Marriage & Divorce - 23 August 2006

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Thank you for all your comments and advice.
After lengthy discussions last night we admited what it is we are not happy about.
My partner does not like to look at the mask during lovemaking and i wont accept her humming space songs while i try to perform, i dont believe her saying she's having an orgasm.
As she accepts that the mask is vital for me and i do want her to enjoy what we do, we agreed ( for the first time ) to be adventurous last night. what we did was she leaned out of the sash window and i lowered it onto her back, we were able to make love without her having to look at the mask and i not to hear her.
It seemed to work as she jumped and fought as we moved, ive never been so excited, what a transformation.
when i lifted the window she went absolutley mental, the reason she was jumping and pushing was the neighbours were leaning on the fence talking to her.....its not my fault..couldnt hear

2006-08-23 06:27:05 · 5 answers · asked by pat.rob00 Chef U.K. 6

We get along good and we like each other but he's married. He says he and his wife do not sleep together anymore and that she doesn't care for him. It is wrong I know so I told him to get a divorce But he won't divorce her. And says he likes me. Should I go for it anyway or ditch him?

2006-08-23 06:24:36 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous

he left me at the altar for one of my friends but everyday i get up and follow him around all day

2006-08-23 06:24:29 · 14 answers · asked by sad bride 1

We have a 10 year old son that we share 50/50% joint custody. The ex will NOT talk to me. He lets his wife do all the talking. I feel that the two of them are putting negative thoughts about myself and my family into his head. Not directly, but through little cutting remarks here and there. My son has become aggressive toward my daughter (he never was before). I don't know how to handle this situation.

2006-08-23 06:23:48 · 23 answers · asked by Wendy D 1

the drive in ( i follow him around) what should i do should i kill the ***** and the sorry bastard

2006-08-23 06:21:36 · 20 answers · asked by sad bride 1

After three pregnancies I'm trying to lose weight. I'm really uncomfortable with how I look, so I'm eating better and am going to start to exercise in 4 weeks (that's when my doctor said it will be okay after giving birth) and I'm really concerned with my health. My problem is now my husband isn't as attractive to me. He's always been heavy, but it hasn't ever bothered me before like it does now. He still eats unhealthy and has no plans to exercise or lose weight, even though he admits he has a weight problem. I still love him because he's a great husband and father. But I'm concerned for his health and I don't get turned on by his looks anymore. I don't know what to do. I don't feel like I can make him lose weight, it has to be his own choice. I'm concerned for our relationship. Is it just my own insecurities with my own body causing this? Or is it that I could have changed my tastes for what I want in a mate? Any advice?

2006-08-23 06:11:55 · 55 answers · asked by mommyem 4

Do you think about your exes? Do your exes think about you? If you broke up with someone who wanted to marry you, do you think that person ever thinks about you - years after the relationship ended and you've both moved on. I.E.: you're married and he's getting married? Just curious as to what everyone thinks. Wondering if it's true that when you're thinking about someone, they are usually thinking about you, too.

2006-08-23 06:07:02 · 13 answers · asked by Rachel 7

he only told me about his two older kids. He never told me about his two youngest, I had to find out myself six months after we got together.I accept his kids, but the two youngest I cant fully accept them,since he lied to me. How do I work around it? He knows I cant fully accept them. Do we still get married,or should I be a b*tch and tell his ex.Or how can I get to accept them?

2006-08-23 06:04:09 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-23 05:59:32 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-23 05:59:28 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband goes out once a week with the guys to play pool.He says he does'nt mind if I go out on another night,but when I do,he complains about where I go.Is this too much for him to go out and should he get a say in where I go if I don't get a say in where he goes.

2006-08-23 05:54:24 · 27 answers · asked by jayne s 2

How old were you when you started looking, or wanting to look at girlie magazines? My 11 year old just told me how "curious" he is and asked me to buy him a Play Boy! Would any of you have asked your Mom that????

2006-08-23 05:54:23 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

my husband who I've been with about three years dating and we just got married Feb of 06. he used to cheat well i should say i found out he had a girlfriend while we were into our relationship a year and i was pregnant when we were dating now he is on myspace sending messages to people trying to meet up when I confronted him he said he was just replying not to be mean but i noticed he has been searching local people with messages like you want me to rock your world and dumb *** **** like that what should i do i have three kids and really no money for daycare should i move in with my parents

2006-08-23 05:52:54 · 13 answers · asked by rasheeta1 2

Question go for kids also.

2006-08-23 05:50:01 · 11 answers · asked by TRANSLOPEDIA 4

There's no way to hide a kitten anyway. I want to name her button, but my wife may want to name the kitten something else. She'll be our 3rd cat, hopefully she will get along with the others. Do pets add to your relationship? or do you hate their pet & try to make it run away?

2006-08-23 05:44:50 · 33 answers · asked by Sausage Fingers™ 3

i was feeling bad about my life, without getting into details, i had sex with a woman used to that before, the problem that i felt that i love her and that i need to marry her, sometimes when i think about that i feel i am doing something wrong, but actualy i like being with her, give me your thoughts

2006-08-23 05:39:00 · 10 answers · asked by wispercall 1

I have not always been the most honest person with my husband, I have lied to him about things in the past, but none were major things mostly small stuff, I have never cheated on him and do not go out to bars. My life consists of going to work, shopping at the grocery store, and coming home. we have been married for two years now and in this time he has accused me of cheating every other month if not every month (this behavior started after we were married). My husband has now asked me to take a lie detector test, I told hiom no because my feeling is that after two years of me not having any friends, not going any where without him, doing everything i can to make him comfortable includuing changing my wardrobe and being a very devoted wife if he still can't trust me then we shouldn't be together. My husband has been married before and has been cheated on in his past two relationships and his last marriage. Am I wrong for telling him no?

2006-08-23 05:36:46 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

nine years I was my girls mom. We shared a 50/50 love. I'll do this and you do that. That was the first two years of our relationship. Then her true colors started to show. We would argue all the time and I finally moved out. We continued to date after a few promises of 1more chance but I never moved in with her. Things got bad for her she had to split her family3 in all. We managed to make another try at a relationship. The first two months 60/40 alright I settled. Eventulaly the kids came home while she was pregnant with our first. The relationship became 70/30. OK your pregnant with my child yur going 2 be moody. Less stress no problems.( I'm gonna jump so pay attention.) We had a fight one day infront of the kids. I'm trying to defuse the situation by sleeping in the other room. I get upset she gets scared and calls the police. I have to go from my own house. We seperate. We get back 2gether when she's pregnant with my 2nd now it's a 80/20 relationship. I move out of the state.

2006-08-23 05:36:35 · 8 answers · asked by dlittlz 1

I found out my wife is cheating on me.. I actually walked in on them. I thought she was cheating once before, but I had no real proof. So I put it out of my mind. I love her, but I'm not sure I can ever totally forgive her or trust her completely again. Part of me wants to leave her, But another part does not. The part that does is because of what she did, it hurts so bad! But the part of me that does not is because we have been married for 10 years, and we have eight children together. I just don't know what to do. What should I do? Help!!!!

2006-08-23 05:34:00 · 15 answers · asked by Success _man 1

third party your married partner had affair with? Assume you know who and where the person can be found.

If yes, what would you do and why?

2006-08-23 05:32:18 · 74 answers · asked by DiL 3

intercast marriages

2006-08-23 05:32:11 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and I can't seem to agree on anything financial. We separate everything and are behind because of it. We finally agreed to combine our finances and work together. I have my own personal bank account and we have a joint account. Because of his credit he doesn't have an account. After agreeing to combine everything, he insists on having access to my personal account. I feel that as long as all our money goes into the joint account I should be able to use my account for personal spending. I don't feel he should have to check my personal account. I don't check his wallet! So now that I don't agree to giving him access to my account, he doesn't want to combine things like we had agreeed and we are back at square one. Any advice on how to work this out would be great. If we can't work together we are headed for divorce.

2006-08-23 05:22:03 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

How big was the biggest penis you had and what size did you like the best ? I like the 7 to 8 inchs.

2006-08-23 05:20:55 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am living with my boyfriend and we have been dating for eight years..high school sweet hearts. I am 22 and he is 20 turning 21 this fall..am I crazy to want to get married soon?

2006-08-23 05:20:51 · 10 answers · asked by JenS12 2

Anyone who has left their spouse and said that you are going to divorce them.. How long did it take before you heard anything about it officially?
My wife left just over 3 months ago saying she was going to divorce me and I have heard absolutely nothing.. whats the usual time frame?
I am tired of not knowing if she is serious or not and want to know if there is still a chance here...

2006-08-23 05:18:39 · 10 answers · asked by althor989 1

For Example,

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7K_Q-04JkOo

What should the guy in this clip do as the girl keeps hitting him?

2006-08-23 05:17:42 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-23 05:16:31 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous

we've been staying together for all those years and now he says God is speaking to him so he would'nt like us to be in that fornication so he is ready to perform the custormarry rights so that we will be free from fornication.Now he say he has 2 sons which was unexpercted when he was in school.He and his family has deforce that girl so the childern are with his mother. He has introduce me to his family and they ascepted me.I am 23yrs old and he 24yrs. Now I do'nt want to loose him and we also don't wont to sin against God in this fornication since we are christains.
He can not stay without me neither can I. Now I want to kwon if I should let him go on to perform the custormarry rites or not .And also is it adviceable for a girl of my class to marry such a guy becuase I'm scard I may face problems in future. He broke my virginity. we are all working with good salaries. what should i do?

2006-08-23 05:14:06 · 16 answers · asked by rosevclass 1

I love my wife very much and I do all that I can to satisfy her, but she is just cold with me and always complaining, I am beggining to loose my patience with her...

2006-08-23 05:12:53 · 16 answers · asked by bme24_7 1

Not the butterflies in the stomach kind of love... the love that lasts until a 50th wedding anniversary. What is it like? What are the feelings you'll have for that person before/during your marriage?? Does it change from before you're married to after?

2006-08-23 05:09:53 · 11 answers · asked by whateva 2