the drive in ( i follow him around) what should i do should i kill the ***** and the sorry bastard
2006-08-23 06:21:36 · 20 answers · asked by sad bride 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Send him an open can of tuna in the mail. Cover the inside of the box with plastic so it doesn't leak but in such a way that he cuts the plastic when he opens the box.
And then, move on with your life.
2006-08-23 06:24:58 · answer #1 · answered by C K Platypus 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Are you crazy? He did you a favor...
Yep, of course you're embarassed, hurt, shocked, wasted money on a wedding, etc... but let's just say that a divorce with children to boot somewhere down the line would have be a WHOLE lot more painful and more expensive.
This person was sooooooooooooo NOT the one for you. The fact that he did what he did was a very good thing... TRUST!
You'll get over this pain after a while and when the time is right, the person you were truly meant to be with will be by your side and will treat you like a queen. Then you'll look back and say "Thank goodness, he really did me a HUGE favor" This "less than a man" is showing you by clear indications that he is not a man and not worthy of your love. He would more than likely have cheated on you and made your life miserable. Nobody normal marries with the intention of divorcing. So stay away from that looser... matter of fact RUN!
Treat yourself good and look good at all times, becuse he will eventually come around to speak with you... listen to what he has to say, then say what's on your mind. Then DISMISS him with a quickness after the conversation. Hold your head up and move on, because that "less than a man" will get what he deserves very soon.. TRUST!
2006-08-23 13:34:06 · answer #2 · answered by 247 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, your anger is certainly very understandable especially after the embarassment and humilation he has put you through.
As terrible and as sick to your stomach you are probably feeling right now, try to console yourself with the thought that at least you didn't marry this gianormous ***. As bad as things are for you right now, they could actually have been worse.
Could you even imagine what it would have like if you had gone ahead and married him, and then found out he was cheating later on?
Or what if you married him, bought a house together, had kids with him, and then a few years down the road, found out he was cheating?
No matter how badly you are hurting right now or how angry you are feeling...in time, things will eventually get better and it will pass.
You should be so thankful you did not marry this cheater.
But don't be surprised...if this fool doesn't try to come crawling back at some point, begging your forgiveness and asking you to take him back. When that day comes, just remember the hell he put you through, and kick him to the curb!
Good Luck~*
2006-08-23 13:50:02 · answer #3 · answered by DG 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you should not kill anyone. No one should have to die because he was stupid. Let me tell you this I wish my ex-husband had left me at the altar sure I would have been devastated but it would have saved from years of emotional/physical abuse. So look at it this way good thing he left you at the altar instead of going through with the wedding and cheating on. This you can get over in time. You probably need some counseling. Take care. You are better off without the loser.
2006-08-23 13:41:30 · answer #4 · answered by kitcat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well its his loss since he lost a person like you. You were faithful and probably looking for a happy life with him. Well i think you should be happy this happened because if you married and your good friend was seen with him it would be more critical situation...well i think you are lucky that you werent married to a bastard like him. I think you will have a better life like the way you deserve it. Dont worry, just forget all about it. He is a bastard. Take care
trisha
2006-08-23 13:28:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go into his house when he's not there. Bring a huge thing of chicken livers and shove them all over the house, like behind furniture and under stuff like the bed. I'd tell the "friend" that he gave you crabs and scabies, and it still burns when you pee.
Revenge is the best thing ever, and better than therapy. Be glad you are rid of the bastard.
2006-08-23 13:52:24 · answer #6 · answered by drewsilla01 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should be happy that it happen now... what if you got married and 4 or 7 years from now, he did left you for yoru friend? you will say I wish I didn't married him in the first place ya know??? smiling.
Don't follow him anymore he not worth it at all. He bunches loser, You know there a guy out there really want to show you love, caring, giver, trust, commucation, etc. so you should be there for you... take time to find someone.
I am glad he did left you... in a good way... so you won't have to say "WHY DID I MARRIED HIM IN THE FIRST PLACE???" agree or disagree wtih me???
good luck
2006-08-23 14:12:35 · answer #7 · answered by greenbaypackers1920 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry this happend to you it sucks I know, I would say forget them both. But first make him pay at least part of the cost of the wedding. You get to keep the ring by the way . Have it made into something else or sell it. Then find a man, a good man, who will be faithfull and honest with you.
2006-08-23 13:25:34 · answer #8 · answered by jagbeeton 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, don't consider murder.
I say you forget about him.Don't waste your time on someone who plays mind games with women. You are only putting yourself in a position to get hurt. I know it hurts to let go but it's better if you do because he is a sorry *** little boy with no intelligence and one day you'll end up happy & he'll be lonely.
2006-08-23 13:24:53 · answer #9 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
this may be hard to hear but the best thing he did for you was not marry you. if you would have married him it sounds like he would have cheated on you and not made you priority one. you need some time to heal and fighting with him will not help you heal. i know you want to hurt the jackass but you will only make yourself more bitter in the process.
i'm very sorry that this happened to you! give yourself sometime to heal and in the meantime, find some things that make you happy to concentrate on. when you are ready, you will find a guy who is worth your time.
2006-08-23 13:26:50 · answer #10 · answered by WxEtte 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋