 answers · asked by heyu 1

My wife is an ultrasound tech, we were in a car with another couple and the other wife in the car said to my wife did you do anything strange today? My wife said, "yes, there was this 22 yr old guy that came in and usually they cover themselves with a sheet, but this guy didn't and his penis came half way down to his knee, I was thinking oh my god that thing is huge!" Laughing the whole time. Then says, " I was doing ultra sound on his testicles and it kept getting in the way so I kept having to pick it up and move it!" Heheheheheh! I wanted to call her a who*e and smack her face! I didn't say anything right then and now she doesn't understand why I'm mad, she say that's part of her job. I said, your job is to tell someone how to properly drape themselves and ocassionally you'll have to professionally handle a situation. I think it's imature and unprofessional for her to bring something like that up laughing, and also with no reguard for how I may feel.

2006-08-26 07:23:35 · 18 answers · asked by guy 1

Do you think she and your child or kids should go if you are insisting. I look at it like this, it's a special occasion with my relatives, and all couples will be there. I asked my wife if she want go can I bring my 8 month old child who's crawling, because people are asking about him, and she says no. Now she has an issue with 4 people in the family whom are cousins so she takes it out on everybody, and use it as an excuse. But if I tell her that there's a company picnic the next week after she jumped at the chance. And she always jump at the chance to go on vacations that i pay for. what's your opinion, am I wrong?

2006-08-26 07:08:53 · 17 answers · asked by pee pee 2

and have everything he owns in his name. house, checking, credit card & etc.. The man don't even have insurance. couldn't bury me tomorrow if he had to. my opinion: NO.

2006-08-26 06:52:04 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband complains that I am never happy and he is trying so hard but I am never giving him credit for being a good husband. The problem is I am pregnant and so mean and self loathing lately. I also can't let go of the past, he has a child froma previous relationship and it put out relationship through an emotional rollercoaster for a few years.

2006-08-26 06:35:49 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

Everytime I try to talk to my husband he says no discussion. He completely ignores me and doesn't want to hear any of my feelings. I feel very lonely and about to crash and burn. I spend a lot of time with my kids and myself and he doesn't take the time out to listen that I need him in my life sometimes. Lonely. Need advice

2006-08-26 06:27:13 · 22 answers · asked by Brandi B 1

and you think you should go back to your marriage but you know it's the "right" thing to do but you have this nagging feeling there's something else out there for you? How can you put that feeling behind and be satisfied with your current situation?

2006-08-26 06:14:48 · 17 answers · asked by ooolala 2

your mother married a guy that she had only known for a few month over the internet. i mean he's a great guy with wife and kids. just that his wife is terminally ill. is it too fast?

2006-08-26 06:10:56 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

Were seperated & she does not want to talk to me, but she still breaks down on important dates ie: annaversary, birthday, etc. Thats what I hear from friends, but she still wont see or talk to me because she needs more time. She's not seeing anyone else and I'm not either. How long will she stay like this?

2006-08-26 05:58:41 · 34 answers · asked by snafulikeu2 1

My hubby kicked me (I'm pregnant,) and my 2 kids out. Is this resonalble activity to divorce and take what I need? He is very untruthful, and hurtful emottionally, too.

2006-08-26 05:48:39 · 27 answers · asked by ? 1