I've never done it, but I'm dying to try it. Why doesn't he ask for it?
2006-08-23 18:07:22 · 27 answers · asked by Yes its me too 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
She wants the long one in the wrong one!
2006-08-23 18:12:35 · answer #1 · answered by Ari A 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to try anal then just ask him~ maybe he's too embarrassed to ask you or maybe he thinks you'll say no so he doesn't want to get rejected or make you feel uncomfortable. You can't just expect the guy to be the initiator all the time. If you want something ask for it!. I've never understood when I've heard people say that women never initiate. If I want sex I've never held back asking my husband, I just go for it and 9.5 times out of 10 he accepts. lol
2006-08-23 18:14:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could ask him to try it. If you let him know you want to try some different things in bed he will probably enjoy experimenting with you. If he is not into the idea give it some time and experiment with a few other things to get him loosened up until he is willing. If you make him want it he will do it for you.
2006-08-23 18:10:53 · answer #3 · answered by miso1cat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps he feels uncomfortable asking you to do it, because [1] he's afraid it might hurt you, or [2] he feels it would cheapen his opinion of you. Why not talk to him about it? If you can ask it here, why can't you ask him? If he seems adamantly opposed to it, I wouldn't bring up your desires for it at that time, but it should be brought to his attention that that is what you would like to try.
2006-08-23 18:23:29 · answer #4 · answered by eric l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband doesnt ask for anal either. He thinks if a man wants to go in a butt he must have gay tendencies.....I think he is just being funny...noone take offense to that.....
2006-08-23 18:10:01 · answer #5 · answered by seadew22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just try honest communication. If he is not interested then you should respect that and move on.(maybe try using a toy to pleasure yourself in this way if he wont) Chances are he probably never thought you would be into it.
2006-08-23 18:35:01 · answer #6 · answered by Brooke 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should feel blessed he doesnt ask...
no that's just me my hubby aske me to do it and I refuse!
y dont u ask him maybe he wants to try it but doesnt think you want too! Just ask him if he wants to try! U will never know if ya dont ask! The worst thing he will say is no..
good luck!
2006-08-23 18:12:46 · answer #7 · answered by woohooo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello???? Try communication. Talk about it. Try different things. Get creative.
2006-08-23 18:11:30 · answer #8 · answered by OrangeCharlie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to try, roll over and ask him .
2006-08-23 18:11:05 · answer #9 · answered by yooper guy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
send me a picture of yourself and I might be able to help you out with an answer
2006-08-23 18:08:49 · answer #10 · answered by kynance_cove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋