Ok... this is based of a personal experience, so bear with me and don't get all offended and such. If marraige is supposed to be so sacred, why are participants so "willing" to engage in adulterous activities? I was propostiioned... and found it extreemly uncomfortable... and I want to know why "cheating" seems to be acceptable. (I am not saying every married person cheats... but I have known alot... an aweful lot... who have)
2006-08-23 20:37:19 · 8 answers · asked by Whatev' Yo' 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
All good points so far... and I agree.
2006-08-23 20:44:51 · update #1
Enigma,
for some the flesh is weak!!
2006-08-23 20:40:58 · answer #1 · answered by -------- 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hi there well im not offended but this does happen by both parties .......and some believe it or not enjoy having a 3rd or 4th person popping in and out of there marriage ......NOT MY IDEA OF FUN >>>>>>BUT TO SOME ITS OK ??????? mind boggles !!and others is because they are not happy with there partner and start to stray ,me personally i think there should be a course that you must takebefore you get married and if you can handle the course then you should have the right to get married ......there is a lot of pressure to have the wedding and make it as big as possible , and 9 times out of 10 you have a huge wedding bill that youre paying for the first 5years of marriage ?? !! crazy !! or even worse the marriage is over and the bill still exists !! even saddier i think ,im not against marriage take care xx
2006-08-24 03:50:31 · answer #2 · answered by a parent hows been there !! 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I accept it either.. When i was engaged t obe married to my x, i thought what we had was perfect and noone would intervain in our relationship and i thought, it was only me for him and i said i would die if i found out that he would see other girls. THat illussions vanish now, because wetheir we accept it or not, cheating would happen to anyone.. i can't point out the reason but one thing i know, human are very weak..prone to temptations..or they are not faithful thinking their partner would accept them still, no matter what..because i know some people who are sstill iving together despite of the existing problem. Because they have their own agenda, they have the purpose why they are still there..so sad..BUt if you don't want to be cheated, stay free..but if you can't....be ready... : )
2006-08-24 05:52:05 · answer #3 · answered by jewel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
All married people dont cheat. Just because you are approached by a married woman does mean that you have to lay with her. Just tell her like you told us, it made you very uncomfortable and go on about your business.
2006-08-24 08:45:13 · answer #4 · answered by chipmunk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people become comfortable in their relationship to the extent that they don't feel special and important anymore and also the inital excitement is gone so they try to find it somewhere else. cheating is an extremely selfish thing to do and most people who do it think they are too smart to gt caught and also they never think about the consequences orthe extent that they will hurt their partner. some married people also turn ablind eye if their partner comes home to them.
2006-08-24 03:52:56 · answer #5 · answered by burn 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's because the cheater doesn't know what the word "commitment" really entails. The Bible say marriage is sacred, but you have to remember that marriage is still between two human beings who make stupid choices and mistakes.
2006-08-24 03:49:43 · answer #6 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that is because the cheater is a selfish bastard that does not think about the pain that is going to cause to the partner.
2006-08-24 03:42:18 · answer #7 · answered by trushka 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't liek the person enough to be faithful and avoid temptation
2006-08-24 03:40:16 · answer #8 · answered by Neutro 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋