Marriage & Divorce - 23 August 2006

I'm getting married in less than 4 months. My fiance recently said some things about me that were hurtful because they weren't true. My only intention was to be helpful but it was not how he saw things. He said I was evil. He never actually said sorry that he said that I was evil so I think he really meant it. I don't know if I should get married to someone who sees me this way. I just can't believe I've stayed me him for almost a decade. I feel that if I continue with the wedding, I'm headed for a failed marriage. I know time heals all wounds, but is this something I should look pass? I'm afraid of my future with him. Please help.

2006-08-23 10:39:47 · 36 answers · asked by lost 1

Gene Simmons is Cool. He has a new show coming out soon, doesn't he? I think it's called "Family Jewels."

2006-08-23 10:35:47 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-23 10:31:59 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

just post what you think

2006-08-23 10:29:41 · 18 answers · asked by john c 2

Do men think that some women go overboard? I can understand keeping weight in control and stuff along that line, but what about our "off" days like bad hair days or a bad mood days?. What do men think then?

2006-08-23 10:29:05 · 12 answers · asked by Dre 3

2006-08-23 10:29:05 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

shes been married for 7 yrs and has 2 kids (5 and 8) she works and so does her husband, they still have sex about 3xs a week but shes bored..her fling just told her he has to end it because his wife is suspicious..they r both in the same boat...she hasnt had sex yet! should she be upset or should she just be happy she has a great husband a 2 beautiful kids and health...

2006-08-23 10:20:11 · 18 answers · asked by machele 3

want to join the army but need to divorce my husband first, he can't seem to leave his mistress alone. If I file the papers will this prevent me from joining the army? I havent gotten the courage up to ask my recruiter yet cause it is kinda embaressing to admit he has a mistress.

2006-08-23 10:17:21 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-23 10:16:42 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-23 10:07:14 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous

She keeps buying vanilla ice cream when she knows my favorite is mint chocolate chip. I really don't want a divorce, I love her.

2006-08-23 10:07:01 · 25 answers · asked by Sausage Fingers™ 3

I clearly don't understand a man's thought process! I go out of my way to make things easier on him. I can ask him to do simple things and he does not follow through half the time. Example, he has a debit card, it is too much trouble for him to write down the reciepts. I mean come on, I pay the bills and manage the entire household, and take care of the kids! All I need him to do is write them down. I have even started getting them from him every day and doing it myself, b/c by the time he does it he as about $400.00 worth of debits, not to mention the ones he has lost! It's just pure lazyiness! He does not understand the stress it puts me through.

I can ask him to take some medicine to my mom when he drops the youngest child off, and he forgets it! He forgets everything I ask him to do! I have been married 1 time before and thought that I made a better choice, but he is just driving me nuts with being so irresponsible. What should I do?

2006-08-23 10:02:25 · 19 answers · asked by SCALISI 2

2006-08-23 10:01:34 · 15 answers · asked by Butz 3

My husband prefers small boobs. Mine have always been big, i think i started having boobs from primary school!!! i'm now a 36G and I feel almost unhappy about them because my hubby prefers small boobs, but he says since its part of me, he loves them anyway... i wish he'd never told me really (his true feelings).

2006-08-23 10:01:31 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

My 4-year-old daughter calls her dad's new wife "Mommy Beth." It kind of distrubs me that they've taught her to address her by that name... since I'm the mommy. Am I crazy for feeling hurt that she calls a "stranger," Mom? Is there anything I can do?

2006-08-23 09:57:12 · 20 answers · asked by bethiswriting 3

Is confinement appropriate or something more severe?

2006-08-23 09:56:43 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

Any free search that doesn't ask for money. And taht will give me; at the least; a phone number and/or an adress.

2006-08-23 09:51:30 · 4 answers · asked by Peper 1

after 19 years my husband left me. hes now with some1 else. while im left with 2 children, a **** load of bills and a mortgage i can not pay. after 5 months i though things would be getting better, but there not. im turning into some1 i dont no. all the worry and hurt, are having a phisical effect on me. i look ill, i dont eat, and dont sleep. I can not remember the last time i smiled. i want the old me back, but how do i make this happen ?

2006-08-23 09:45:29 · 27 answers · asked by jaki 1

How many men think? that you should leave your wife if she is too obsesive and loves you too much a a bit childish? should you help her grow?

2006-08-23 09:40:20 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was a happily married man, 2 kids. I love her but I'm not in love with her anymore. Sound trite? I wasn't looking for anything, but I bumped into a woman who knocked me on my behind over the course of several months - conversation, personality, etc. And I've put myself in that embarrassingly-sappy spot from "Bridges of Madison County," in which I'm in the truck at the intersection, my hand trembling on the door handle, wanting to jump out and follow what feels like the time and dreams of the rest of my life with this woman. I've never been unfaithful, and I am a healthy, intelligent, conscious person who doesn't want to hurt anyone. I also feel like I have the chance of a lifetime with this other woman, who's caused me to look at my marriage and admit I'm not the person I want to be, I've adapted willingly so much for the marriage, but this other woman allows me to be who I consider to be the real me. I thought I was too smart to risk it all for a dream ...

2006-08-23 09:36:33 · 107 answers · asked by Anonymous

I want to meet someone else, so I can move on, the marriage was over before it even started. he decided he didn't want to be married anymore. great ay? didn't make it a year. I am really shy, self conscience, and very low self esteem. How do i get over this to move on and start something that should happen.

2006-08-23 09:32:39 · 12 answers · asked by GOOCHER13 1

Well 5 years ago my husband & I were having major troubles in our ordained marriage. I kick my one & only husband out from our home & press changes agaisnt for being aburseful to me . Over the years he was being aburseful to our children.So he went over to stay with our best friends.Than my girlfriend kick out her aburseful on the streets and got a divorce.Than one day my husband believed the big fat lie which is the grass is always greener on the other side of the fence so He filed for a divorce like a coward always do to out from their lifetime commitment. Now he is living with my x-best friend over on the other side of the fence which is ALWAYS brown & have death there too. Both of them could care less for our children & me , it shows by their actions. My christain counsellor told me that my husband does care deeply for me & our children he would NOT be where he is now with the girlfriend. My counsellor told me both of them are two face & that is how they can live with themselvies

2006-08-23 09:31:07 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

It has been 18 months. The sadness won't go away.

2006-08-23 09:28:20 · 66 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-23 09:27:20 · 31 answers · asked by GOOCHER13 1

I KNOW HOT TO SPELL

2006-08-23 09:25:44 · 9 answers · asked by Aloneeyes 2

I AM A WOMEN, AND I AM MARRIED AND I AM NOT BEING SHY OR ANYTHING IT JUST THAT I DIDN'T KNOW WHO BLUNT I SHOULD BE

2006-08-23 09:24:52 · 9 answers · asked by CHer 2

I know I have to forgive my ex for lying, cheating and deceiving me because we have an eight year old son to raise together. And it hurts and I have to let it go and move on. But what about the other woman? Do I have to forgive her? If she and my ex become serious and she becomes a part of my son's life I would never bad mouth her or attempt to interfere. But is it okay to not forgive her? Is it possible? Right now I limit my contact with my ex - I only talk to him about our son and I use email when I can. I do not want anything to do with her - is that possible?

2006-08-23 09:23:28 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

He's what i call the seasonal dad.when it's a holiday he'll call more and come to see him.But when it's not a hoilday like the summer, he'll call mabey every month and a half.My question is do i call him out on it that he's being a deadbeat or should i say nothing and just be thankful he tries at all?

2006-08-23 09:22:43 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-23 09:19:18 · 30 answers · asked by shart 1

My friend and his wife were going thru a rough time their 1st year of marriage.

His wife told him recently that she kissed her co-worker and it wasn’t cheating to her.

The kiss was on the lips and it wasn’t just one kiss.

It was a long passionate French kiss.

My friend believes it was cheating.

Its cheating to me too because it’s not a peck between friends.

Would this be cheating to you?

2006-08-23 09:17:57 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous