2006-08-26 21:18:55 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Are you merely stating a fact, or were you seeking advice? People are usually treated exact;y as they show they can or should be treated. This isn't something that is all of a sudden- it's a long term thing. Bottom line- You allow your wife to treat you rottenly, so she treats you rottenly. When will it stop? It'll stop if and when you decide that you deserve better or different.
2006-08-26 23:17:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You teach people how to treat you! Don't tolerate being treated rotten and you won't be. She does it because you let her and the fact that you do has probably caused her to lose respect for you as a man, so stand up to her, take back your self respect and you will find you also gain hers. If she doesn't learn then leave and find someone worth being with, some just aren't worth the trouble they cause.
2006-08-27 04:32:02 · answer #2 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out! Take the kids and walk! You deserve more respect and you should demand it! Give her what she's asking for and let her go her own way. Sounds like the kids would do better in your care, why would you want them to stay with someone who was so disrespectful to father of her children?take the kids and walk or maybe even run.
2006-08-27 04:35:22 · answer #3 · answered by Nikie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she may have fallen out of love. i know that sounds horrible to even think about, but it is the truth. women have mood swings all the time, but if she is pretty consistant about it then there is something else deeper that may be the reason. This is going to take some investigation on your part, but you may find that there is much more to the story. and trust me it may not be good.
2006-08-27 04:23:32 · answer #4 · answered by copaceticlove 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because you let her do it and she knows she can get away with im not saying treat her bad not at all but i would say hey look if you are going to act like that toward me im going to do it back and see how fast she changes and if she is really in love with you she will change real fast hope this helps
2006-08-27 05:12:41 · answer #5 · answered by Manda 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she is just not a nice person, or maybe she has the grass is always greener syndrome, either way you are out of luck.
2006-08-27 04:36:07 · answer #6 · answered by Jim C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fire up a joint, head to the bar and party with the 'hos, the hell with the wife and kids!!
2006-08-27 04:25:33 · answer #7 · answered by MC 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She has low self esteem. I'll bet she treats her daddy like crap. She won't treat you any better. You both need councelling. If she won't go, go alone.
2006-08-27 05:00:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
look both ways before you cross thestreet buy plastics get at least 7 hours sleep and still people go to jail?
That is exactly what you sound like.
2006-08-27 04:22:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Time to say good bye to all that. You deserve better.
2006-08-27 04:23:59 · answer #10 · answered by Ironball 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋