i love a woman a fillipino an over seas worker well i,m egyption so we are not the same nationality or even the same religion also i,m 22 and she is 27 i love her more than anything in this world and she love me too we been togther may be for a year and half now we dont see eachother much cause of the conditions of her work here i,m still studying at colleg and she is working for her family in phillipins i promised her that i will never leave her side and that i will marry her no matter what happen but i,m still a student i tried many times during this year to make a life for us in order to get married i tried so hard but it seems it didn,t work out always there is something blocking my way but my love holding on with me i told her everything about my conditions that i dont know now when i could marry her may be i need even 4 years in order to be ready she will be 31 by this time and i will be 26 u think its selfish of me to ask her to wait for me to be ready even i will marry her
2006-08-23 02:50:27 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You know what true love it rare, and most never find it. You do what you can to make it work. If it is true love, difficult times,stress nor distance can break a love so strong.
Their are some that say, more on, get something in your grasp, no! be happy, be in love, with a real love, those are a once in a life time.
I am living proof that love can concur, my soon to be and i have been together for 2 years, and for the past two years we have been apart, i am in NY, and he has been in Germany,overseas whitch we all know their is very little communiction, and now stationed in the states. We are not together, but we had made it through the stormy nights because our love is so pure.
Never give up on love, if one thing in life not to give up on, have it be this.
Good luck for the bottom of my heart
Jenn
2006-08-23 03:06:19 · answer #1 · answered by Army Love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off you need to be very honest with each other. Of course your education is important, especially now a days. Is she being honest with you? Just because you don't see each other doesn't mean you can't have a relationship/ However if you live in two different worlds, then perhaps, you find that it is hard to have a long distance relationship. My question for you is has she made any effort to be closer to you while you finish college and would she be willing to find a job near you, so you can spend more time together. If not ..... then this should give you your answer on how she really feels about you. Sometimes... letting someone go that you love is the best thing...
Sometimes we make promises that unfortunately we have to break do to certain circumstances. Before proposing to her make sure you are 100% sure.List the pros and cons. My fiance and I are different, in religion. I am christian and he is well Pagan... It is hard at times, but we dont' let that stop us. We have a great relationship. It is not selfish to ask one to wait, if you are not ready and not financially secure.... if perhaps she can't understand that then she is selfish and doesn't deserve you. When the time is right you will know... and you wouldn't have to be asking this question. Perhaps she is tired of waiting on a proposal from you, since you did say you wanted to marry, with a ring things makes it closer to the wedding and showing her that you care and love her and that you meant it when you said ou wanted to marry her.Things change and so do ppl, just remember there is always more fish out in the sea!
2006-08-23 03:03:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she really loves you as much as she says she does.. It won't be a problem of her waiting.. for you to work around what ever it is that is blocking the two of you to get married.
Cultures make no difference if you are in love.. time makes no difference if you are in love. Do you get to communicate much. are you in the same area so that you can see each other once in a while. that helps to know that you are still out there and can see occasionally..
and no it is not selfish of you to think she will wait for you.. they say time has a way of making a heart grow fonder.. or something like that. if you have good communication there should be no problems talk to her about this and see what she thinks about waiting on you.. there is no one out here that can tell you what she thinks about the wait but you.. talking cures all the questions that you may have.. So talk to her. work around the problems and get with her .. good luck
2006-08-23 03:08:14 · answer #3 · answered by Sandy F 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that you should talk to her and tell her everything that you have been thinking about. Let her be the one to make te decision on wheather or not she wants to wait. But if she loves you as much as you say that you love her she will wait an eternity for you if need be
2006-08-23 03:07:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
all i can say is love stinks. the world is a tuff place but, love is tuffer!!! I've been in somewhat of the same situation and, yeah it's hard.. if the two of you love each other enough no matter what happens you'll stand by each other...but also remember life's to short to waste so weigh out the pros and, cons before acting.. good luck in your current situation you'll need it it's a long road your fixing to travel!!!!
2006-08-23 02:58:43 · answer #5 · answered by cassey c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you truly love each other, and both are willing to wait on marriage , some things that are good, that takes work. and is worth the wait for marriage. It is work as well. So my advice is if both are in agreeement do what works for the both of you.
Good luck and hope you get what you want out of life.
2006-08-23 03:30:43 · answer #6 · answered by RAINBOW 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u got a very tough situation there, but i think you can always go on with her as long as she dont dump you, besides age doesnt matter, u study hard and try to find a gud job to be worthy of the gurl, or to impress her rather. if both of u can wait, then go for it!!!
2006-08-23 02:57:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this love is for real and meant to be,she'll wait. Let it be her decision remember she's not getting younger!!
2006-08-23 03:33:06 · answer #8 · answered by Ali.D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is a struggle and full of barriers. When something gets hard do you give up?
2006-08-23 02:52:30 · answer #9 · answered by ѕомєопєѕ▪ ваву ♥ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't ask her to wait you just get yourself together and if it's ment to be she will still be there waiting when your ready.But it's not fair to ask her put her life on hold.
2006-08-23 02:53:40 · answer #10 · answered by endigogirl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋