What should I do?

Question

My hubby kicked me (I'm pregnant,) and my 2 kids out. Is this resonalble activity to divorce and take what I need? He is very untruthful, and hurtful emottionally, too.

Answer 1

yes please leave him. i was married to a man like that. it's only going to get worse.you are a strong person you will make it. don't be afraid.

Answer 2

Its the beginning of the divorce course... Contact children services. He can't just kick you out of your own home. Children services will support the children and you due to the health needs of the children. What will and should happen is that HE will have to find somewhere else to stay. The kids come first. I'd involve the Police as soon as possible because you do have the right to be in your own home. If he has physically hurt you... then that's what you report. If you are fearful to have him around due to history of violence..then it a restraining order and again, he'll have to find other living arrangements. Just let him know, you WILL put his *** in jail if he touches, threatens or acts stupid to the kids. It's his *** on the line... and HE will loose. Good luck. Nuff said. Caz.

Answer 3

It's sad to see a marriage end but if you feel like it's the final straw then I would take what you need and leave. Have you tried counseling or anything? He doesn't sound like a very nice person so maybe this isn't an option but maybe a therapist could help him with his issues. Some people just can't be helped though and it may be better to get out now rather than waste years of your life hoping he'll change. I hope everything works out for you whatever you choose.

Answer 4

I would think that a man kicking you out while pregnant with his child, isn't much of a man and would not make a good father. The hardest step is leaving but, if he has kicked you out then that step is already over. Find a safe place for you and your children to stay (family,friends, shelter) and give your children the life they deserve... sometimes men can be so selfish they don't think of anyone but themselves...You have a responsibility to those 3 children and yourself to give them the best life you can and believe me he isn't it.........Good Luck to you

Answer 5

Your husband has set himself up for a serious bruising in the courts...so go after him .... call a lawyer, sue for divorce, the house, child support, if you are not working, sue for alimony! And make sure he pays it to the cent. Don't be a fool. This is NOT how reasonable people act. He needs to learn an important lesson in life...he is responsible for all the children and you. So teach it to him NOW!

Answer 6

You need to go see a divorce lawyer. Make sure that you let them know everything. It is clear that he doesn't want you, the kids or the marriage. Just make sure that you get child support. You are going to need it. He doesn't deserve a wife and children. You can do alot better.

Answer 7

First of all a man has no right to harm a female:::::::::::::::, Now as for the rest of it, life is to short to live in fear, I know, I did for 13 years and now divorced and have been for 8 years and I have also raised my four children without a mans help, but wont lie has not been easy

Answer 8

I suggest that you file a restraining order against him. AND, return with your kids to the home. Get the divorce started, and start the child support process. You HAVE rights, and should contact the cops, children's protective services, and a women's group about your options.

Answer 9

Well its crazy my dad did the same thing to me, my mom, and my little brother who at the time was 2yrs old. But he moved us to Virginia Beach and kicked us out and we knew nobody except for his family who wanted nothing to do with him. So i know what you're going through dont let it worry you just trust in God and dont give up cause your kids need a role model your all they got and dont let this situation stress you out, your caring a young one who has done nothing wrong. Yes it is good that you divorce him and take all your stuff. Because if you dont have trust then you dont have anything and you dont need to be hurt emotionally or physically anymore and your children dont need to be exposed to that kind of behavior. Besides right now with school please help them a lot because as difficult as it is for you its more to them, believe me I know, I had to go through it for a while, I almost failed kindergarten, it effected me first and second, I failed third and fourth is when we left for VA Beach but some how I made it through the rest of my grades. If you need it get some financial help. Please dont go back that was one of worse things my mom could have done but thank you, she came to her senses and dirovce him and never went back to him. But girl dont go back to him, cause see he gone notice how good you were and he gone miss you but dont go back that would be the worse you can do. Besides he doesnt have your best interest at heart,he's only thinking of himself.
But whatever you decide to do pray to God and Good Luck, I hope it turns out the best for yall, and I hope your baby comes out beautiful or handsome and most of healthy!

Answer 10

Yes, take him to the cleaners for everything he's got, make him suffer, divorce him, if he kicks you out when pregnant with two kids he's a true b*****d.

Answer 11

The best answer for you, is to divorce him, and do not return! Many females return to their abusive husbands and boyfriends through fear, and thinking-"No one else wants me"! WRONG ANSWER!
Get away from the guy and restart your life. Think of the children and the 1 on the way. To many times have I seen women abused and like fools believe they can change their boyfriend and husband-don't even think it! If the guy is cruel, get out of their! If not for yourself, your children! Is your children important to you? Stars of your life? PROTECT YOUR CHILDREN AND DO NOT BE A FOOL TO RETURN, NO MATTER WHAT HE DOES TO TRY TO GET YOU BACK. You would be a damned fool to return...Want to be re-abused or beaten? Anyone in their right minds would not return-The old pretext of-" I LOVE HIM!" Forget it, little lady, it is not worth returning to him and endanger your children or yourself-Nothing I hate worse is some fool female returning to the guy and being abused and probably killed eventually, especially the children. Find a safe house and stay out of his way...I hate women and children abusers....Think smart and for GOD'S SAKE AND YOU NEVER RETURN...Please do this for your own and your childrens safety..Please take my advice....