I am getting married very soon. But I just don't know if I'm really the one for my boyfriend. And I am scared that it might not work out. I love him dearly. I just dont know if I'm right for him.
He hasn't proposed to me.. we just sort of agreed that we marry. It's also something that I missed. I know he loves me though.
2006-08-26 21:44:07 · 7 answers · asked by Charmaine * 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Honestly, I'd have to say I'm the HAPPIEST married guy here. I have a wonderful wife who I wouldn't trade for the world. Like Dr. Phil says: when I take my wife someplace and there's lots of couples there, I know that nobody there treats their wives' better than I treat mine.
What is marriage to you? I believe that marriage "is the unselfish act, between two people, who put the needs/wants/desires of their spouse ahead of their own and expect NOTHING in return". If you both believe this, and practice it, then you'll have a long and happy marriage.
Another observation: if he treats his own mother with love and respect, he'll treat you the same. Love his mother and he'll love you even more!
2006-08-26 22:29:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am glad that you are thinking that you are not sure your the right one for him. This shows your thinking of him and you want him to be happy.
I really didn't proposed marriage to my wife, we sort of just knew it would happen. I still feel lucking that I got someone so great. I to felt that I might not be the best for such a wonderful person. Turned out she thought the same thing.
Over 20 years later and we love each other more everyday. My wife brings up that I didn't really propose to her like in the movies, she always says it with a smile Every time she brings it up I knell down and ask her if she will marry me again. She always smiles and says she will have to think about it for awhile. I feel our love keeps growing because we both want to be the best we can be because we never thought we were good enough for each other.
2006-08-27 05:02:01 · answer #2 · answered by Mit 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I knew her and her mom for 3-4 years before we married. We just grew closer together that lead into a friendship. She had been tring to hook me up to other women, of which I had no knowledge of. Because of this kind of friendship and knowing each of family that I knew she was the one. Why did I propose to her, it was obvious, we loved each other. I 25, she 22
2006-08-27 05:15:17 · answer #3 · answered by JRB 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ahhhh, cold feet, everyone goes through that before they get married. As far as my wife and I, we clicked the first time we met and, like your boyfriend, I never proposed to her either, we just picked a date and went on from there. FYI - we have been married for 25 years now. ta-da
2006-08-27 10:45:52 · answer #4 · answered by morris 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel that way then why are you getting married. That will only lead to further strain in your relationship. Everyone gets married for different reasons, but it takes a special relationship to last.
How do you know if your partner is the one, feelings. How do you know when you are thirsty,hungry,tired, or fulfilled.
2006-08-27 05:06:56 · answer #5 · answered by King Midas 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your heart.
2006-08-27 06:30:26 · answer #6 · answered by Henry 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sucking
2006-08-27 04:53:25 · answer #7 · answered by atari 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋