see i never have talk to her maybe three or four times shes my neighbor. Anf the guy that told her that is my ex's bestfriend.. i had left my ex for his friend which is my hubby now. he swears me that he didnt n now wants to go confront him about this after we gave him a chance to live at our house when no one would.
2006-08-26 09:35:54 · 24 answers · asked by Steph. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
ok well see i already asked him and my hubby said its not true and doenst know why he would say that and how i could believe it. what i dont get is why this girl just told me when supposely this happened back in april or may.she told me she had to tell me cause shes been through it then y wait?
2006-08-26 09:53:12 · update #1
TELL YOUR HUSBAND WHAT HAPPENED!
2006-08-26 09:38:08 · answer #1 · answered by -------- 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry, but it sounds like your neighbor and ex are real hoaky. I would never believe anything that an ex told me and even less from a neighbor who really doesn't know a rat's butt thing about you or your husband. It is really important that you have a marriage based on trust. Without that, you have no marriage. This is something that you and your husband have to discuss but only if you have firm reservations about another woman and not just heresay from a couple of strangers. Sounds like your ex is just a gossip monger and it is possible that he is trying to break up your relationship. As far as him living in your house, I think I would definitely ask him to relocate himself.
2006-08-26 09:46:07 · answer #2 · answered by Al s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. This sounds like a lot of drama..You married your ex's best friend? That says enough there.
2. Your husband could be lying to cover his butt.
3. You hardly know this girl. She could probably want your husband, or the ex wants to cause problems. Not that problems don't already exist. You caused them when you married your ex's best friend.
2006-09-02 16:43:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your hubby is willing to confront this guy who is spreading rumors then he is probably telling you the truth. He would not want to put this other guy in a position to prove him wrong if he was lying! You might not ever know for sure....sometimes you have to choose to believe in someone you love.
2006-09-03 03:26:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What does your neighbor have to gain from telling you this? I would ask her how would she know? Is it just by someone telling her so, or did she actually see something? Maybe your neighbor has the hots for your hubby?
2006-09-03 04:47:08 · answer #5 · answered by starling_night614 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay r u getting the vibe that your guys cheating and this comment just added to your confirmations, or is this an out of nowhere blibit.if this comment blind sided you keep the sources and comments in the back of your mind, that way if comments are being made by other more reliable sources, you at least have a starting piont,if this comment added fuel to a suspicion once again keep it in the back of your mind until other more confirming points are brought up by reliable sources,
2006-09-03 09:41:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-30 00:46:22 · answer #7 · answered by lavinia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that this is an issue that you and your husband should work out. It actually sounds to me like a jealous ex trying to get back at you.
2006-08-26 09:39:42 · answer #8 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I would talk to your hubby about it cause what if that guy just wants you to get mad at your hubby so you will go back to him!! your hubby will appreciate you talking to him about it!
2006-08-26 09:39:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may have to just trust your own intuition on this one. Do you have any reason to believe that it could be true? Has he done anything in the past that would make you suspicious?
2006-09-03 04:34:25 · answer #10 · answered by just me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like to me it's all that stupid crap you put up with in middle school, that he said she said crap.. what a childish game, does your hubby give u anything saying his cheating, how do u feel deep in side, trust your 6th sence it works and tell the other people to grow up
2006-08-26 09:40:12 · answer #11 · answered by ickybones2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋