We get along good and we like each other but he's married. He says he and his wife do not sleep together anymore and that she doesn't care for him. It is wrong I know so I told him to get a divorce But he won't divorce her. And says he likes me. Should I go for it anyway or ditch him?
2006-08-23 06:24:36 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I would ditch him. That may be hard for you to do sincee you are emotionally caught up in him. But the reality of it is that lets say that you to do get a relationshiip going, and lets say that his wife finds out and divorces him. That would be great because now he has no reason not to marry you.
So he does but three years down the road he gets bored with the samme piece of tail at home which happens to be you. He is going to be back in the bar singing the same song to someone new.
And watch out because in some states there is a law called alienation of affection where the wife can come after you and sue you.
There is a man out there just for you wait and pray and he will come to you in Gods timing GOOD LUCK!!!!
2006-08-23 06:49:12 · answer #1 · answered by Froggy_45 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems as if you will be filling a void in each others life. Maybe he will realize that you are his significant other and ask his wife to divorce until she agrees. No sex for one year is grounds for divorce. If you both get along, perhaps you will eventually live together and he will be separated. But if he cares for you its a good thing. Just be smart don't let him take advantage, Is he telling you the truth or trying to get some on the side?
2006-08-23 06:30:20 · answer #2 · answered by Ask the Chef 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Consider there are always two sides to a story. His side is, naturally, "my wife doesn't care for me anymore." But if truth be known, her side of the story would be, "He's playing the field and trying to cheat on me, but isn't man enough to be honest about it, work on the problems or initiate a divorce." Right?
The only way you should sleep with a married man....is if you're the one married to him.
Ditch him, and run like hell. He's a liar, a cheater and has no backbone, honor or integrity.
And for the record, I'm a guy.
2006-08-23 06:29:12 · answer #3 · answered by Timothy W 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
HUH? he want you but he won't divorce her??? huh?? if you and I go though and knowing that my wife don't love me or have sex wit hme anymore. and want you and I would be glad to divorce and be with you.......
I don't see why you should have sex with married man if he won't divorce his wife first. smiling. I think you should ditch him. He will say things to you make you believe and then later you will find out that all not true and you will waste 1/2 of your life with him. He might be lying to you that he does have sex with wife and all that..who knows if he telling the truth and you should go visit his home and meet his wife alone and asked all the question to find out if it true.
if he get so mad at you for going over there.. tell him well you won't divorce her I had to find out if you telling the true. or just dump him fine a real man who love you, care for you, want you, don't care about anyone but you. stuff like that... or waste your time believing married man's word.
2006-08-23 07:09:16 · answer #4 · answered by greenbaypackers1920 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eventhough you both get along well, that is no reason to sleep with him. If he says that they don't sleep together anymore then they should either get a divorce or separate. You should not have sex with a married man Period.
2006-08-23 07:04:25 · answer #5 · answered by Virgin Islands Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should never sleep with a married man. it's wrong. if he wanted you that bad then he would divorce her. if he won't divorce her then ditch him. don't sleep with him while he is married. he is just probably being nice to get a piece. ya know? you have your own judgements though. i am married. i would have a hissy fit if my husband slept with another women. don't be the blame for thier relationship. ok sweetie.
2006-08-23 07:09:29 · answer #6 · answered by Melinda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A guy will say just about anything to get in your pants. If he's lying to his wife.....for sure he's lying to you too. You're beening played for a fool. Surprize surprize....he won't divorce her....isn't that a big Red Flag?
I sure hope you don't complain in the future when you're married and your husband is banging some bimbo. What goes around comes around.
2006-08-23 06:52:40 · answer #7 · answered by Tony 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ditch him hun. If my opinion counts, what kind of a man is he if he won't leave his wife for you? He is not worth it to me. I wouldn't want a man that didn't want me 100%. You should be loved and respected in the way that you would want by a man. I have no idea where you're from but if the state I live in believed in adultery, my ex would be in trouble!
2006-08-23 06:29:35 · answer #8 · answered by Tammy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ditch him.
Adultery is absoloutely horrible. He is lying to his wife as well as you. Most men that have an affair lie to the person they have the affair with and say their unhappy, their wives don't care about them, etc when in reality most men that have affairs have wonderful wives waiting at home for them that are worried and love them.
Do not do this to him and yourself.
I highly doubt you would like this to happen to you if you were the wife in this position.
2006-08-23 06:29:24 · answer #9 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he says all these things about his wife and still won't divorce her that should tell you alot. NOOOOO you should not sleep with him regardless of what sob story he gives you, have some respect for yourself and find yourself someone that wants you for you and not your ***. He's married and wants to sleep around he's nothing more than a trifling, no good sleeze bag...
2006-08-23 07:04:48 · answer #10 · answered by mysteriouskisses12 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋