about older men?

Question

I have some issues here. I am in my early 30s, I noticed that men who approached me most of them are much older than me, say in their 40s, 50s, even late 50s, and half of them are either married or with partners. The worst part is sometimes it could be my girlfriend's partners. Now I am single I have can choose to be loved to love someone, but why they would appproach me when I was married at the time.

Any ideas? I am very confused by this, just couldn't figure out. Can someone explain this. Many thanks.

Answer 1

I can field this one, being one of those guys. I turned 50 last year, and I have personally evolved over the last few years to the point where I appreciate all women. As corny as it sounds, they're like flowers to me, all good. Women in their 30's are at their peak, like that flower in full bloom. They know what they want, and I have learned how to give it to them. The impatience of teenage hormonal spikes are gone, it's not just about me gettin off anymore. And, like them, no one at home is interested in a passionate, imaginative romantic, so they look elsewhere. I'm guessing you're one of those women in "full bloom". Goodluck, I hope you find happiness!

Answer 2

The answer as to why you are more likely to be hit on when married versus single...I think a married person is more self confident and open with their inner self than single people. A married person doesn't have to act a certain way because for them they have the partner of choice.

As for the older men noticing you, especially older married men, as men age they think if they surround themselves with younger people they will seem younger too. It has nothing to do, per say, with the person themselves as much as their youth. Very few younger people have anything in common with a father figure unless it's his bank account, and vice-versa, nothing in common with the young except you went to the same school as his kids.

Answer 3

I have always said the older a man gets the more perverted he is.I went through the same as you.I worked at a truckstop and I was divorced and I always had the old men hitting on me(like they really believed I would be interested) Thank God I finally found a good man and you know what? He's 2 years younger than me.I guess I did good.He's perfect for me too.It took 4 years to find him, so don't give up.You'll find somebody.

Answer 4

This is not an issue, has nothing to do with you, it is a common thing for men, married or un, to be on the prowl...if they don't ask, they ain't gonna get. Now you know how married men feel when half the women in the world are coming onto them...same thing. Good luck

Answer 5

Well speaking from the point of view of a male in his late 40's who's attached....I enjoy the pleasing and enjoyment of the women I am with....going with other attached women lessens the chance of commitment down the road. That is the key word there Commitment. Would you like to fool around ;-)

Answer 6

its not that they are older than you and find you attractive (although im sure they do and will tell you that) when a woman is married men see them as a conquest adn a chalenge.. can i have sex with her? would she be willing to cheat on hubby? all those questions and more will run through the head of a man up tono good.. when you are single you are no longer seen as a challenge and therefore knows you can have your pick of men and knowing your morals knows its not them.

Answer 7

That's the way it is when you have someone then everybody what to be with you then when you are single then you can't find nobody i know i am single now i can't figure out why its that away.

Answer 8

I AM 58 AND LIVE WITH MY LADY,SHE IS 46...OLDER GUYS JUST KNOW HOW TO TREAT A LADY.AND KNOW THERE NEEDS.

Answer 9

they don't wont commitment. so it was nice to chase u know ur free they dont wont to know. bet u have a god rack tho

Answer 10

some guys are just flat strange