Marriage & Divorce - 19 August 2006

How do I get the message across to my husband that coming up behind me and grabbing my **** is NOT an effective way to get me in the mood? It makes me want to turn around and slap him. There is an entire body here including hair, skin, and lips. Why-oh-why does he insist on grabbing my *** and **** first?

For the love of God, can some men please tell me how their wives got through to them about this subject!!

Thank you.

2006-08-19 07:31:54 · 29 answers · asked by VNCGirl 3

I have some issues here. I am in my early 30s, I noticed that men who approached me most of them are much older than me, say in their 40s, 50s, even late 50s, and half of them are either married or with partners. The worst part is sometimes it could be my girlfriend's partners. Now I am single I have can choose to be loved to love someone, but why they would appproach me when I was married at the time.

Any ideas? I am very confused by this, just couldn't figure out. Can someone explain this. Many thanks.

2006-08-19 07:30:44 · 11 answers · asked by dolce4all 1

2006-08-19 07:29:10 · 18 answers · asked by brunetteandfree 1

My wife wanted to put a curling iron in my @ss and turn it on while we are having sex. Is this kinky?

2006-08-19 07:27:17 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I believe adultery is wrong. But as of late, the thought of watching my wife with someone well endowed causes a physical reaction. This is new to me. I feel satan put the idea in my head, but I got turned on by it.

2006-08-19 07:26:47 · 15 answers · asked by David J 1

My husband has custody of his daughter but moms leaves in chicago which is 220 miles from us. she was suppose to send her back yesterday but she didnt. what should we do?

2006-08-19 07:24:27 · 6 answers · asked by New k 1

He keep on hurting me? I saw his mobile phone and i saw a girls message to him it was intimate. It was painful to learned that he keep on fooling around until now. I am tired of talking to him about the same old story. Trying to patch things up. then after a while I will found out that he did it again. He keep on telling me he loves me and there's no where he will go but only to me. But why he keeps on hurting me?

2006-08-19 07:24:01 · 10 answers · asked by georghennie 2

it will be uncontested, we have two young children

2006-08-19 07:16:42 · 11 answers · asked by madilou2000 1

especially when he comes home and catches her in bed with someone else? what can i do to stop them from fighting

2006-08-19 07:15:02 · 8 answers · asked by darkangel 1

We get along well enough..no fighting...drinking..drugs..etc..just not happy. I can stay and put on a fake smile, so who comes first? me or family?

2006-08-19 07:11:59 · 50 answers · asked by kong-carrier 1

but now he sits and reads and rereads her old emails. im to the point where it doesnt hurt anymore it just pisses me off. im so ready to leave but i truly dont believe in divorce. should i do it anyway.

2006-08-19 07:02:42 · 37 answers · asked by starla 3

2006-08-19 07:01:39 · 27 answers · asked by bigdude852 1

My ex husband moved to Texas. I have custody of my kids.He insists that I have to take my kids to his mothers home which lives 2 hours away from me and that from there they will travel to Texas. Does he have the right to request this? shouldnt he have to pick them up from my home or have arrangements for someone to pick them up from my home? My children are 9 years old and ll years old.

2006-08-19 07:00:59 · 6 answers · asked by aztec17princess 1

Maybe I am dellusional but you decide.... My husband only worked a part day the other day and he mentioned to me "This is a coincidence but the girl that we didnt hire to watch our dog is animal sitting next door" I didnt feel comfortable about hiring her for multiple reasons and my husband knows why and yes I am a little threatened by the idea. He said that she brought her dog also and our dog and hers gets along well (but she is bird sitting why did she bring her dog) I think my husband knew she would be there and worked a short day and didnt bring our dog to his parents (his parents watch Holli every day) to introduce her dog and ours and try to slowly convince me she could watch Holli, he became irrate when I said "No wonder you worked a short day" right away he thought I was accusing him of cheating but initially I think he was planning on somehow getting her to animal sit our dog, but being he got so angry I am wondering if there was more to it...

2006-08-19 06:57:36 · 11 answers · asked by foxyraley 2

yells at me or say I am playing a game etc or says something snide to me so I am learning not to share anything with him therefore he cant be abusive to me.Is this crazy or what???

2006-08-19 06:43:36 · 12 answers · asked by ? 3

i m doing everything for him and his family. i told him many times that don't do this but he doesnt want to listen anything. he doesnt kiss me on b'day he touches me only when he wants sex. we sleep on the same bed but he doesnt kiss me.i m beautiful and i dont know why he is doing all this he knows that it hurts me? wat should i do?

2006-08-19 06:43:02 · 12 answers · asked by carrie 1

I'm a singe 31 year old British Indian muslim, never been married. In our culture we believe in arranged marriages although many young people nowadays are having love marriages.
I have had many proposals in the past but my mother has never liked any of the potential grooms and I have tended to agree with her.
Is anyone else in the same boat as me?

2006-08-19 06:36:04 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband acts like he never hears me.When I do try to talk to him he seems as though it's not important. He never takes anything I say serious.

2006-08-19 06:34:54 · 11 answers · asked by Jenny 2

Is it wrong to be a old fashioned house wife who wears dresses, stays at home and makes sure the house is pretty? Sometimes I feel like I am living in the wrong time, I like to wear vintage dresses, cook large breakfasts, always look nice.

2006-08-19 06:33:24 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-19 06:32:03 · 44 answers · asked by rahul 1

My husband and I have been married for 2 1/2 years now and since the week after we got married, he let it be know that he loves getting online and chatting up single women-plus he says hes single too! Okay, after we first got married I figured it was a "guy" thing and he wanted reassurance that he still "had it" but now its just getting old. Right now we are having problems getting prego and his job is stressful and we're away from family..but somethings gotta give right? he tells me he loves me all the time-and the sex hasnt been that great but its been hard after we had a miscarrage. lately i seen him acting weirder than normal and checked his email (ok i admit its wrong but i had to know) and hes been chattin up this separated (single) prego woman giving her support and last week she sent him naked pics and last nite they had sex chat. should i be up set? move on? how do i confront him? i feel so taken advantage of..i cook and clean. what should i do? how should i feel? im lost help

2006-08-19 06:26:14 · 28 answers · asked by Savanha L 1

(I'll call him Vince) Vince and I grew up bachelors all the way from high-school. We are the greatest friends and brothers.

However, now I am irritated by his happylife with his wife and her puppy. I don't understand. Vince was the bad one between the two of us: He did things with girls I can't imagine doing. Now however, my second marriage has fallen apart and Vince's first marriage seems to be vibrating!

I was his best mate at the wedding, but I didn't expect for them to last this long. Honestly, I didn't think Vince would propose! He never stayed with a girl longer than 3 months!

Now, there at the 7th year anniversary! My second mararige only lasted 5. I should be happy for my fraternal twin, but I feel like I've been cheated. Here I was doing the right thing all my life and now I'm suffering two divorces, while Vince so in love it's sickening!

What gives?!

2006-08-19 06:25:45 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

with someone and not be able to express it in words? I open up to my lady.. Share my inner most thoughts, feelings and otherwise. Well to me it comes easy. She on the otherhand cannot. She may show me with cards, or I love you. But to express things in her own words just doesnt come. She says to give her time she will come around but its frustrating..Just makes me feel she doesnt love me. I love her dearly... Any opinons?

2006-08-19 06:22:47 · 11 answers · asked by ? 3

In the 10 months we have been married my husban's actions have caused me to lose all trust for him by constantly lying and having emotional affairs. He says everday that he wants to work things out, yet his actions do not back up his words. He continues to lie and hide things. I don't even think I love him anymore due to the lose of trust. We enrolled in counseling for our marriage but now I'm wondering if I should even try or if I should just leave.. What do you think? Can it get better?

2006-08-19 06:17:57 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm married, but like to show off.

2006-08-19 06:14:59 · 54 answers · asked by SSP24 1

in love with boss feeling is mutual both married. what to do?

2006-08-19 06:11:51 · 22 answers · asked by txops 2

We were married when I was 18 and my wife was 16. We meet in High School. Everyone said it wouldn't last 2 years. And no she wasn't pregnant. Well, our 22'nd anniversery is coming up and we love each other and have a wonderful relationship. Is this typical or our we the exception?

2006-08-19 06:07:48 · 22 answers · asked by Digital Angst 1

2006-08-19 06:04:15 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hubby has a good looking friend that all the girls say is really hung and knows how to use it . Should he be the one or a stranger ?

2006-08-19 05:57:20 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

For example she doesn't think she is pretty even though I tell he everyday. I also buy her gifts all the time. I'm just lost and do not know what to do about this problem. Someone help me.....I don't want to leave her but i don't know how much longer i can take it

2006-08-19 05:55:15 · 15 answers · asked by Joey II 1