i love someone who wants to marry me ,i know that he doesnt love me or any one else he only respects me ,and i think he is ideal but am missing love ,, may love will come after marriage may be not ,, what can i do , he is perfect , i adore him
2006-08-23 21:52:04 · 9 answers · asked by cherryshape 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Is your call. But be ready to share him. Cause when the person he would fall in love with comes along, he will kick you to the curve. Unless he is afraid of paying alimony then he will just cheat on you. Besides, you think is hard now? Just wait until respect no longer does it for you and the only answer your going to get is: you knew it before we married.
2006-08-23 22:05:57 · answer #1 · answered by carabela 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage without love... Most marriages end that way... It's a pretty dumb way to start one though!!!
Why the rush to marry? There is nothing wrong with being the best of friends, without the title of husband and wife!!!
It is great that you feel so highly of him, but until he can honestly say that he loves you, then I’d be leaving ‘marriage’ on the backburner for a while. Whilst it is nice that he respects you, and wants to marry you, the fact that marriage requires a lifelong commitment to ‘love’ each other, it really isn’t the best option for you at this time!!!
Sorry if that wasn’t what you wanted to hear.
2006-08-24 06:24:25 · answer #2 · answered by I_C_Y_U_R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
since there is nobody who is ideal, i do not see the reason why you should not marry him. further more he respects you. you have to make an effort to establish some love between the two of you. good luck!!
2006-08-24 05:02:15 · answer #3 · answered by Think-tank 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its very great of u to find an ideal guy.
if it is so, u can just marry and things would settle down.
2006-08-24 05:06:40 · answer #4 · answered by Kumar 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand why he wants to marry you. Unless, of course he's gay and in the closet! Do what you want but it won't last. Unless, of course you're in the closet too.
2006-08-24 04:57:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
passing crush. it isn't worth it loving someone more than he loves u. if in all, u have to find someone who loves u more then u love him.
then u'll be happy. trust me :)
2006-08-24 04:54:31 · answer #6 · answered by mbd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No love, atleast, no marriage!
2006-08-24 04:54:14 · answer #7 · answered by Jerdy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it unless you want be in the 50% crowd.....DIVORCED!
2006-08-24 05:02:42 · answer #8 · answered by alysonhell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you can
2006-08-24 05:36:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋