...but if "she" cheated..(maybe due to her unhappiness about his indiscretion) that SHE wouldn't do so again if they get back together ?
Is it realistic for a man to believe that?
2006-08-23 20:39:09 · 14 answers · asked by michael m 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Once a cheater always a cheater... meaning that the offending party has given into temptation once and that proves that they most likely will not be strong enough when presented with it again. Call me cynical... but that's how I see it... and this applies to all cheaters... whether male, female, gay, or straight...
2006-08-23 20:55:32 · answer #1 · answered by Whatev' Yo' 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that because in my experience he always has. My husband cant keep his thing in his pants, and none of my cheating boyfriends in the past could either. It is in my opinion in a mans nature to cheat, just to see if he can. As for woman cheating, I cheated on my ex husband, he was having an affair online and I was lonley. Its not an excuse though I shouldnt have done it, I felt terrible afterwards. He never found out but as bad as I felt doing it, if he really loved me I cant imagine how bad he would have felt. And I personally will never cheat again. My husband now has done it to me, when I found out I had a nervouse break down.
2006-08-24 13:38:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once you have had the taste of deception it is like a drug, you will no doubt do it again. A dog for example know's when it does something wrong, but if it want to do it there is no stopping it.
Once a cheat always a cheat - temptation is a powerful thing!!!
2006-08-24 03:44:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A cheat is a cheat, whether male or female. Once you cross the line for the first time, it is easier to do so again and again. When the trust goes there is nothing left!
2006-08-24 03:43:45 · answer #4 · answered by A G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a cheater is always a cheater. a partner can forgive but never forget!!!
i would not be able to live with a partner that cheated on me! I will keep remembering the pain and hurt he had caused me and I would keep mentioning the cheat. A life like that would be so very stressful, that is why I say I would never accept it if my partner cheated on me!
2006-08-24 03:45:25 · answer #5 · answered by trushka 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cheating is something that both men and women use against his/her partner. No matter how many times the partner may swear, doubt would still be there. So I don't think men are more suspicious than women, or vice versa. It's how assurance is being put into test, as well as trust.
2006-08-24 03:42:28 · answer #6 · answered by jen_good girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, that would.
because somtimes women feel they don t love their husband but when they see that they are gonna lose their happiness then they realise how much they loved their man but couldn t see that...and then promise not to cheat again to herself..because they want to get back their lucky coin again.
But when a man cheated on his wife, that s somthing...
but we can t say all men are alike...but there must be a lack of somthing that his wife can t provide it for him.. a love, a trust, kindness, sexual relationship, beauty or even time...
they all can be the reason that get a man away of his wife to another woman...and in this case this is really hard to get back one s man.
My boyfriend cheated suring the month february on me..it is really hard for me...but confess that I got busy with my own work...and when he wanted to talk to me, I was too busy for him...as a result he chatted to another girl...I am mad at him but honestly I wasn t so kind to him during that month for my own selfishness getting busy with my own interest...
and I can t forgive myself, but I promised to myself to be for him and only for him...be kind to him...
I hope I could help
2006-08-24 03:48:20 · answer #7 · answered by princessFiona 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not right for either one to cheat and there is No good reason or excuse for cheating. If you do it once,you will do it again
2006-08-24 04:08:22 · answer #8 · answered by Papa WILL 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter if it's man or woman. Once they cheat, they will keep on cheating unless they really want to change.
2006-08-24 03:43:55 · answer #9 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe if anyone cheats they will do it again
2006-08-24 03:41:39 · answer #10 · answered by HunnyBunny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋