he left me at the altar for one of my friends but everyday i get up and follow him around all day
2006-08-23 06:24:29 · 14 answers · asked by sad bride 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes it's bad!!!!! Get Over Him! Or Get Help!
2006-08-23 06:27:50 · answer #1 · answered by nonya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, its bad for you but not for him. I know it must be a hurting thing to be left at the altar but it's something that you can get over. You are better off without him and that so call friend of yours. They are both losers and deserve each other. Maybe he will do the same thing to her. I know it only happened a week ago but you need to get some help so you can start the healing process. And following him around is not going to help. Were you two planning a honeymoon, if you have the tickets, I would take a close relative or good friend and go on the trick. You need to get away from him and that so call friend. Hang in there. It will get better in time.
2006-08-23 06:45:03 · answer #2 · answered by kitcat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry to hear this. Don't follow him...don't torture yourself like that. You need to move on - find a hobby you really enjoy and start doing it! If it helps, start writing or typing a daily journal to get all your feelings down...then after a month, either burn the papers or delete it if on the computer. Driving by to see what he's up you only hurts you...you need to have faith that things are going to get better. Hang in there!
2006-08-23 06:44:33 · answer #3 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
properly, it became slightly perplexing to study yet i visit comprehend you're writing it because it comprises you. looks to me that your guy needs to settle down so that you 2 could have a sensible lengthy communication about this. because that i'm no longer fairly positive how those emails were worded, i visit anticipate it became totally platonic and making ammends. If the emails were basically him apologizing then you 2 discussing what became incorrect along with your guy's automobile, then you're guy is overreacting. If there became something no longer so platonic on your emails then i visit comprehend him no longer having the flexibility to believe you in the present day. i'm no longer positive what i visit inform you to do except attempt to search for suggestion from with him, which it sort of feels he's no longer prepared to do. it sort of feels he's throwing a hissy-fit, it quite is comprehensible pondering the restraining order adversarial on your ex. i visit assert that you ought to have skipped over your ex's facebook message and blocked him. adult adult males are basically as jealous as women persons. you would possibly want to need to jot down your fiance a letter explaining what exceeded off and ask him to discover time for you 2 to debate each little thing. sturdy success.
2016-11-27 00:52:54 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to move on as long as you aren't letting this go you are preventing yourself from finding the right one. So he left you and slept with your friend....and guess what you survived. Now stop surviving and live! Move on , dwelling in this won't change a damn thing. He did what he did, end of story. I know it's hard and I'm not trying to down play your feelings, but you have to go on.
2006-08-23 07:47:31 · answer #5 · answered by e_deckwa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is bad.
You need to move on. If he doesn't care about you then you shouldn't allow yourself to care about him. I know there will be feelings there that you'll have for him but why waste your time chasing something that is wild and untamed and isn't going to come back to you.
Instead, you should go out and look for a new guy and if you're not ready to find someone new, go out with friends and have a good time.
Leave him alone, he isn't worth it, I promise.
2006-08-23 06:31:18 · answer #6 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm still a teen and you might think i don;t understand but i do. you feel desperate for love. you feel like you deserve less because he choose her over you. you feel lonely. that's why you're followng him aroud. you think it's better to have someone rather than no one. right? well...you're wrong. no one deserves a man like that. i mean for gods sakes he left you at the altar. how selfish is that? you still have feelings for him, but he left you to the big rejection area...try to do things to keep him off your mind. don't think of the pros in him...instead think of the cons. then you might be able to realize that you're too good for a guy like that. good luck!
2006-08-23 06:30:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a loser. I understand you are hurting, which can give you insecurities and obsessive thoughts but try to keep yourself occupied in other ways. Before you know it he will be a distant memory and you will have found someone better.
2006-08-23 06:32:34 · answer #8 · answered by grudgrime 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, that is bad. Get over him already.
2006-08-23 06:40:13 · answer #9 · answered by Fishgutts 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stalker, I hope he gets a restraining order against you.
2006-08-23 06:37:23 · answer #10 · answered by Edward 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋