Marriage & Divorce - 23 August 2006

Is it difficult to start to do that if you have been independent for a long time and make a lot money? Please share your experience.

2006-08-23 18:41:36 · 37 answers · asked by 1001Questions 2

he didn't show. He works with his Dad, his normal time on that day is 3:00, at 5:00 his mother called to say he was taking care of business with Dad, be home soon,at 9:00 I called his Mom, no answer, and she doesn't drive, I got worried. At 11:30 he comes home they all went out to eat and shopping.How would you feel. I am furious.

2006-08-23 18:38:14 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am married for the past 4 years i have a 1 1/2 year old and am pregnant again due any day now. For the past 2 years my husband has changed from the warm and loving guy to someone who doesn't seem to care about anything and who procrastinates and puts me last all of a sudden. Especially since i had my son.

He has relocated to another state for a job and i want to move out there to be with him especially since the new baby is coming but he has made no efforts to find a place for us to live as a family he himself stays in an efficeny room. He wants me to stay here in the state that i am currently in and raise the kids.

I honestly feel like i should leave him and raise my boys myself. because if he wont be home but twice a month then whats the point. He hangs out playing basket ball with co workers or bowling and it seems like he is having a ball being on his own without us. He says he loves us all the time but actions speak louder than words. Help I would like some advice. Thank

2006-08-23 18:37:16 · 14 answers · asked by Driz69 2

Personaly I think clubs are for single people or for couples to go together but not apart what's your oppinion?

2006-08-23 18:34:26 · 22 answers · asked by ? 2

ladies please answer question part one ................. When a couple share a bank account the woman knows the man is very into surprising her when he goes and requests small amounts of money out of the clear blue sky from thier account to prepare to do something special....(mind you their anniversary is next month, or her birthday is coming up) do women usually get antsey about the account like whats it for, why do you need it, we need to pay bills, ya da ya da ya da. I just want to know is this a woman thing. should it be done another way to avoid the anarchy. Because when its all said and done it ususally ends with the guy saying forget it, and when he tells her she's like oh well you can do it yada ya da ya da.

guys answer question part two.......................... is it even worth it to bother going through all the retorick?

2006-08-23 18:31:31 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I live in a foreign country with my husband, It is not very safe so in the evenings there is often nothing to do but watch TV. My husband enjoys watching TV for about 2-3 hours almost everynight. I do not mind this, but he insists that I also watch. It sound crazy but he thinks it is rude if I draw, read, sew or do anthing else during TV time. I don't see why it should bother him. He says it is rude to do something else in the same room as someone watching TV even if it does make noise. Can anyone tell me who is correct?

2006-08-23 18:30:04 · 10 answers · asked by Sophia75 2

If the bible says that no one sin is greater than another, then why do we as christians look down on people who commit adultry or people that are gay? Doesn't the bible say that God is the judge and we are suppose to love each other? I know that there is no one free from sin (except Jesus). So, if all sins are equal, then when we point out anothers wrong doing, isn't that like the pot calling the kettle black?

2006-08-23 18:25:44 · 15 answers · asked by jennifer c 3

My ex husband does not want to pay child support. However, he is
giving me a fraction of what it would be if it were based on his
income. There is no court order that he is to pay child support. It has always been just between us. I'm asking for more now, but he refuses. Will a judge order him to pay? Will the court set the amount, even if we've agreed on a lower amount?

2006-08-23 18:20:03 · 16 answers · asked by Lady J 4

i know thats sound dumb but i mean is there a time when you find yourself happy not to have sex as part of yur realationship or will we always fill the way we do now we are married for nearly 30 yr s and we forget sometimes we arent young any more i guess im wooriedthat one day it will all just go away what u think????????

2006-08-23 18:19:17 · 27 answers · asked by Msdeb gee 6

My husband of 6 years had an affair and confessed after he was caught of course. I decied to stay to keep my family together. And the fact that I still love him. We have 3 children that worship his every step (1,3, & 6). I left for a week after the affair and all they wanted was him. He has changed alot for now, but I still can't forget the betrayl, how do I learn to trust him again, how do I move on with our marriage?

2006-08-23 18:15:27 · 16 answers · asked by sassy lady 4

I received so many honest wonderful answers on the breast issue. I am curious as to what you guys are all about in one sentence. I love men, they are beautiful creatures!

2006-08-23 18:09:07 · 14 answers · asked by noggle4 2

I've never done it, but I'm dying to try it. Why doesn't he ask for it?

2006-08-23 18:07:22 · 27 answers · asked by Yes its me too 1

We have been married 3 months. This is an ongoing problem for him. Sometimes he likes to kiss and hug, sometimes it annoys him if I want to. We are 63, but he says I am much younger in this. Is this normal for 63? I am not nessessarily talking about sex. I do look and feel very young. Should I be different now? Please only decent answeres. I am a christian lady. Thank you.

2006-08-23 18:01:57 · 10 answers · asked by NewHope 2

alright, first off, i am married and i have a beautiful 8 month old son. okay, my husband and i just moved to a new town, and are slowly meeting new people. he has a couple friends at work that have invited us over for dinner a time or two, one of which is who my question is about. we'll call him jack. my husband has lunch w/ one of two guys most often at work, and i had to get ahold of him, so i called both of the guys. jack told my husband the next day that i had hit on him, (he then said haha just kidding) well, my husband car pools to work and every once in awhile if i am in the same town at the right time, i pick him up so we can ride home together, well, while i was waiting for him, jack comes up to our truck and gets in with me, grabs my little boy and starts playing with him, LICKS HIM, yeah...licks him...i am about to come unglued, and finally my husband comes out. i am polite to the guy because he is my husbands friend. well, today the same thing happneed, but he

2006-08-23 18:01:04 · 8 answers · asked by wondering 2

I was going up to the gate by the breakfast room window and I saw something on the floor, went through the gate to get to the side garage door, heard the dogs wimpering instead of barking, so I looked back thru the back door and he was laying on the floor behind his recliner with blood everywhere and I don't know how long I stood there, but I was scared and i just went back down the street to my car and came home. WTF? This isn't the first time I have spied on him for her. I caught him with someone like twenty years ago. It is my job! I have never had this happen before.
$hit. what should I do now that I left?

2006-08-23 17:56:55 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband of 2 years just told me that he is leaving me for another woman.(The woman that he met last year that he said that he had no contact with). I still love him and want to be with him. What should I do?

2006-08-23 17:54:03 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is there a ID or something that you can request the person to show you? read the questions, so many people fall in love with married people. Is there a way we can do a spot check on their marriage status?

2006-08-23 17:50:15 · 15 answers · asked by 1001Questions 2

what is your mates sign and how is your relationship with your mate

2006-08-23 17:46:34 · 5 answers · asked by firered 2

2006-08-23 17:44:11 · 23 answers · asked by bhushan 2

Or will you let it cool down a bit then phase out over one or two months which is kind of difficult too because you still feel that you are attacted to the other person the longer to stay may be the longer it will take to get it over on your and his/her part

Tough decision time. please help

2006-08-23 17:26:41 · 48 answers · asked by 1001Questions 2

What is your opinion on men establishing friendships with woman after they are married. My husband recently developed a "friendhip" with a co worker at the school that they teach at. We have been having marital issues for the last 2 yrs and he says that he can talk to her about his problems. I happen to be a little old fashioned about these types of relationships. I think that if he needs to talk about his issues that relate to our marriage he should seek couseling. He thinks it's okay to have woman friends and talk to them about his personal issues. I would not have a problem if it was someone he knew well before we were together but someone new is not appropriate according to me. (I am also not stupid to not assume that he may be cheating).

2006-08-23 17:24:48 · 12 answers · asked by pinksmycolor 2

2006-08-23 17:18:47 · 19 answers · asked by bhushan 2

He lives in another state and we have not seen each other in three years. He does not trust me to go and I want to get a paternity test done because I know that it is his child. What should I do and if you also (like me) agree that I should go and do what is best for my son's welfare and support by getting child support started what should I say to my husband to ease his mind?

2006-08-23 17:14:52 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

i had this affair with this guy when i was married to my ex husband due to the fact my first marriage was awful still i know no excuse for cheating-unfortunately i live with the guilt everyday, anyway i am remarried now and very happy but my husband can't stand the fact that i still talk to my ex lover...but should i stop being friends with the only person who was there for me emotionally and physically throughout my 1st bad marriage? i never want or would cheat on my husband now,

2006-08-23 17:03:24 · 12 answers · asked by babydoll12383 2

2006-08-23 17:02:20 · 17 answers · asked by sashaaspen 4

unhappy in their marriages and are thinkin of a play on the side?...let me know

2006-08-23 17:01:35 · 6 answers · asked by NYmasonman 1

The concern is "the law of attraction" the more you complain about sth. the more you attacted to those bad things. But if you don't tell him how can he know and treat you the way you want to be treated. Any sucessful experiences in relationship or marriage?

2006-08-23 16:54:28 · 61 answers · asked by 1001Questions 2

how do you feel and do you argue about this with your husband

2006-08-23 16:51:02 · 15 answers · asked by THERESA C B 1

2006-08-23 16:35:13 · 28 answers · asked by melissa s 1

i been separated for 6 plus months now and the wife and i have been living apart but we have been trying to sort out our problems and give in a second chance how should i go about moving back in after our long seperation

2006-08-23 16:34:06 · 14 answers · asked by alldayworker 1