Marriage & Divorce - 23 August 2006

My daughter's father and I are great friends, and he married a friend on mine (I finally got over that), and he cheats on her. He tells me about these sex-capades with different and we laugh about it. All I do is tell him that she will find out, just like I did. He also gets up set b/c she is untrusting of him (rightfully so) but she knew all of the things he put me through and still married him. I guess my question is are he and I wrong for being so close (oh, we live 1000 miles away from each other)and telling each other dman near every thing in out relationships???

2006-08-23 08:03:26 · 5 answers · asked by vernise2679 4

my turkish boyfriend wants to get married but i don't know what his mother will think of me as i am not turkish. also does any one know what turkish men are like when they are married will they be the same?

2006-08-23 07:59:50 · 12 answers · asked by pink_ballerina_2k6 1

or usually when you live together before you don't end up getting married? I mean what are the chances to get married ? Are more o less if you live together before? what is your experience?

2006-08-23 07:57:31 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'd like to go to counseling with my fiancee, but he seems to think it's a waste of money and time, his exact phrase "why should i shell out $200 to have you say to some guy the same thing you could tell me now?"
I think we have a lot of issues he is not even aware about, mostly coming from my side (loss of self, fear of routine...)
I think he should come because it would be easier for me to talk about these things with someone else.
did you married people go to counseling before you got married? also, is it normal to feel so depressed about settling down? i'm a free spirit, and while i love him, i also feel part of me will die.

2006-08-23 07:52:55 · 8 answers · asked by ingrid 2

And ladies, don't say it's because the guys turn into big fat losers. A lot of guys stay the same and the activity in the bedroom stops anyhow.

2006-08-23 07:47:38 · 24 answers · asked by hfacto 3

I paid mortgage for the last 6 mths. I have no more money. left and he isn't paying anything. Now our credit is ruining. The cc Card is in his name only. Legally will I get into trouble although I am his wife?

2006-08-23 07:36:29 · 20 answers · asked by C P 1

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7K_Q-04JkOo

If not, what should he do??

2006-08-23 07:28:43 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

My fiancee went out to a business mixer and she got to talking to a prominant businessman about a job she is trying to land. The businessman went on to tell her that he garuntees he can get her a job. This job she wants is in a totally different field than the prominant business owners. She came home totally excited and happy, and kept going on and on about this guy. I got mad and told her he was just trying to sleep with her. She got exremely upset with me. Am I over reacting?

2006-08-23 07:27:12 · 19 answers · asked by raiderphan79 2

i would preffer married peoples oppinion on this one , but if you have been in a relationship for over 5 years and your partner has cheated on you how can you forgive ? will avenging it by having sex with somebody else help you get over it ?
have you ever done this ? how did you feel afterwards ? has it saved your relationship ?

2006-08-23 07:15:51 · 45 answers · asked by insenergy 5

some one claims he loves u, and does hardly or occasionally anything beyond words, what does it mean?

2006-08-23 07:13:40 · 12 answers · asked by azal 1

2006-08-23 07:10:27 · 22 answers · asked by legalsecretary27 1

I am finding it hard to grt close to my husband

2006-08-23 07:01:30 · 8 answers · asked by rhonalester15 1

2006-08-23 07:01:29 · 5 answers · asked by ez-goin 4

2006-08-23 07:00:08 · 33 answers · asked by qwerty 2

2006-08-23 06:57:59 · 8 answers · asked by Mark 1

I also have a question recently my husband has taken to sleeping on the couch, about 6 months, he has every excuse in the book not to sleep in bed, we have argued fought etc, he knows it makes me mad, but he continues to do it, should I take it as a sign and let him go??? he is a fireman, so its not every single night he works 4 24 hour shifts a week.

2006-08-23 06:57:55 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

A couple ,three times a year out of the blue(at least I don't see it coming)hellacious ,kaos scourches the portion of the earth I inhabit. 98% of the time it's over some sort of unjustified jealousy issue. Usually takes several days( and a lot of asprin) before I am able to calm her down and convince her she had nothing to be pissed about.The damage left behind (for me anyway) is pretty extreme. In fact I really don't get over it as much as I just try to put it behind me. Once things blow over, I am left with the impression that she somehow feels I am responsible for these episodes and so owe her something. Granted I do get angry(pissed beyond belief,furious in fact), but after the 20th time I am past even feeling sorry about getting pissed off. These things are ugly enough as they are ,when they end I'd like them to END and not have to do the sorry dear thing she expects me to do . Any suggestions to bring a swift and complete end to this type of thing or even better avoid it ?

2006-08-23 06:56:56 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

If you were married and were having financial trouble and a Sugar Daddy came along and offered to help you financially but you would have to do things that would never cross your mind (cheat for financial help), Would do it?

2006-08-23 06:56:41 · 14 answers · asked by SEXY 818 2

2006-08-23 06:56:21 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

weve been together a year. he had me completely believe that he is perfect. i know for a fact that hes in love and would never..do anything more than maybe a kiss on the lips. BUT its the little things like..he left someone a comment on myspace sayin she was beautiful and that he would defenitly call her.(he said he was just being nice) he had a girl saved in his phone as "my love" (he siad SHE was just being nice) a girl sent him a message on myspace saying that she had fun the other night and she was sorry she couldnt go online(he said she swore she meant to send it to his friend..not him)
i dont see how he has time for other girls..im ALWAYS with him. except now cuz hes in college...for the past 4 days. i know theres a party tonight and i asked him not to go. he told me he had an orientation at 9 30pm to 11. its 11 45 and he still hasnt called. what kind of orientation is at 9 30 at night?
am i stupid for staying with him? =[

2006-08-23 06:54:09 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

I want to serve my husband with divorce papers but i don't know where he lives - another state than me. I know he will be in court for trial against him on a specific date, time, and address of the courthouse. Can I have him served there? if so, how?

2006-08-23 06:53:38 · 17 answers · asked by Terri F 1

Apparently I have a distant cousin who is going to marry a 2nd woman, I don't want my wife to freak out, but it's distant family anyway. What do yo think of plural marriage?

2006-08-23 06:53:13 · 17 answers · asked by Sausage Fingers™ 3

i have just under 2k but need to include the honeymoon as well wich has cost 700

2006-08-23 06:53:01 · 26 answers · asked by steptocymru 1

2006-08-23 06:51:40 · 14 answers · asked by sad bride 1

A few days ago I posted a question about a guys wife had an affair and what should he do. She claimed that she only did it one time. So we washed his bed sheets that night and yesterday we checked them with a Black light. There was sperm and sememn all over them. She has been sleeping with her guys in his bed since that happen. They are going to divorce. Did I do the right thing to help him?

2006-08-23 06:47:57 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

need to know because i wanna get marrited to this guy i like

2006-08-23 06:47:12 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

i think i have to kill that slutty ***** who he is with then he wiill take me back yes that's it and then i will convince him to take me back by buying him lavish gifts and giving him money!

2006-08-23 06:42:33 · 16 answers · asked by sad bride 1

married for long years ..kids on their own...What alternatives for a man to do in his 50s apart from staying at home apart from watchin Tv and nag with wife everyday.?

2006-08-23 06:36:07 · 10 answers · asked by qwerty 2

need to kill myself i love my fiancee so much i cant stop thinking about him at night sometimes i drive to his house and just sit outside looking at his window ( the other night he was making love to my friend and i saw their shadows) life is not worth living anymore

2006-08-23 06:35:06 · 30 answers · asked by sad bride 1

We got married 2 months ago and I am already tired, feel empty, misunderstood, alone. We are arguing about everything. I cry almost everyday. He tells me I act like a kid. He is new to US and trying to find a job, friends. And he blames me for everything I guess. If he is on a bad mood he treets me terrible. He emails his friend back home and doesn't even tell about me that he got married. So yesteday I emailed to his 2 friends (girls) istead of him telling that he is married and lives with his wife. I guess now he is mad at me. I tried to talk but he ignores the problems

2006-08-23 06:30:44 · 12 answers · asked by sophie12780 1