Do men think that some women go overboard? I can understand keeping weight in control and stuff along that line, but what about our "off" days like bad hair days or a bad mood days?. What do men think then?
2006-08-23 10:29:05 · 12 answers · asked by Dre 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
SO long as your "off days" aren't everyday!
Men look in the overall...not the immediate. What is she like over the long run of your relationship? Is she a biatch? Is she generally very "needy" and "high maintenance". This and other types of observations will tear apart a relationship faster than you can say "divorce court".
Men are becoming more selective than ever. Why...well they have the most to lose. Say a man hooks up with a "pathological woman". She's moody, has terriable PMS, and is very very high maintenance. She marries a man....has children....and then the guy finds out that he's with a "never truly happy woman". She'll drag him all over the map of life trying to get happy and in the process will waste enourmous amounts of time, energy and cash with very little movement towards his "family dream end-state" (50-55 years and retired). He has but two choices...stay with her and flounder around or leave her and pay 20-30% of his net income on child-support to watch his offspring suffer their fate from a broken home.
Men are looking for "user friendly" females. Women who will work for the family goal and not have to have extraordinary efforts from the male to function.
The world is hard enough to battle let alone battle a confused, dazed and needy female as the same time. They're many great women out there and men are looking for them for their life mates.
CHeck out the following website. It can answer your questions better than I can. It can also give you a "bird's eye" view of a guy's psyche.
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Good luck
2006-08-23 11:14:54 · answer #1 · answered by hoyhoydc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This would be a general question which says that men are attracted to females who look good to them regardless to what we deal with. They are not looking at moods, or our off days with the bad hair, if another female who looks good pass by you during that bad hair day, his attention is focused on her. Even after starting a relationship, guys want their females to look good to feel like you are considerate of their thoughts about yourself.
2006-08-23 10:38:41 · answer #2 · answered by msthinkpositive 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys love it when a woman takes care of herself but they shy away from some women that take it to the extreme of being high maintenance.
2006-08-23 10:40:09 · answer #3 · answered by Badkitty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We all have good and bad days. Love the person without condition and you will receive the same back. If not move on.
2006-08-23 10:34:32 · answer #4 · answered by Andrew B 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You better believe it, and they love it when a women makes them feel like the most important thing in the world
2006-08-23 10:32:28 · answer #5 · answered by big D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well ladies that take care of themselfs are the only ladies that turn my head . My wife is a well built woman who takes care of herself and turns heads at 42 .
2006-08-23 10:31:50 · answer #6 · answered by none 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I met my GF in the gym looking her worst (she thought) I would rather see someone looking like that. I am one of those weird guys that appreciates the "natural" look. A little makeup is cool, but that is not the real you.
2006-08-23 10:32:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
yes, if they like you and care about you, they wouldn't care what kind of mood you are in. they will accept the good and the bad.
2006-08-23 11:13:42 · answer #8 · answered by intelligent80000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't Get Me Wrong Always Look your best but you want someone to love you at your best and worst.
BE encouraged
One love
2006-08-23 10:36:55 · answer #9 · answered by caramelcutie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well every1 nos tht gurls hav ther days! but guys hate it wen ur moaning every minute of the day ye if wen u first go out n u say ' i am havin such a bad hair day' they laff along but if u say it ova n ova thy get fed up!! guys like gurls whu r confident but nt 2 confident thy like tht little bit of insercurity but jst a tadge n thy also like gurls whu can take care of thm selfs n ther own problems n tht can giv great advice!!
2006-08-23 10:35:02 · answer #10 · answered by XXPrincessOfFashionXX 1 · 0⤊ 3⤋