if you want to help you might need to read parts 1 & 2 on my base page.
Thank you for all your comments and advice.
After lengthy discussions last night we admited what it is we are not happy about.
My partner does not like to look at the mask during lovemaking and i wont accept her humming space songs while i try to perform, i dont believe her saying she's having an orgasm.
As she accepts that the mask is vital for me and i do want her to enjoy what we do, we agreed ( for the first time ) to be adventurous last night. what we did was she leaned out of the sash window and i lowered it onto her back, we were able to make love without her having to look at the mask and i not to hear her.
It seemed to work as she jumped and fought as we moved, ive never been so excited, what a transformation.
when i lifted the window she went absolutley mental, the reason she was jumping and pushing was the neighbours were leaning on the fence talking to her.....its not my fault..couldnt hear
2006-08-23 06:27:05 · 5 answers · asked by pat.rob00 Chef U.K. 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
sorry,you`ve took it too far now. not funny anymore!!!!
2006-08-23 06:33:05 · answer #1 · answered by nicola 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all. Can you see what you are doing when you put on the mask? If you can, why don't you tie a shirt or something around your wife's eyes so she can't see you when you guys are having sex. This would make it interesting and exiciting for her. If this doesn't work try inventing some exciting scene where you make the mask part of your love making.If your wife still acts the same I think you should consider counseling to see if you can work it out. She is your wife and she shouldn't be acting that way. She should support you and love you the way you are. Hope this helps.
2006-08-23 06:38:32 · answer #2 · answered by maidapr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my husband also wear the Mask to bed although he doesnt wear it all the time during sex but i would rather the mask than for him to fight to breath and have another heart attack hes had 2 some times u just have to except the things u can not change even when he does wear it during sex he will take it off a lil later and just hold me close and tell the how good it wasfor him and how much he loves me gives me awsome kisses b/f putting it back on for sleep how ever i dont think i would hang out of a window gees ! my biggest trouble is the cold air blowing on me if he tries to hold me during the nite
2006-08-23 06:39:58 · answer #3 · answered by Msdeb gee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why just why are you with your so call wife
2006-08-23 06:30:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now I know you are making this up....what a JERK!
2006-08-23 06:30:14 · answer #5 · answered by doc 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋