2006-08-23 21:06:31 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
only if you let it.
in my life, my marriage is great, we still act the same towards eachother as we did as "firends with benefits" and eventually b/f and g/f.
i know we would still be in the same place without the piece of paper, that's what a marriage is all about.
2006-08-23 21:08:33 · answer #1 · answered by Fluffington Cuddlebutts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW! Is that a loaded question...
It changes enormously. If your normal life is a series of ups and downs then married life is a series of higher highs and lower lows. Everything is amplified....
However, the changes that take place after marriage are NOTHING compared to the changes after having a child...
Just strap yourself in and never stop trying....
2006-08-24 04:11:44 · answer #2 · answered by Steven H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. take me as a example. i was a wild, cranky, selfish girl before marriage. i want to have boyfriends but the friendships don't last.my mom forced me to get married through fix marriage scheme. at first i used to fight, regretting marriage but i soon understood how happy i am, with my life. i knew how to give and take, cool down tremendously, and share my thougths with my husband. its wonderful....i m not saying marriage is like bed of roses but with give and take,trying to understand each other, anyone will change one way of the other.
2006-08-24 04:48:45 · answer #3 · answered by parvathy p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Me and my husband were independent when we met, we moved in 6 months later and started that kinda marriage life so when we got married 2 years later it was like we have rings now!
My cousin lived with her family and the guy was independent. When they got married she wasn't used to doing anything like making dinner, paying bills and other simple things so 7 months later, it was straight to divorce.
2006-08-24 04:14:48 · answer #4 · answered by roukeii 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes life after marriage changes but i think its for the most part its a good change. i know that my love for my husband is stronger sence we got married! also if you have problems they are there for you for the rest of your life! also the frist year is normailly the hardest becuase you have to get used to paying bills and comprimising.
2006-08-24 04:13:59 · answer #5 · answered by the wonderer 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i thought once i got married, my life will change completely. now that i am married, i realized my relationship with my husband was exactly like being boyfriend/girlfriend (we took our relationship seriously, as in we were only devoted for each other and had no interest in dating anybody else). our personalities and how we treated each other never changed. the only thing that did changed was our title. instead of introducing each other as boyfriend and girlfriend, it's husband and wife.
2006-08-24 04:24:49 · answer #6 · answered by mymymissmai 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you have someone else to account to. You are no longer free to do and go as you wish. You have to be a responsible half of a couple. When you have children, you have to be a good parent to them, be there for them. You need to spend your money on your wife and children if you are a man.
2006-08-24 05:47:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, quite alot, lots more responsibilities, more to do with buying a home bills to pay, but all these things are shared.
2006-08-24 04:09:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes: it sure does because now he or she is intiled to half of anything he or she owns. A man thinks he owns you like you are a piece of property. Like his maid. The excitement of things between you start fading away.
2006-08-24 05:04:54 · answer #9 · answered by huera_317 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes there ll be a change. if the couples are more understanding it ll be a good change. and also we can feel ourselves as a matured and responsible person.
2006-08-24 05:36:29 · answer #10 · answered by Angel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋