2006-08-19 07:01:39 · 27 answers · asked by bigdude852 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
she has as much right to stay as you have
settle in court
2006-08-19 07:37:21 · answer #1 · answered by traveller 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, I am sorry this happening to you. Was the home yours before the wedding? If so, she should leave. If it was hers, pack your duds and get to moving on to a new life. If you bought it while married, move out till the judge decides what is your fair share. Why does she refuse to move? Can she not afford a place on her on? Or does she think you should be the one to move. If you are renting, I would find a new place that doesn't have anything to do with her! A new place = a new start. Does she want to just live with like roommates? Does she think she can say this expect things to be the same? Honey, I think it's best to just pack your things and look for new digs. If the house was yours before the wedding, you can have the police evict her, but do you want all that drama...Can you afford to stay some place to all the papers are filed and the lawyers talk some sense into her. Move back home if possible. I would contact a lawyer, and make it known you are giving up your home, you just don't have the heart to throw her out on the street. Which a lot of people would do. She would come home to find her belongings on the yard. She has not only broke your heart, she is messing with you. This is mental abuse....she's needs someone to explain that I don't love you anymore means that you leave ....
Take care of yourself, and please be careful, you have a crazy situation here, she doesn't need to hurt you anymore than she has.....God bless us all..........
2006-08-19 14:28:00 · answer #2 · answered by totallylost 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you always have the option of moving out yourself. It's not always that easy when stuff like this happens. She may have spoken before she had a game plan and just has no place else to go or can't financially afford to live on her own without your help. If it's over and you've both thrown in the towel, someone needs to move out of the bedroom. Then just start leading your own life. If divorce is on the horizon, find someone new. Chances are if you bring her home, the wife isn't going to want to stick around for that and go to great lengths to find a way to get her own place.
2006-08-19 14:11:09 · answer #3 · answered by Hollynfaith 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to solve this plm is for you to moved out and I don't see why you have to stay with her if she have no zipo no feelings for you at all. cold heart...
You need to end it and before you do go to lawyer and asked alot question about i have this truck is my and house is my and on and on and lawyer will tell y ou what you need to do to take care of this. and if you don't do it soon and she might divorce you before you do. and she will have most of it.. it better if you find lawyer and talk about it more.
I can't believe that she have no love for you and I think she is seeing someone and follow her and see what you find out what she doing and believe me get different car that she don't know it you.. and if you found out take picture and then have it made and show the lawyer and that would be the powerful proof and don't tell your wife that you found out and had picture.. and when lawyer will asked her have you cheating someone while you with your husband and she said nope. and then you have proof picture and show the court and man she will lose all the way...
hope that helps.
2006-08-19 14:25:07 · answer #4 · answered by greenbaypackers1920 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you don't love her anymore. I am guessing that she is afraid of how to make it on her own. She needs help. She needs a friend. She will probably leave when she gets her plans together. That is a huge scary step. Show her some help, patience and compassion and you will both be blessed by it. Good Luck!
2006-08-19 14:16:05 · answer #5 · answered by ♥tessa♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shurrrup gurls. This guy needs sympathy. Hey, if you cant kick her out then, its better you move out. But you wont be able to take much with you other than your own things. I mean your cloths and stuff like that. Such women are leeches. Why do you want to be sucked off all your money and health. Have peace of mind. Tell her you are moving out and take your things and move. Then things will be clear.
2006-08-19 14:09:01 · answer #6 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She could be scared to leave and be on her own. Or, maybe she still does love you and and really wants to work it out. I know this isn't the best way to go about it, but I often tell my husband I dont love him and want to move out so he will treat me better to get me to stay. Hehe. Good Luck.
2006-08-19 14:38:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should first find out why she doesnt love you anymore. Sometimes, life presents situations and circumstances that the best of us cannot fight and sometimes sticking by your significant other helps. Understand her reasoning behind her decisions and then decide your future steps. Good luck!
2006-08-19 14:31:15 · answer #8 · answered by LostHeart 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
But does she love you any less? Sounds as if you two are in a war...and no one wins a war, there are only losers. Find out what is wrong, see if it can be fixed, and set about to fix it. I know this may be a big surprise to you, but somehow, I don't think this is all her fault.
2006-08-19 14:29:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
But do you love her? Why do you want her to move out?
Just be patient and talk to her. Please work towards reconciliation. These are the challenges of marriage that you have to face. Isn't this all what marriage is about? It's important to weigh the cost of marriage before getting married.
2006-08-19 14:27:14 · answer #10 · answered by Tom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she knows what she doing// I just moved my spouse into the extra bedroom//cheaper that way// does she look good,fair or just acceptable ?? I might take her off your hands if you dont want her///let me hear from you///
2006-08-19 14:12:10 · answer #11 · answered by ma_2st 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋