I love my wife very much and I do all that I can to satisfy her, but she is just cold with me and always complaining, I am beggining to loose my patience with her...
2006-08-23 05:12:53 · 16 answers · asked by bme24_7 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Shoot her.
2006-08-23 05:14:08 · answer #1 · answered by elw 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Violence is not the answer-let her know how you feel and tell her that if she loves you she will have respect for your feelings and try to be kinder to you-if she sees how upset this makes you and shows no concern-your out of luck she is not where you should be. Excuses are not reasons-and the only reason people are cold like that,especially once they know how you feel, is because their hearts have gone cold. Maybe when you explain the hurt feelings you are experiencing she will realize that she isn't treating you right. I hope so. Best of Luck
2006-08-23 12:18:45 · answer #2 · answered by laura_lovely_sweet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes people can not be satisfied. Stopp trying so hrad the more you try t he more they want. She is an evil woman. Not to be rude but she needs a taste of her own medicine. Get up pack your bags and go to someones elses house. If she runs you down maybe go back but give it a good week of no contact no nothing. I wish u luck
2006-08-23 12:24:20 · answer #3 · answered by Robyn D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Salam (Peace)!
You should first look how you are towards her? Are you doing anything that might upset her?
Second, talk to her and assure her of your love and that you will always be there for her if she ever feels down or hurt.
Third, listen to her and don't judge or interrupt her.
Fourth, calmly and with kindness give her suggestions.
Fifth, listen to her side and solve the problem together and speak if you have any concerns as well.
That should inshallah (God Willing) solve the problem.
2006-08-23 12:48:33 · answer #4 · answered by Badra 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Come home today with a huge bouquet of flowers and give her a big kiss! When she asks 'why', tell her 'just because'. That will melt her heart today.... and for tomorrow hide a love note in her purse... and for the day after... think of something....
I am sure she just wants some attention and love and care from YOU!
2006-08-23 12:19:49 · answer #5 · answered by Просто Я 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She obviously lost her patience with you long ago. Accept, leave, screw, and find a new bed mate...your wife will thank you for it later. Good luck
2006-08-23 12:32:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit down and have a talk with her and let her know how you are feeling! she will understand and open up to you! If she doesn't then you need to get professional help to make things work!
2006-08-23 12:25:07 · answer #7 · answered by kissfan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't ask what u do, ask what u did. if shes cold to u it might be something that u did, unless shes always been cold. in that case id say u married the wrong person.
2006-08-23 12:16:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get some beer and a good blanket
2006-08-23 12:31:36 · answer #9 · answered by Joe H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long has this been going on? It could be that it's 'that time of the month'
2006-08-23 12:15:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stand up to her. Nobody wants a doormat.
2006-08-23 12:17:32 · answer #11 · answered by spidermonkeyfingers 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋