Marriage & Divorce - 23 August 2006

2006-08-23 03:09:19 · 8 answers · asked by Mia_Bella 2

So I'm 20 years old and just recently got divorced, my choice, from my husband of two years. But, lately I've been wondering if I did the right thing because we never were physically were together except for maybe a few months. Is this normal to have regrets... we talked today about it and he feels this way too. What should I do?

2006-08-23 03:02:54 · 18 answers · asked by Kristina 2

i have been married three times. the man i am with now (we have been together for 6 years), wants me to marry him. i feel that we have a great relationship the way it is and why fix something that isn't broken. so do you think that i should go a head and marry him

2006-08-23 03:02:09 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-23 02:52:52 · 9 answers · asked by helixburger 6

i love a woman a fillipino an over seas worker well i,m egyption so we are not the same nationality or even the same religion also i,m 22 and she is 27 i love her more than anything in this world and she love me too we been togther may be for a year and half now we dont see eachother much cause of the conditions of her work here i,m still studying at colleg and she is working for her family in phillipins i promised her that i will never leave her side and that i will marry her no matter what happen but i,m still a student i tried many times during this year to make a life for us in order to get married i tried so hard but it seems it didn,t work out always there is something blocking my way but my love holding on with me i told her everything about my conditions that i dont know now when i could marry her may be i need even 4 years in order to be ready she will be 31 by this time and i will be 26 u think its selfish of me to ask her to wait for me to be ready even i will marry her

2006-08-23 02:50:27 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-23 02:49:33 · 38 answers · asked by vinoth k 1

We have been married for only 1 month now and I have been real suspicious about her "friend." This friend is a dance instructor that she started working with to learn to dance for the wedding. Since then she has gotten really close with him and very distant from me. She's even gone to the point of saying she doesn't think she wants to be married, but cannot give me a reason why. She says that its nothing that I did. She is starting to lie about every little thing like questionable phone calls on our phone bill. She just finally admitted to me that she kissed him, but swears it only happened one time. Do I believe her? Could she be hiding bigger things from me like cheating?

2006-08-23 02:48:54 · 16 answers · asked by blindedbylies 2

My husband and I divorced recently after a ten year marriage - one I thought could be saved with some conselling. He decided to have an affair and is now moving in with this girl. My husband lied, cheated, deceived. His is a pig. The problem I have is that I am a very forgiving person - I very rarely hold grudges. As a result, I get hurt. I have to deal with my ex because we have an 8 year old son. How do I let my ex know that his actions were wrong and this is not something that I will likely forget soon? I don't want to be a bitter ex wife - I am moving on and dealing with my reality as best I can. However, I do not want him to think that what he did was okay just because I talk to him normally about our son. He likes his life to be in order and he will think that if I am okay with everything then he obviously made the right choices. He treated me like garbage - with zero respect. I want him to not forget that - any ideas on how I do this?

2006-08-23 02:48:14 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

I don't understand why you people think that just beacause your husband or wife knows and lets you do it, that it's okay to sleep with others. What is the difference if your cheating behind their back you are still having sex with others.Once a cheater always a cheater is not true if you are happy you should not have to sleep with others. If my husband truely loved me he wouldn't ask that of me or be okay that I did it. Just curious

2006-08-23 02:47:22 · 23 answers · asked by Raineybaby 4

I have been with my partner for 4 years and we have a 3 year old son. My partner is controlling, selfish, cold hearted and thinks everything i do is wrong. Im sick of it all i have asked him to get couselling but he won't. so think i want to leave. i know i can provide a better life for my son and i if i do so. But i just cant seem to do it. I get so scared and sick when i think about it. even though i know i can go stay with my mother. i have suffered from anxciety in the past. and i know there will many people i will disappoint by leaving. Any advice. I don't think i can live like this for the rest of my life.

2006-08-23 02:46:09 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

While looking at questions on here, It seems that most responses are grouped by ages.

Like, should I leave a marrage of 15yrs: Older = work on it, Younger = divorce with no work on it.

Maybe the persons age should also be on their sn so you kknow what experence they have for advice...

just a though..

2006-08-23 02:45:17 · 11 answers · asked by Common Sense 5

I filed for divorce at the beginning of this month, something I should have done a long time ago. Never again do I want to be with this horrible individual. I am simply waiting now on the final hearing date to be set. Through myspace.com I found a male college friend who I have not seen in 10 years. I found him AFTER I had already decided to file for divorce. He has nothing to do with my reasons for ending my marraige. We had been close back in college but never intimate. We have talked on the phone several times and communicated by email a bunch. We seem to have reconnected and there is a potential for a great relationship in the future. Obviously, I am not in a position to settle down nor do I want to settle down right now. But I want to know if legally this means I am cheating. We haven't even seen each other in person yet but I have a strong feeling that if we did there would be some "chemistry" there. Give me some advice on what you think about my situation. Thanks.

2006-08-23 02:41:32 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have had sevral hundred .

2006-08-23 02:35:30 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

i sent SMS for my x boy friend yesterday night told him (just good night ) coz he sent to me the day before the same SMS .. then he worte to me ( I MISS U SO VERY MUCH ) I SENT HIM BACK THAT I DO TOO ... was it wrong to tell him that ?? what did he mean of that ?? iam still in love with him ,,, shell i send him today again ??

2006-08-23 02:32:58 · 8 answers · asked by magic 2

2006-08-23 02:31:59 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been with my husband for 14 years married for 7. We have been through it all goods and bads. I never thought in my wildest dreams I would ever cheat on him. But things haven't been right with us for a while now, I honestly feel like we are brother and sister instead of husband and wife. He is so set in his way and I guess I always just went with his way. My eyes have been opened by a friend of mines, he treats me like a queen(didn't know that was possible anymore) I am torn between the two and really don't know what to do. I always looked out for my husbands feeling but now I think I need to be happy. I do love my husband dearly but not in that way anymore. Should I try to work on my husband or should I go where my love is.

2006-08-23 02:31:53 · 14 answers · asked by Lady Dee 3

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2006-08-23 02:30:15 · 8 answers · asked by puchi 2

My fiancé and I have blow out arguments that enrages and upsets me so mush that at times I feel as though violence is the only way I can get through to him! He brings up the past to counter attack me when ever I am displeased with something and assumes that I was sabotaging his character! After the arguments of not getting any heads or tails, I usually just get so upset that I don't want to neither argue nor make up but rather walk off my frustrations or go to sleep! May I also add that a lot of our arguments stem from his two ex-wives actions concerning the two sets of children and how their inability to parent but try to manipulate my fiancé in directly affects me!(16 & 18 yr old boys and 11& 6 yr old boy and girl) Three out of those four live with us and often times I just get so overwhelmed with the younger children's hyper and insidious ways, additionally the fact that we almost never have any type of time apart from them! He told me I am allowing the hate of their mothers drive us apart!

2006-08-23 02:28:43 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am divorced.i know this young man online ,he say he loves me ,we haven't met in real life ,he lives in USA and i live in singapore, maybe i have a good looking,but he is very young,i hope i can love him ,but i don't have the confidence,today he ask me "Do you love me &want me for real?to be married & have a family?"do you think he wants to get married with me? are all men in USA so romantic?

2006-08-23 02:23:51 · 59 answers · asked by annesweetyfl 2

hubby not to good too me but his mate is always there for me no matter what

2006-08-23 02:20:28 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-23 02:13:24 · 7 answers · asked by hapi_man1 1

I have always gotten along with my inlaws but lately they seem to pick everything we do apart. I should say he (fatherinlaw) can dish things out but when you give it back its wrong. then my mother in law says one thing to us runs back tells him another then comes back and says something different to us again. I am very frustrated with this and we are ready to just tell them to leave us alone. Does anyone else have any issues like this with thier inlaws if so i would really like some advice.

2006-08-23 02:02:54 · 19 answers · asked by spoiledrotten 2

2006-08-23 02:02:02 · 22 answers · asked by RoseAngel 2

Ok guess the roles are reversed here. My husband has no sex drive, never has. He's happy with it once every 2 weeks. And I want it 2x a day. I've been dealing with this for over 10 years. And I thought I would just get used to it or be able to deal with it. But I'm not. He won't listen to the fact I have needs. I have tried everything from waking him every morning with a BJ to waiting for him at the door in lingerie. Even promises of a 3-some with another woman. No "rise" from him lol.
My question is first off is he weird or what. Every guy I ever dated before I met him couldn't stay out of my pants. All his friends tell him he's lucky to have a wife that wants it all the time. I need "some" and have a close friend willing to help me out. Should I go for it? I think it's the only way I can stay with my husband and survive going without. I mean if I don't I will probably leave him over it all. We fight about it alot. I do love him so much. What's your opinion?

2006-08-23 02:00:36 · 20 answers · asked by yahooanswersgirl 3

Everytime I meet someone from my hubby's past they tell me about some past g/f and how ugly and slutty she was. I asked him if if he thought they were ugly and he said no. He said he was always looking for love not lust. I felt like he was saying that a person lusts after someone they find sexy but that they can love an ugly person. It sort of sounded to me like he was saying that I wasn't any prettier than the others (which obviously hurt my feelings)


I just was looking for an opinion that might help me to feel less like scum. Since everyone who knew him before me seems to think that all his g/fs were ugly then I wonder what they think of me. How can I stop worrying about what others think about me..... especially the feeling of thinking that my hubby doesn't find me attractive? Do you know any good books on lowering one's expectations or raising one's self esteem? Thanks all

2006-08-23 02:00:30 · 14 answers · asked by colorist 6

It took me a long time to get used to sleeping with my wife.....I thought I would never get used to it, and yet now it feels weird if she isn't next to me.

p.s. We have been married 5 years and we met right here on Yahoo.

2006-08-23 02:00:00 · 8 answers · asked by opjames 4

but he got addicted to drugs. he never told me abt zat. nw he tld me to leave him bkoz he doesn't want me suffer bkoz of him and this will affect my future, my family etc. we both can't stay wizout each other.
please tell me wat should i do?? should i accept him like he is even my family wnt agree or should i leave him and continue my life

2006-08-23 01:59:45 · 25 answers · asked by angel 1

2006-08-23 01:59:39 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

What's up with that?

2006-08-23 01:58:31 · 20 answers · asked by Pardonthepun 1

He has to pay 34,000 on child support but i dont want him to go t o jail or anything happend to him, he is a good Father and helps theme out. Where we can go to resolved this matter.Can i go to court and say i dont want child support? I need advice. THanks

2006-08-23 01:55:24 · 13 answers · asked by latina19672001 1