My friend and his wife were going thru a rough time their 1st year of marriage.
His wife told him recently that she kissed her co-worker and it wasn’t cheating to her.
The kiss was on the lips and it wasn’t just one kiss.
It was a long passionate French kiss.
My friend believes it was cheating.
Its cheating to me too because it’s not a peck between friends.
Would this be cheating to you?
2006-08-23 09:17:57 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
yes it is, if she truely loved him she wouldnt put her self in that situation and would never do anything like that.
2006-08-23 10:13:01 · answer #1 · answered by matt B 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To me, kissing someone other than your spouse or whoever you may be romantically involved with is definitely cheating.Many may say it was just a kiss,but a kiss will at some point lead to other things,and I'm sure that it had to have crossed their minds to maybe take that kiss a litle further. A french kiss definitely stimulates other parts of the body.I can see how your friend would be hurt and upset by this. A kiss is a personal thing not to be shared with every Tom,Dick and Harry.
2006-08-23 16:41:44 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend should take his wife to counseling so she can find out what "cheating" means. Any time there's anything done between a man & woman who are married and it's not being done with each other on an intimate basis is considered "cheating". When a couple wants to have an encounter with one another, how do they start it off? (with a French Kiss). So, she needs to get some lecturing on what's done & not done among friends of the opposite sex when you are married or in a relationship with someone. Otherwise, your friend needs to keep an eye on his wife for her lack of loyalty.
2006-08-23 16:31:36 · answer #3 · answered by msthinkpositive 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You, I, your friend and his wife all know that's cheating! It's hard enough to keep marriages together nowadays and kissing someone other than your spouse is only going to put more stress on a already difficult situation. She should be ashamed.
2006-08-23 16:26:07 · answer #4 · answered by greenejl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES! YES! YES! It's cheating. Unless they're acting -- legitimately -- as in Cameron Diaz kissing someone other than Justin in a movie -- then it's CHEATING!
2006-08-23 16:40:36 · answer #5 · answered by bethiswriting 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it's cheating.
That type of kissing is an important part of intimacy and doing it outside of the relationship breaks the trust.
2006-08-23 16:54:42 · answer #6 · answered by chazzaw 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most deffinately it is cheating and I bet if it was him who kissed another woman she would be pissed and we all go through hard times but that dose not give us the right to cheat.
2006-08-23 16:23:15 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anything done in secret from the spouse is cheating.
2006-08-23 16:27:45 · answer #8 · answered by javelin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it's cheating.
2006-08-23 16:29:30 · answer #9 · answered by marie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes..
situation reversed and he was the one who kissed a co-worker, she would make him quit his job and hold it over his head the rest of their lives together.
2006-08-23 16:20:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh Yeah its cheating!!!! How would she like it if he did that with one of his female co-workers???
2006-08-23 16:23:41 · answer #11 · answered by cslynn1980 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋