shes been married for 7 yrs and has 2 kids (5 and 8) she works and so does her husband, they still have sex about 3xs a week but shes bored..her fling just told her he has to end it because his wife is suspicious..they r both in the same boat...she hasnt had sex yet! should she be upset or should she just be happy she has a great husband a 2 beautiful kids and health...
2006-08-23 10:20:11 · 18 answers · asked by machele 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
She should appreciate that she has a great husband, two kids, and a sex life. It's not like he isn't giving her any, they have it about 3 times a week and that isn't the best but it's not horrible.
She has no right to be mad at her old fling, she shouldn't want to commit adultery and cheat on her spouse anyway. Besides, does she not care about her kids and their feelings? Just because she is bored she's willing to hurt her husband and family because if they find out their whole family would fall apart.
I hope this really is your friend and not you. Please advise "HER" to stick with her great family and stop being so selfish. Bored.. psh, just because people get bored they are willing to ruin the lives that they have in split seconds. This is why so many people are getting divorced! Because of idiots!
2006-08-23 11:09:44 · answer #1 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your friend has a job, husband, two children, and a home to take care of and she has time to be "bored" and have a fling. She should thank her lucky stars for her husband because he must be a heck of a man for her to have that kind of time! She needs to settle down and either leave her husband before she has a full fledged affair or stop being "bored" and work on her marriage and at being a better wife.
2006-08-23 10:28:23 · answer #2 · answered by Badkitty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm Hello - Yeah she should be greatful for a husband and kids plus health.
just because she's bored doesnt mean she has to have an affair
its a marriage - 2 people join together
if she's bored then she should atleast try to talk to her husband; make more time
do new activites together that they'll both enjoy!
not just because shes bored she'll have affair, no she have to first try to make it work not just sit there and hope she wont be bored tomorow or the day after - she's gotta work on it!
so she should be greatful for the family she's got!
2006-08-23 10:28:45 · answer #3 · answered by keamar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She should look at her husband and ask herself where she went wrong thinking that it could be better elsewhere. If she is bored does she imagine that he isn't. It never ceases to amaze me reading here about the people who are ready to give up on their marriage because of boredom or some perception of unhappiness. She has a secure marriage. I'm thinking that is a significant accomplishment given the state of relationships today.
She is at the crossroads. She can go work on spicing up her marriage with a guy who loves her or she can continue down the road of being a liar and cheat who distributes pain to her family and her cuckold lover.
2006-08-23 10:47:39 · answer #4 · answered by Flagger 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has rights to get bored and she has rights to find more "excitement"! She's bored because life's too easy - something a lot of people is envious of, but isn't worth sh!t to her. I'd say let her go on with her fling, and let what she's been doing in the dark be brought to light. Then life will be a LOT more exciting!
But too bad innocent people will pay the price for her new excitment. I have no answer for that tho it's a fact of life.
2006-08-23 11:03:57 · answer #5 · answered by Jose R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless she doesn't care about her happy marriage & 2 beautiful kids, she needs to find a hobby to keep her busy, not an affair. If she does this and it's found out, which it will be sooner or later, it will be too late to appreciate what she has that so many other females would die to have.
2006-08-23 10:29:36 · answer #6 · answered by msthinkpositive 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She should be gtateful that she has a husband and kids. Why doesn't she try to spice things up with her husband go on a weekend getaway or a have a datenight. If things are that rough maybe counselling will help....
2006-08-23 10:24:37 · answer #7 · answered by cslynn1980 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She needs to STOP! Right NOW! She's already in deep, she has already betrayed her marriage vows and her family - both her husband and her children. And all because she is BORED?
That is a sad statement about your friend. I'd give her my parting wisdom then go find a new friend. She lies to her family, she'll lie to her friends.
2006-08-23 10:24:33 · answer #8 · answered by Tad Dubious 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your friend will absolutely ruin her marriage if she does this stupid thing.
Too friggin bad if she is bored, tell her to make some efforts and pay some attention to her husband not to another man.
2006-08-23 13:37:02 · answer #9 · answered by wanting him 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is not taking her marriage seriously and is willing to risk all for a little fun. I think that is really disastrous for her and her family. How many people is she willing to hurt. Why doesnt she love her family more than her want of fun.
Good Luck to You and God Bless!!
2006-08-23 14:06:59 · answer #10 · answered by msqtech 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋