i love my man but he has cant get a hard on anymore we are 18 yrs different in age what should i do?

Answer 1

Do another guy and let him watch works for me .

Answer 2

What does this 19 something kid have a desire for someone old enough to be his mother? I'm sure it isn't all your fault, but most women will have you feel like krap to believe it's all your fault. And what is this second life anyway. I've heard of second kingdom which is a medieval virtual world. There are a lot of virtual worlds where people have avitars and portray themselves and play through their character. Now if you were to get an account there and come up with a young avitar stud about 19 years old (Remember the song Escape ((the Pina Colada Song))) then you could sweep her off her feet. I could coach you through virtual worlds if you would like the chance to salvage your marriage.

Answer 3

Hi, I'm ten years younger than my husband and he needs alot of help in that area also. It is hard (no pun intended) to not take it personally. I think men need lots of visual stimulation and it is not easy on us women who want to just be taken and not have to work so hard (again, no pun intended). I know my husband wants me and feels bad when he can't get hard, but then he usually uses his mouth and hands to get me off. Try stripping for him or let him watch a porno....sometimes you have to do what you have to to get satisfied. If you have been together a long time, try something new to spice it up or get him a prescription for Viagra or something like that.

Answer 4

It can become monotanous after sometime. So,
1. Be more sexy in your dress.
2. Give him surprises like take him to a dance party.
3. May be buy him some romance novel or movies.
4. Go for a day trip out of your normal environment.
Overall point is to get him on the mood. It can be interesting.

Answer 5

You shouldn't do anything. He should go to a doctor and get his BP checked, blood sugars checked, etc. Viagra and/or Cialis may be the answer, and if not, suggest that he go to Boston Clinic (if he goes there, the next problem you will be writing about is "He won't leave me alone, and we have been married 18 years...will I ever get a break?"

Answer 6

Viagra

Answer 7

First have him see a doctor and maybe get some Viagra. You may want to get some sexy lingerie and put a show on for him. Men are stimulated by seeing also. Give him a very sensual massage.

Answer 8

Three things, either its physical in whihc case, get him a doctor's appointment, and make sure it isphyiscal... if it is, then get him the doctor's help and the appropriate drug (viagra e.g.) if it's not physical, and is mental, and he is capable of gettin it up... time to try some new things to try to get it up. Otherwise If he's just plain not interested... time to find someone else.

Answer 9

He could speak with a doctor to see if there is a medical reason behind it. In addition, he could try Viagra. Finally, you two can still enjoy intimacy--be creative! Not to get lewd, but there are other body parts that can be used to pleasure you, as well as toys. You can pleasure him by still touching him, being with him, letting him pleasure you or watch you pleasuring yourself...

Answer 10

Tell him to go see a doctor, they will
find out what the problem is and they will
give him the solution. Maybe all he needs
is a little blue pill or some minor
procedure. Either way after the
embarrassment going to the doctor
he will feel better about himself.

Answer 11

I asume that you have tried all of the Erectile Dysfunction medications. If not, try them.

If these have not helped, you might consider a Penile Implant. My understanding is that this is acually more for your pleasure than his though.

It is possible to achieve orgasm without an erection. You may be able to pleasure each other and achieve somewhat mutual satisfaction with oral sex.

Hope this helps...