Married couples only do you think it is OK for your spouse to go to night clubs or does it bother you?

Question

Personaly I think clubs are for single people or for couples to go together but not apart what's your oppinion?

Answer 1

Hell yeah it would bother me. I think most people would agree that a night club is a place you attend to meet other people, but the possibility does exist that a married man or woman could want to go to a night club to get a drink and listen to music. Ok, who do I think I'm kidding... No way in hell would I allow my spouse to attend a night club without me, and if he wanted to I'd have to keep a really close eye on him and question his motives. When a couple gets married, your social agenda changes. A girls night out no longer consists of going dancing and mingling with men, we now go to dinner, and possibly a movie. The same things happens to married men, they have a mens poker night, or go golfing. Things change...Thanks for reminding me of the good ol days. Ha Ha

Answer 2

I agree. Night clubs to me are for couples or singles looking for a date. I don't think there's anything wrong for the spouse to occasionally go out to a different kind of bar for a beer and darts or pool with his friends. And the same goes for ladies.

Answer 3

clubs are for singles
it's a meet / meat market
sex is the prime objective
it's not for socializing
any guy who goes out and is married is looking for the side fling
women are no different
there is simply no reason for any part of a married team to be in a night club unless they are seeking sex

Answer 4

Yes, I think it is alright.
Boys need their nights out. I don't like some of my husband's friends, so why spend any agonizing time with them?
Trust was a big thing for us,and why would we have bothered getting married to each other if we did not have that?

Answer 5

Depends what kind of club. If he is going to play pool with buddies, it's okay. If he were getting all dressed up and going to drink and party it up, I would not be happy with that. It's not because I'm insecure, it's because we're adults now and I wouldn't marry some wannabe 18 year old.

Answer 6

It would personally bother me if my other half went to a night club without me. It's not that I don't trust him, but I still believe that the clubs are for singles and swingers.

Answer 7

I agree with you. A married person who spends a lot of time at the clubs without their partner is likely to find themselves single.

When people drink alcohol their safeguards against infidelity can diminish.

Answer 8

It's all about really knowing a person and trusting them. If I wanted to go to a club, it'd be to hang out with my friends and booze it up. I wouldn't go to try and hook up with someone. And because I trust my S.O., I'd tell him to go for it if he wanted to have a night out. Follow your gut instinct.. if you think your spouse would cheat, then there's a reason for that and well, it probably would happen.

Answer 9

I've been with Jake for 4 years. He doesn't like me to go out while he's offshore and I agree but when he's home we go out together or separately with our friends. I think it all depends on trust. If Jake wants to go out and I don't feel like it, I tell him go. Same for me. Sometimes you just need time away and I don't see anything wrong with respecting each others space. Just a thought.

Answer 10

I agree, It's not healthy for any relationship, it will only cause trouble.... if he wanted to keep clubing alone he should have stayed single....he wants his cake and eat it too.... Once in awhile goin out with your friends is one thing but when you get married things change, it's not just you anymore, it's the both of you and to make it work you both have to try.... Not try and piss each other off...