2006-08-23 07:10:27 · 22 answers · asked by legalsecretary27 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you love him try counseling or maybe just a separation to give you some free time all marriages go though dry spells the fact that you still love him speaks volumes
2006-08-23 07:13:58 · answer #1 · answered by Amy M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relationships go up and down. It's not always going to be exciting. Not with anyone. That's life.
You say you love him, but you are willing to divorce because you're not currently interested? Do you know how difficult it is to find someone you can love? Makes me wonder if you even know what love is. What it is not, is something you give up on so easily.
Relationships take work sometimes. When you put the time into a relationship at a low point, your love grows deeper and more meaningful. You grow closer and the good times are that much better.
However, if you're really that lazy and selfish, go ahead and divorce him and move on to someone else you will easily fall in love with then get bored again, and move on to the next and the next ...
2006-08-23 14:49:56 · answer #2 · answered by mrpeabody 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't just give up. Try all the avenues open to you such as marriage counseling and then go from there. If you have done all that you can do and still don't want him as a husband then go ahead and start the divorce proceedings. But try talking to him first about how you are feeling.
2006-08-23 14:20:40 · answer #3 · answered by kitcat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you dont have kids, totally, get a divorce, its no big deal. That way you can find some other guy to have fun with.
If you have kids, get a divorce, lol... Just make sure he mans up and is a good dad to your kids. Just dont bring guys home when you have the kids unless it totally is a guy you want them to meet, like as in someone who is nice and not just a booty call. know what I mean?
2006-08-23 14:27:26 · answer #4 · answered by jeff the drunk 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like you have fallen out of love with him. There is a difference in loving and being in love! I know this all too well personally. Perhaps you might think back as to why you wanted him to be your husband in the first place and try to get back to that. If there is something salvagable in your marriage, work hard to save it! I believe there is more to this than you are stating!
2006-08-23 14:35:05 · answer #5 · answered by hummingbird 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My answer to you is to tell your spouse the truth about how you
feel, and ask if you can still be friends. It's always better if you are going to divorce, to try to remain on good terms with your ex, in some instances. Also maybe give marriage counseling a try.
2006-08-23 14:49:24 · answer #6 · answered by midnightwolf99_2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what your heart and head tells you. But be carefull....the grass isn't greener on the other side.
Have you seriously considered an exit plan? Who's moving out. Who's paying the bills. Who's name is on the bills. Who's paying the credit cards and other debt. Who's getting the car? Got a lawyer? Who's taking what furniture?
Just some things to think about. Good luck.
2006-08-23 14:21:55 · answer #7 · answered by Tony 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What to do, what to do? Huh? If you love someone you work things out. If you don't, then you divorce. You cannot love them and get a divorce contrary to popular opinion. When you contemplate divorce, love has flown out the window. Get it?
2006-08-23 14:15:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
man, i thought i was the only person that felt that way. ive been married 4yrs and i love my husband but weve grown apart and dont do much together as a couple and we are NEVER intimate. get a divorce before you end up doing something you regret.
2006-08-23 14:17:02 · answer #9 · answered by angeleyez 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Work on your marriage. People take these things too lightly these days. See a therapist, talk about the issues and then if it is still something you can't resolve , then think about separation.
My guess is that you think you found something "greener" , but in reality the grass is never greener on the other side of the fence.
2006-08-23 14:18:52 · answer #10 · answered by gina_road 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋